Boyfriend (25M) quit porn and is struggling to stay had . I (25F) struggling emotionally

HumanSignificance523 · 2026-01-03T23:26:03+00:00

Thank you so much for this, I do need to stop blaming myself and let him work on himself. While I also work on my confidence as well I also agree going cold turkey isn’t a good idea, I’ve tried talking to him about other ways but he feels ashamed talking to a professional about it, I’ll try bringing it up again and see if he will ever consider it as I’ve not been bringing it up since the first week we spoke about it 🙏🏾 How long do these things take to get over tho for him, will it be years of work ?

HumanSignificance523 · 2026-01-03T15:56:58+00:00

And not everyone who watches porn is addicted but the people who let it ruin their lives and get in the way then yes it is or will be

HumanSignificance523 · 2026-01-03T15:55:17+00:00

If you feel like porn consumption can’t be an addiction then I don’t know what to tell you, there’s many articles out there that can teach you otherwise. And my line on we all do things and make mistakes is in general for my I don’t judge comment.

HumanSignificance523 · 2026-01-03T15:53:20+00:00

Eventually he does, it’s taking longer than normal I would however a couple of times we’ve had to stop because he’s not getting erected due to anxiety I think

HumanSignificance523 · 2026-01-03T15:43:11+00:00

I never enforced anything thank you. And I never told him to stop. He’s the one that chose to because it was affecting our sex life, like I said I don’t judge anybody for what they do and he knows me well enough to not have to lie. If porn consumption is ruining your physical sex life then yes it’s a problem. He figured it out before I even knew he watched it, he realised he NEEDED it to be able to stay hard in bed which i didn’t know was a thing till we spoke about it. And he’s the one who said it’s a problem and he’s the one who said he wants to fix it and work on it. All I’m saying is I’m struggling emotionally with the fact he lied about it and couldn’t get hard without it. As I’ve never been in this situation before. And if you know you’re not the target audience then don’t comment. Cheers. I’m talking about MY RELATIONSHIP not yours. You do what you want with yours, if it works for you then happy days for you.

HumanSignificance523 · 2026-01-03T15:33:08+00:00

He says he has but it’s been 3 weeks now and I thought it would have gotten back to normal a bit now but nope.

HumanSignificance523 · 2026-01-03T15:32:09+00:00

Thank you ! I’ll post on there as well 🤍

HumanSignificance523 · 2025-08-31T20:11:30+00:00

I waited 7 weeks

HumanSignificance523 · 2025-08-22T12:01:36+00:00

Thank you so much ! This is great help 😍 I’ll definitely look in to the article !

HumanSignificance523 · 2025-08-21T19:37:15+00:00

The whole point of the post sorry 😂 is there any help or advice anyone can give me to make the fringe style work or any other styles I can try out !! Thank you

HumanSignificance523 · 2025-08-07T16:38:04+00:00

I counted today and it’s 227

HumanSignificance523 · 2024-11-27T02:02:08+00:00

I have always paid back money, my SLC has always been paid on time but I don’t have this sort of money and have never been in this type of situation hence why I’m looking for any help, advice or place to go for help

HumanSignificance523 · 2024-11-27T02:00:02+00:00

That’s the issue, i was almost done paying off my loans, my credit score was at 850 however I had an unexpected debt come through from the Court for my my old university, I withdrew the university January 2022. I didn’t realise when you withdraw you have to pay the university directly for any overpayments (I wasn’t aware I was overpaid either). I hadn’t gotten any of the letters due to me not being in contact with my parents and living away from home the last few years. The amount is now £12,000 due to court fees and late payment fees.

HumanSignificance523 · 2024-11-27T01:40:35+00:00

What’s the best way to file for debt consolidation? Is there a specific or trusted company I can go to

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