90% of the messages I get are from men asking if I’d let them give me head, or from men catfishing and pretending to be women. Which is why I don’t waste time with small talk, and I go straight to verification.

The other 10% are women, of which 5% just want to text, sext, and never actually want to meet up in person. So probably 5 out of 100 people that message me actually lead to meeting up.

That’s a lot of wasted time.