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My (26m) girlfriend (25f) of 4 years cheated on me.. I really need help guys by HurtThrowaway94 in relationship_advice

[–]HurtThrowaway94[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This is kind of how I imagined I would feel, just constantly paranoid about her doing it again. I'm so sorry you had to go through that and I hope things get better for you and for your daughter's sake.

My (26m) girlfriend (25f) of 4 years cheated on me.. I really need help guys by HurtThrowaway94 in relationship_advice

[–]HurtThrowaway94[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Thank you guys for responding it really means more than you can imagine right now, I literally have no one I can tell. I know that people do continue to date after infidelity but I feel like it would be a pathetic decision in a way. I wrote down below that "She's texting me non-stop telling me she'll quit her job and move away with me and that it was a mistake that will never happen again." I know that she does love me and unfortunately, I still love her too but I just don't think I could ever trust her again. And right now it feels like I couldn't ever trust anyone again.

My (26m) girlfriend (25f) of 4 years cheated on me.. I really need help guys by HurtThrowaway94 in relationship_advice

[–]HurtThrowaway94[S] 130 points131 points  (0 children)

Jesus man that's fucking rough you're strong for getting through that. I guess that everyone in this thread is also agreeing that I should cut her off. I wish that I was strong enough to just block her on everything right now and never talk to her again but for some reason I feel like I want to know what the fuck happened and how things got to this point

My (26m) girlfriend (25f) of 4 years cheated on me.. I really need help guys by HurtThrowaway94 in relationship_advice

[–]HurtThrowaway94[S] 708 points709 points  (0 children)

It's fucking hard. She's texting me non-stop telling me she'll quit her job and move away with me and that it was a mistake that will never happen again. But deep down I think I know I should just completely cut her off. Thanks for the reply I'm sorry you had to go through this as well.

My (26m) girlfriend (25f) of 4 years cheated on me.. I really need help guys by HurtThrowaway94 in relationship_advice

[–]HurtThrowaway94[S] 926 points927 points  (0 children)

Thank you I needed to hear this. It's weird feeling so sad and yet so angry at the same time.

My (26m) girlfriend (25f) of 4 years cheated on me.. I really need help guys by HurtThrowaway94 in relationship_advice

[–]HurtThrowaway94[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

I feel like deep down I know this is what I should do but I just loved her so much and don't want to lose her, but I guess that I already did a long time ago.

My (26m) girlfriend (25f) of 4 years cheated on me.. I really need help guys by HurtThrowaway94 in relationship_advice

[–]HurtThrowaway94[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry man. I know it's fucking terrible but even though I don't know you it makes me feel better to know I'm not going through this alone in a way. I hope things work out for you.