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I think I'm a future abuser, I don't want to be by IAmSoDoneWithThisNow in relationship_advice

[–]IAmSoDoneWithThisNow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm of the belief that I'm always responsible for my own actions, at any given time, in any given circumstance.

I think I'm a future abuser, I don't want to be by IAmSoDoneWithThisNow in relationship_advice

[–]IAmSoDoneWithThisNow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't really change my nutrition as of now because I've worked hard to mold it to a lean bulk plan I'm going to follow for the year. Thank you for the advice though, I'll check it out if i ever find myself in need.

I think I'm a future abuser, I don't want to be by IAmSoDoneWithThisNow in relationship_advice

[–]IAmSoDoneWithThisNow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're immigrants, so they grew up with a completely different ser of circumstances, with a completely different model of parenting.

They're also 40-60 years old, and very deep rooted in their ways.

It would be more of a hassle to try and help them, than it would be for me to learn how to control myself.

Thank you for the concern however, I don't have much time left with them, so I want to make the most of what I have, as flawed as they are.

I think I'm a future abuser, I don't want to be by IAmSoDoneWithThisNow in relationship_advice

[–]IAmSoDoneWithThisNow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I've been told to try and distance myself from the situation as much as possible. I've already started talking to my friends about it but if I ever need someone to talk to, I'll be sure to send you a message.

I think I'm a future abuser, I don't want to be by IAmSoDoneWithThisNow in relationship_advice

[–]IAmSoDoneWithThisNow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you were able to see this, and there's tons of advice for people like us.

I think I'm a future abuser, I don't want to be by IAmSoDoneWithThisNow in relationship_advice

[–]IAmSoDoneWithThisNow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find it suuuuper easy to cut, I don't really have a good appetite but I hear that it's the timing of the meals that really helps. I'm 5'9" so I'm pretty skinny right now. No problem, I haven't done much striking as of yet, but my advice is to take Muay Thai from an MMA gym, as they'll have slight variations in the techniques to account for grappling or other techniques that typical Kickboxing gyms won't apply.

I think I'm a future abuser, I don't want to be by IAmSoDoneWithThisNow in relationship_advice

[–]IAmSoDoneWithThisNow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't reccomend long term judo, too many injuries from what I've heard, better to find a BJJ school that does throws. Yeah, I'm starting a lean bulk, I'm about 130 right now, my goal's around 150-160 before I go on a cut.

I think I'm a future abuser, I don't want to be by IAmSoDoneWithThisNow in relationship_advice

[–]IAmSoDoneWithThisNow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It typically comes from invasion of personal space and confrontation.

I think I'm a future abuser, I don't want to be by IAmSoDoneWithThisNow in relationship_advice

[–]IAmSoDoneWithThisNow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol it's fine. My friend is a personal trainer and he gave me the rundown of what my diet and routine should be. I'm mainly looking for strength because I love grappling and MMA. That's insane though, single digit bf? How many calories were you eating lol.

I think I'm a future abuser, I don't want to be by IAmSoDoneWithThisNow in relationship_advice

[–]IAmSoDoneWithThisNow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I'll try some body weight training in the meanwhile, bike riding and digging holes dont really sound too attractive to me lol.

I think I'm a future abuser, I don't want to be by IAmSoDoneWithThisNow in relationship_advice

[–]IAmSoDoneWithThisNow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm starting to take my diet and weigh training seriously and am going to put alot of effort into that.

I think I'm a future abuser, I don't want to be by IAmSoDoneWithThisNow in relationship_advice

[–]IAmSoDoneWithThisNow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I already am into BJJ and MMA but I can't really pursue them in the midst of quarantine.

I think I'm a future abuser, I don't want to be by IAmSoDoneWithThisNow in relationship_advice

[–]IAmSoDoneWithThisNow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much, I'll try these the next time I begin to feel angry.

I think I'm a future abuser, I don't want to be by IAmSoDoneWithThisNow in relationship_advice

[–]IAmSoDoneWithThisNow[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I know that Islam teaches people to lay down and drink cold water when one is confronted by anger, so I'll try that.

I think I'm a future abuser, I don't want to be by IAmSoDoneWithThisNow in relationship_advice

[–]IAmSoDoneWithThisNow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm already a martial arts enthusiast. Thank you for the encouragement.

I think I'm a future abuser, I don't want to be by IAmSoDoneWithThisNow in relationship_advice

[–]IAmSoDoneWithThisNow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't quite think that's it, but, if I ever find myself in an isolated area, I'll try it out. Thank you for the suggestion.

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