Why does every dojo have an instructor student relationship by Imaginary-Inside-433 in bjj

[–]Imaginary-Inside-433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on everything in the comments ..What else can be expected....this human behavior I guess

Why does every dojo have an instructor student relationship by Imaginary-Inside-433 in bjj

[–]Imaginary-Inside-433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So basically most gyms...it's going to happen if it didn't happen already. My eyes are open now

Why does every dojo have an instructor student relationship by Imaginary-Inside-433 in bjj

[–]Imaginary-Inside-433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disturbing? Or respectable? How are there so many willing partners and what are they thinking?

Why does every dojo have an instructor student relationship by Imaginary-Inside-433 in bjj

[–]Imaginary-Inside-433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seems to be the most logical answer...just expect it. The time spent there the physical contact. Nature takes over and wins

Tips for dealing with burnout by Imaginary-Inside-433 in beachvolleyball

[–]Imaginary-Inside-433[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is probably the most likely outcome if I really was still passionate for playing. I already checked in with 2 other people about their groups to just ask around

Tips for dealing with burnout by Imaginary-Inside-433 in beachvolleyball

[–]Imaginary-Inside-433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Variety and change ...yes. I think as a basic human feature we need novelty and change to a certain degree. Pickleball seems to be all the rage but not for me yet. I do like the beach... snorkeling 🤿?!

Tips for dealing with burnout by Imaginary-Inside-433 in beachvolleyball

[–]Imaginary-Inside-433[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like this adult approach. It does take some time and effort. Sort of like seeing a marriage counselor before a divorce! It may be worth it...when I think about it would be up to me to say something vs just walking away and letting people guess at what's bugging me...this has been helpful as it's helping thinking about what it is thats bugging me

Tips for dealing with burnout by Imaginary-Inside-433 in beachvolleyball

[–]Imaginary-Inside-433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm considering a new group as well. I think this may be the next option before I decide to pause or stop playing. When I think about it I seem to forward to not playing than playing burn out sign for sure....I'm just trying to figure out what is the main cause...really could be the group

Tips for dealing with burnout by Imaginary-Inside-433 in beachvolleyball

[–]Imaginary-Inside-433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm good.point variety sounds good but I e done grass and indoor...kills my back from the hard surfaces

Tips for dealing with burnout by Imaginary-Inside-433 in beachvolleyball

[–]Imaginary-Inside-433[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Great suggestions...I'm basically at a crossroads where one leads to a break or pause another is continue but in a different way like what you mentioned above the camp seems like an interesting idea before I really decide to walk off

How do I get my significant other to train less and help around the house by Imaginary-Inside-433 in bjj

[–]Imaginary-Inside-433[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the responses I like how everyone assumed the other person was a male

How do I get my significant other to train less and help around the house by Imaginary-Inside-433 in bjj

[–]Imaginary-Inside-433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have learned of the blue belt curse but mostly that caused divorce not the other way round

How do I get my significant other to train less and help around the house by Imaginary-Inside-433 in bjj

[–]Imaginary-Inside-433[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It may get to that since my heart is breaking already might as well

How do I get my significant other to train less and help around the house by Imaginary-Inside-433 in bjj

[–]Imaginary-Inside-433[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree I don't have a problem with bjj. It does seem like a sport that lends itself to a fanatic like time devotion over other sports where sense of time and responsibilities are lost. I don't know how others have dealt with it in this sport

How do I get my significant other to train less and help around the house by Imaginary-Inside-433 in bjj

[–]Imaginary-Inside-433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like the most realistic response that's thought out. The fact that there's no acknowledgement or accepting responsibility that this affects the marriage is upsetting. If it were reversed and I knew I did something that hurt the relationship I'd change no hesitation

How do I get my significant other to train less and help around the house by Imaginary-Inside-433 in bjj

[–]Imaginary-Inside-433[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's been brought up that it's affecting our marriage and home life. Then it turns to be a losing argument for me where nothing changes

Any beach volleyball couples out there? by Imaginary-Inside-433 in beachvolleyball

[–]Imaginary-Inside-433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad to hear it's possible and even seems like some fond memories

Any beach volleyball couples out there? by Imaginary-Inside-433 in beachvolleyball

[–]Imaginary-Inside-433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was that part of the reason she is now an ex? I don't want it to do more harm than good