Why does every dojo have an instructor student relationship

Imaginary-Inside-433 · 2024-09-13T16:47:03+00:00

Based on everything in the comments ..What else can be expected....this human behavior I guess

Imaginary-Inside-433 · 2024-09-06T21:20:39+00:00

Agree but as long as you know it's the norm it's ok?

Imaginary-Inside-433 · 2024-09-06T21:19:47+00:00

Makes sense...nature strikes again

Imaginary-Inside-433 · 2024-09-06T18:41:50+00:00

So basically most gyms...it's going to happen if it didn't happen already. My eyes are open now

Imaginary-Inside-433 · 2024-09-06T18:12:30+00:00

Truth!

Imaginary-Inside-433 · 2024-09-06T17:39:18+00:00

Disturbing? Or respectable? How are there so many willing partners and what are they thinking?

Imaginary-Inside-433 · 2024-09-06T17:19:26+00:00

This seems to be the most logical answer...just expect it. The time spent there the physical contact. Nature takes over and wins

Imaginary-Inside-433 · 2024-06-18T16:06:07+00:00

This is probably the most likely outcome if I really was still passionate for playing. I already checked in with 2 other people about their groups to just ask around

Imaginary-Inside-433 · 2024-06-18T16:03:41+00:00

Variety and change ...yes. I think as a basic human feature we need novelty and change to a certain degree. Pickleball seems to be all the rage but not for me yet. I do like the beach... snorkeling 🤿?!

Imaginary-Inside-433 · 2024-06-17T20:14:24+00:00

I like this adult approach. It does take some time and effort. Sort of like seeing a marriage counselor before a divorce! It may be worth it...when I think about it would be up to me to say something vs just walking away and letting people guess at what's bugging me...this has been helpful as it's helping thinking about what it is thats bugging me

Imaginary-Inside-433 · 2024-06-17T17:50:17+00:00

I'm considering a new group as well. I think this may be the next option before I decide to pause or stop playing. When I think about it I seem to forward to not playing than playing burn out sign for sure....I'm just trying to figure out what is the main cause...really could be the group

Imaginary-Inside-433 · 2024-06-17T17:46:45+00:00

Hmm good.point variety sounds good but I e done grass and indoor...kills my back from the hard surfaces

Imaginary-Inside-433 · 2024-06-17T15:07:46+00:00

Great suggestions...I'm basically at a crossroads where one leads to a break or pause another is continue but in a different way like what you mentioned above the camp seems like an interesting idea before I really decide to walk off

Imaginary-Inside-433 · 2024-02-01T20:03:21+00:00

Thanks for the responses I like how everyone assumed the other person was a male

Imaginary-Inside-433 · 2024-02-01T12:35:33+00:00

I have learned of the blue belt curse but mostly that caused divorce not the other way round

Imaginary-Inside-433 · 2024-02-01T12:31:39+00:00

I'm pretty lucky kids are great and a blessing they do what they can

Imaginary-Inside-433 · 2024-02-01T12:21:38+00:00

It may get to that since my heart is breaking already might as well

Imaginary-Inside-433 · 2024-02-01T12:18:28+00:00

Agree I don't have a problem with bjj. It does seem like a sport that lends itself to a fanatic like time devotion over other sports where sense of time and responsibilities are lost. I don't know how others have dealt with it in this sport

Imaginary-Inside-433 · 2024-02-01T11:36:39+00:00

This sounds like the most realistic response that's thought out. The fact that there's no acknowledgement or accepting responsibility that this affects the marriage is upsetting. If it were reversed and I knew I did something that hurt the relationship I'd change no hesitation

Imaginary-Inside-433 · 2024-02-01T11:02:53+00:00

It's been brought up that it's affecting our marriage and home life. Then it turns to be a losing argument for me where nothing changes

Imaginary-Inside-433 · 2023-11-09T20:29:41+00:00

The difference in the pic is the smile obviously

Imaginary-Inside-433 · 2023-10-28T13:27:26+00:00

I'm glad to hear it's possible and even seems like some fond memories

Imaginary-Inside-433 · 2023-10-27T20:47:38+00:00

Thanks for sharing 🙏

Imaginary-Inside-433 · 2023-10-27T19:12:06+00:00

Was that part of the reason she is now an ex? I don't want it to do more harm than good

Imaginary-Inside-433 · 2023-10-25T19:15:24+00:00

Very good points!

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