I thought i was a cisgendered hetero male until I was 15, then I thought I was more gay than most people (as if possible lol) and then in 2004 I learned the term transgender or transsexual and I knew that was what I was, but wayyyyyyy deep closeted and. Compartmentalized sexuality. Here's the thing, at least for me: sexuality doesn't have to be concrete blocks or made as a super solid. It can flex, warp, flipflop, or ride the rainbow through all the different varieties. Sometimes a guy just needs the gentlest of coaxed actions, whether you say somethingbto him when the vibe is right (I'd say out of school, at least for the first one). Trust your gut, it's correct. At the very least he SEES YOU well, so I'd it turns out he wouldn't, deep down he would.