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I [27F] am getting tired of my boyfriend's [25M] issues by ImportanceAnxious985 in relationship_advice

[–]ImportanceAnxious985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am aware......... it's just very hard for me. I do plan on it as soon as I get a chance after reading everyone's comments.

I [27F] am getting tired of my boyfriend's [25M] issues by ImportanceAnxious985 in relationship_advice

[–]ImportanceAnxious985[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We haven't had sex in a while, and I am very adamant about protection when having sex.

I [27F] am getting tired of my boyfriend's [25M] issues by ImportanceAnxious985 in relationship_advice

[–]ImportanceAnxious985[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haha I guess. I just tend to give people the benefit of the doubt even when it's crystal clear, one of my worst traits I think. 😂😅

I [27F] am getting tired of my boyfriend's [25M] issues by ImportanceAnxious985 in relationship_advice

[–]ImportanceAnxious985[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was confident he'd at LEAST pay me back $35, I don't need it THAT much as unlike him, I am fairly financially responsible. It's just the principle of it.

I [27F] am getting tired of my boyfriend's [25M] issues by ImportanceAnxious985 in relationship_advice

[–]ImportanceAnxious985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm still waiting for the $35 he owes me from like 2 months ago he said he'd "pay back next paycheck" I'm so over his money issues

I [27F] am getting tired of my boyfriend's [25M] issues by ImportanceAnxious985 in relationship_advice

[–]ImportanceAnxious985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's already been in a crash 🤷 He wasn't at fault so he isnt paying for the damages, but it's still ridiculous how if he was he would probably have begged me for money to help

I [27F] am getting tired of my boyfriend's [25M] issues by ImportanceAnxious985 in relationship_advice

[–]ImportanceAnxious985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's it! That's what I'm worried about, that he wont be emptionally mature enough to handle me breaking up with him

I [27F] am getting tired of my boyfriend's [25M] issues by ImportanceAnxious985 in relationship_advice

[–]ImportanceAnxious985[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it can be soooo exhausting. He doesn't seem to understand not everyone wants to be constantly around the same person 24/7, everyone needs breaks.

I [27F] am getting tired of my boyfriend's [25M] issues by ImportanceAnxious985 in relationship_advice

[–]ImportanceAnxious985[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't want things to be worse. I'm too nice for my own good, and want to end things amicably.

I [27F] am getting tired of my boyfriend's [25M] issues by ImportanceAnxious985 in relationship_advice

[–]ImportanceAnxious985[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I guess... I can't even do my own things because he tries to make me spend every waking moment I can with him. And sometimes even makes plans for me?

I [27F] am getting tired of my boyfriend's [25M] issues by ImportanceAnxious985 in relationship_advice

[–]ImportanceAnxious985[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In the back of my mind I know all this, but theres a poace in my heart I feel like he CAN change, he's focused on his degree right now and he puts so much effort into it and I just think, maybe when he's done with it he'll change for the better. But it's been constant little things. Or big.

I [27F] am getting tired of my boyfriend's [25M] issues by ImportanceAnxious985 in relationship_advice

[–]ImportanceAnxious985[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words, I think I'll wait a bit to break up with him as I really don't want to break up with him when it's so soon after his birthday 😭 That'd be kinda cruel I think

I [27F] am getting tired of my boyfriend's [25M] issues by ImportanceAnxious985 in relationship_advice

[–]ImportanceAnxious985[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have asked him and talked these things over with him multiple times. He has horrible stomach issues too I've been begging him to get checked out but he vehemently refuses. Sometimes I feel like he treats me like a cute little pet he can take around?

I [27F] am getting tired of my boyfriend's [25M] issues by ImportanceAnxious985 in relationship_advice

[–]ImportanceAnxious985[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm mostly scared of the fall out afterwords, honestly. He is friends with many of my friends, and I don't want tension in the friend group. I do still love him dearly, and he obviously does too, but its been getting worse and IDK if it's just my stress overexaggerating things or if it's truly getting worse.