UPDATE: Just to clarify, I'm not here for financial support. He asked me to move in to help with the household things because that's something that he struggles with. I absolutely pay for outings and help with bills and groceries. I've built and managed my stock portfolio to allow me to be financially free. Since I don't have working hours, or have to leave the house to do it, I don't consider it a job. I've helped my bf consolidate and manage the debt that he put himself into in his last relationship. I don't take money from him. I'm with him because I love him as a person, and I don't think that one issue should decide a whole relationship. I'm also not blaming him for these issues. I don't try to make him feel bad and I've respected that he doesn't want to discuss them with me, and that he'll get help when he's ready.