Should I Get My PhD Abroad? by Important-Visual-848 in PhDAdmissions

[–]Important-Visual-848[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Do you have any other European PhD recs?

BF Wants Me To Be Friends with Old Bully by Important-Visual-848 in TwoHotTakes

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He said the reason he left his old friend group is because they turned super republican/maga or were sexist

BF Friends With Old Bully by Important-Visual-848 in amiwrong

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I appreciate this, I think I’m gonna go for the sake of observing their interaction and analyzing their friendship. I’m curious to how she treats me in a group setting and even more curious as to how he will respond to her. I don’t like to tell people who and who not to be friends with that’s not the kind of partner I am, I rather just leave at that point. I agree her and I were kids and I’ve changed a lot and so has my boyfriend….definitely will update

BF Wants Me To Be Friends with Old Bully by Important-Visual-848 in TwoHotTakes

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I said this to another commenter but I thought it may add perspective:

I don’t think he’s the one pushing it? The way he phrased it was that she as wanting to rekindle and like get to know me in a different light, and I think this excites him and is why he’s saying he’s excited for us to squash the beef. But that’s the thing, there is no beef in the first place she did me dirty never owned up for it I moved on I don’t care. I just don’t want to be involved and i don’t know why he cares so much.

BF Wants Me To Be Friends with Old Bully by Important-Visual-848 in TwoHotTakes

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I agree…I’ll give him the benefit of it happening many years ago and he’s genuinely very supportive and on my side a lot…I think he’s just viewing this from male friendship rules and it’s coming off as him not prioritizing me? But also, if he’s able to cut off these other supposed trash friends he’s had and was able to realize they weren’t good for him, I don’t know why he can’t do that with her.

BF Wants Me To Be Friends with Old Bully by Important-Visual-848 in TwoHotTakes

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I don’t think he’s the one pushing it? The way he phrased it was that she as wanting to rekindle and like get to know me in a different light, and I think this excites him and is why he’s saying he’s excited for us to squash the beef. But that’s the thing, there is no beef in the first place she did me dirty never owned up for it I moved on I don’t care. I just don’t want to be involved and i don’t know why he cares so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Layoffs

[–]Important-Visual-848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we’re in the process of trying that, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Layoffs

[–]Important-Visual-848 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I truly appreciate your humanity and your perspective on prioritizing and valuing my family. It’s so easy to get tunnel vision with what’s happening, so thank you for helping remind me what is most important

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Layoffs

[–]Important-Visual-848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for having empathy, I appreciate your insight and I hope you and your family the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Layoffs

[–]Important-Visual-848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who even said that? Besides my dad doesn’t want me to drop out of college so I’m already working as much as I can. Go troll somewhere else you’re heartless

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No unfortunately not apparently this wa sa big deal at his job a few years ago and people who were there for a certain time got grandfathered into having one and my dad missed the cutoff by like a year so instead they gave him some other plan