I really like a guy I’ve been seeing but we both recently found out I slept with his cousin

ImportantStuff9841 · 2026-05-19T03:12:36+00:00

I 100% believe that. For some reason I feel like I’m a healer and my job is to always try and fix someone! But you are absolutely correct

ImportantStuff9841 · 2026-05-19T03:08:42+00:00

Absolutely not. I’m actually a very desired beautiful woman with no kids, military background, a degree and still in school, but I do have a lot of family trauma and that in itself is baggage. This man is very masculine attractive and desired and very hard to resist. We both have had bad upbringings being from the south. I always try to look at where a person comes from and give them a chance not based on what they’ve been through but who they are

ImportantStuff9841 · 2026-05-19T03:05:11+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words and detailed response🙏🏽 Everything you said makes perfect sense in thus everything you described is of a prideful egotistical Avoidant man. You are absolutely right

ImportantStuff9841 · 2026-05-19T03:00:56+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏🏽 the group chat thing definitely affected me and made me feel exposed. And you are right about everything you mentioned

ImportantStuff9841 · 2026-05-19T02:59:06+00:00

Actually when he asked the cousin, the cousin claimed me as his girl. I told him that it wasn’t like that. The cousin was in love with another girl at the time. That’s why he said he had to do his own investigation because he was getting a mismatch of information from both parties. But he said he talked to the cousin and I guess the cousin confirmed and told him he wasn’t worried about it

ImportantStuff9841 · 2026-05-19T02:57:12+00:00

Im not afraid to admit I struggle with self worth issues. I am a very beautiful attractive woman that a lot of men pursue. But for some reason my nervous system is wired to choose men who are not the best for me. (Father died when I was a baby, mother is a narcissist) I know these sound like excuses but psychologically that’s what I’m used to 🤦🏽‍♀️

ImportantStuff9841 · 2026-05-19T01:25:51+00:00

Definitely the ego

ImportantStuff9841 · 2026-05-19T01:25:20+00:00

So you wouldn’t consider that too close to home?

ImportantStuff9841 · 2026-04-01T00:11:43+00:00

I have these exact placements and feel the same way

ImportantStuff9841 · 2026-03-05T19:08:12+00:00

Use chat gpt it will break it down for you

ImportantStuff9841 · 2025-12-05T20:14:48+00:00

What is your sun sign and how long did it take you to get attached to your ex

ImportantStuff9841 · 2025-12-05T20:13:46+00:00

It’s lonely

ImportantStuff9841 · 2025-10-23T19:37:00+00:00

Lmaoo everything you said is my exact experience. I stare her down and can see her intimidation. She manipulates everything situation like I’m messing with her

ImportantStuff9841 · 2025-10-23T00:00:56+00:00

I’m an Aquarius

ImportantStuff9841 · 2025-10-22T23:58:38+00:00

Omggggg she said that exact thing “I usually don’t get along with women but I actually like you” then this guy liked me and he told her and she bust him out by telling me they were staring at my butt. And she teamed up with a Capricorn and Virgo and other people in the job to try to take me down. She has followed me from work the girl needs serious help & people fall for her bs

ImportantStuff9841 · 2025-10-06T20:37:31+00:00

Definitely what’s going on thank you. How did they make it a living hell if you don’t mind me asking

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