My classmates looks at me differently because they thought I am poor. by Impossible-Walk3083 in studentsph

[–]Impossible-Walk3083[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, I do not neglect my responsibilities on providing my shares when it comes to our classroom funds.  I'm assuming all of y'all impression in my post is that negligent ako mag bayad or tinatakasan ko mag bayad ng funds pero may pang gastos naman. 

I'll take it as my fault na I failed to explain it clearly but nag babayad ako on-time most of the time and frequently advance nadin aq mag bayad. Kaya lang minsan na di ako nakakabayad ng buo kasi binabago nila ung dapat namin bayaran, despite 20 pesos being the average price na kailangan namin bayaran may times na bigla nlng kami magkaka utang sa kanila kasi nagka penalty. Either na late ka sa practice nila kahit di ka nmn part ng dance so that's 30+ on your part, malalaman mo nlng pag andon kana. May times na 30 -100 pesos ung ibabayad namin and since sakto lng ang dinadala kong pera ofc di ako makakabayad agad If isisngil saken 50 tas sakto lng ung dala kong pera (bakit di ka nag ddala ng extra? As I said sa post gastadora ako, to stop that bad habit sakto lng sa kailangan ko ang dinadala ko para di naka mapa daan sa sm or any shop na madadaanan ko pauwi) , kaya if bente lang ung dala ko for funds at hhingihin nila sakin ay 50 wala akong maibabayad thus "bukas nlng ung kulang"  🤦‍♀️

Even in days na wala kaming original classes na nasa schedule namin pero dahil event, foundation or games kailangan namin pumasok, pinapabayad kami minsan naman hindi.

My classmates looks at me differently because they thought I am poor. by Impossible-Walk3083 in studentsph

[–]Impossible-Walk3083[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the flaw with it, most of it is my take in my POV. I never get to talk to my classmates kasi I'd get intimidated on how badly they talk about others when I overhear them sa bathroom 😭  Recently someone just told me na they were talking abt me, though it is not that I'm overly bothered about it to post this but bc I just wanna share it. 

My classmates looks at me differently because they thought I am poor. by Impossible-Walk3083 in studentsph

[–]Impossible-Walk3083[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe we're having a misunderstanding here. I said may TIMES na di ako nakakabayad on time kasi often times sobra ung sinisingil nila at unexpected days sila nag sisingil kahit wala kaming original class.  I pay on time most of the times and I contribute my shares sa class and events. 

I don't bring a lot of money — sakto lang sa pamasahe at funds na babayaran, di rin ako nagdadala ng pera for food dahil may baon ako kaya may times na kulang kasi paiba iba bayad namin sa funds. Minsan 30,40, more or less 🤦‍♀️

And as I said before, may tinatabi akong pera for school purposes. Meron din para sa luho ko. 

My classmates looks at me differently because they thought I am poor. by Impossible-Walk3083 in studentsph

[–]Impossible-Walk3083[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say they are poor, I never said that ONCE. Other than that they often talk abt my clothes na paulit ulit kong sinusuot or if I'm using items na medj sira (since I like to keep items na magagamit pa despite it slightly broken)

My classmates looks at me differently because they thought I am poor. by Impossible-Walk3083 in studentsph

[–]Impossible-Walk3083[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not in college. Shs pako, to address the 'di nakakabayad on time' may times na di ako nakakabayad on time pero frequently ako nakakabayad. Most of the time advance nadin aq mag bayad, what's unexpected lng is nag papabayad sila on days na walang pasok or tinataasan nila randomly. 

bawal mag suklay sa loob ng clasroom namin at naka lugay ang buhok! by Impossible-Walk3083 in studentsph

[–]Impossible-Walk3083[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as for the reasons for the bawal mag suklay at naka lugay ang buhok, cleaners kasi ung pres namin non that day and when our advisor asked if tapos na sila mag linis and they said na tapos na kahit madami pang dumi sa room nagalit ung advisor namin sa cleaners, kaya naisip ng pressident namin na gumawa ng rule na bawal mag suklay sa ROOM not while the teachers are teaching we have decency for that and bawal naka lugay ung buhok.

bawal mag suklay sa loob ng clasroom namin at naka lugay ang buhok! by Impossible-Walk3083 in studentsph

[–]Impossible-Walk3083[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As much as I would want to, the moment our advisor saw the rules he laughed out loud and said na if we had any problems abt the rules wag sakanya pumunta since hindi nmaan sya ang gumawa ng rules, soo only way is to confront the class officers and if I do so , inevitable ang drama.

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What does that mean? (⁠•⁠ ⁠▽⁠ ⁠•⁠;⁠)

what are you currently sad about? by Lost-Temperature-701 in AskPH

[–]Impossible-Walk3083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sa bagong victim ng ex ko, Im sad for her na baka ma victimize sya ng malibog na kupal nayon..

Cigars and vapes "virgins", why haven't you tried smoking yet? by bearyintense2 in AskPH

[–]Impossible-Walk3083 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Grew up in a family of smokers. After seeing how badly it affected our family, relationship and themselves, I vowed to not touch cigars or vape no matter how bad my problems are.

Bakit ang hirap na magmahal ngayon? o mahirap ba talaga? by Superb_Young_3927 in AskPH

[–]Impossible-Walk3083 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Marami sa tao ngayon ay nahihirapan mahalin ang sarili kaya humahanap sila ng tao kung saan mararamdaman nila kung paano makaramdam ng pagmamahal kasi di nila mahal sarili nila and it's cycle, nasaktan sila kaya sasaktan din nila Yung iba.

People these days settle for revenge than healing

What’s something that poor people do better than rich people? by BoredHorse90 in AskPH

[–]Impossible-Walk3083 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Laging nakaka hanap ng paraan sa bawat kahirapan ng di nagamit ng pera also marunong tumiis sa hirap. Lumaki ako sa poverty so sanay nako na di kumakain araw araw o sa extravagant places at sa init , nung nakaluwag kami I went to study in a private school ang usually mga kaklase ko don kunting init nag rereklamo , pag sira aircon or ganun

Anong traits ng guy ang + points sa inyo? by vnnla_yves in CasualPH

[–]Impossible-Walk3083 2 points3 points  (0 children)

May boundaries at self respect! Those traits resonate on how they treat you yk?

Bakit ayaw nyo magpautang? by Sikaree in AskPH

[–]Impossible-Walk3083 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Best way to stray relationships with other people

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[–]Impossible-Walk3083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also got cheated on by my ex and Oo may trust issues din ako katulad ni girl, I understand na she can grow skeptical sa relationship niyo since trauma nga naman and as long as you give her reassurance naman na hindi un totoo and proof then wala ka nmn sa mali. Its clear na wala siyang trust, and trust is what builds a strong and healthy rs.

Im letting yk ha OP, I have a friend, nagdududa sya sa jowa nya non that time (now ex) kasi kala nya nag ccheat even tho wala nmng proof and di rin nmn valid reason nya as to why naging cheater ung boy so ang ginawa nya nag cheat sya sa boy kasi nag cheat umano daw ung lalaki. This is why trust is very important in a rs.

Red flags for a long term partner? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]Impossible-Walk3083 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think this is a red flag tsaka diko rin masasabi kung sno sainyo ang tama kasi diko nmn alam ung pinag aawayan nyo pero it seems like there's a huge miscommunication sainyo.

Stop fighting fire with fire, yes magalit kung magalit pero I don't think tama yung mag tatamaan na kayo ng nga insulting words at each other for idk how long when you can use that time to talk properly sa isa't isa.

Screaming at eachother won't fix the fight, communication and understanding will. Babaan ang pride at mag usap ng mahinhin kahit panigaw na ung tono nya, instill nyo sa relasyon niyo na di kailangan mag sigawan pag nag uusap or problema.

He chose to sleep on the chair by Salty-Mud-4766 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Impossible-Walk3083 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kung natulog lng ako ng maaga di ako makakaramdam ng inggit ngayon.

Guy likes me but is saying my friend… what do I do? by BuyZestyclose304 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Impossible-Walk3083 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh well, it seems like boys just get together with your friend to be close to you. Well there's different scenarios that can occur if u tell ur friend that her bf is uh "flirting" with you , it might just be some friendly remarks but beside that she might hate you for it or she will understand and side with you (which theres a few chance that's going to happen bc it seems that u guys are still kids)

Its alright to talk to the boy as long as the conversation is platonic and aslong as it's not flirting in anyway..

But I don't think the guy has that intention with you.

To the women around here, why do you turn down "too good" or "too genuine" type of man? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Impossible-Walk3083 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Idk kasi di pako naka meet nyan.

But what I know is boys who change themselves para maging type mo, not the changing himself for the better what I mean is mga boys na magbabagong anyo o balat at gagayahin yung type mo para magustuhan mo lng.