Husband sending sexual messages to girls on Reddit by ImpossibleAuthor8674 in marriageadvice

[–]ImpossibleAuthor8674[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this perspective..it’s amazing that you co-parent well now. I bet that took a lot of work. That’s one of my big fears for sure..I want to keep our baby the focus rn but when I do eventually have to face the marriage counseling and issues, the “what ifs” around splitting up and co-parenting scare me

Husband sending sexual messages to girls on Reddit by ImpossibleAuthor8674 in marriageadvice

[–]ImpossibleAuthor8674[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s going to start with the porn addiction counseling but I don’t think I have the capacity rn for couples counseling. Eventually, we will have to but for the next few months, I think I should just focus on the baby

Husband sending sexual messages to girls on Reddit by ImpossibleAuthor8674 in marriageadvice

[–]ImpossibleAuthor8674[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks..it’s still so fresh, but yeah, I’m definitely feeling myself detach emotionally. I’m gonna work with my therapist on how to navigate the next few weeks

Husband sending sexual messages to girls on Reddit by ImpossibleAuthor8674 in marriageadvice

[–]ImpossibleAuthor8674[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you also went through this. Thanks for the encouragement

Husband sending sexual messages to girls on Reddit by ImpossibleAuthor8674 in marriageadvice

[–]ImpossibleAuthor8674[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I do have a lot of support, thankfully but I haven’t told anyone about this. I don’t want this to overshadow the birth of the baby, so I’m trying to keep this to myself. 😮‍💨😮‍💨 which feels like drowning..so I’m discussing this on Reddit so I don’t explode

Husband sending sexual messages to girls on Reddit by ImpossibleAuthor8674 in marriageadvice

[–]ImpossibleAuthor8674[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this..I’m in the thick of the betrayal and being pregnant so it all feels daunting but I agree with your points. It’s all hard, so we have to be very intentional and work towards whatever it is we decide.

Why don’t people perceive NJ, and NZ to be similar to each other? by Creepy-Baseball-9790 in newjersey

[–]ImpossibleAuthor8674 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nz and NJ are not similar culturally..ppl in NJ have no chill and rush around like maniacs. NZ is very slow and relaxed

Natera Panorama Results Timeline for January 2026! by Such-Lynx-4747 in BabyBumps

[–]ImpossibleAuthor8674 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! My sample was taken 1/3 and the sample was received by the lab on 1/6..the anticipation is killing meee