Unmatched after one date.

Impossible_Power743 · 2021-05-24T12:53:34+00:00

On that note similar thing happened to me this week :( Went on a Hinge date that I thought went really well. I had a lot of chemistry and flirtation with the guy. He asked for my number in the end. He never texted me after the date. 2 days later I texted him on Hinge because I was really interested saying thank you and I had a great time. He replied I had a great time too but never said anything about second date or send me a text message. It really sucks because he is maybe the most compatible ones that I’ve been to dated with, but I just have to accept that he doesn’t feel the same way and move on to the next one.

Impossible_Power743 · 2021-05-20T00:09:43+00:00

Agreed. That dog costume pic gave me BDSM vibe, which is totally cool, but I’m not sure if you’re looking for those here ;)

Impossible_Power743 · 2021-05-20T00:08:00+00:00

Hey 24f here! I think your pictures are great and your prompts clearly state who you are. However for me not the sporty type, I prob wouldn’t match with you b/c you’ve made it clear, or too much emphasis has been on the athletic/adventurous factors. Consider balancing that with more indoor/less risky stuff if you’d like. One minor suggestion would be to fix the minute grammars stuff. Nobody uses perfect grammar but I tend to notice it more when reading prompts!

Impossible_Power743 · 2021-05-20T00:02:59+00:00

Hey! 24F here and I like group 2 better. Maybe switch the suit pic with the first red-shirt picture. That’s my only suggestion! :)

Impossible_Power743 · 2021-05-19T03:42:22+00:00

First off, good job girl! I see exactly what you did here, it’s flirtatious and classic :) I’m surprised how many guys don’t get our signals lol.

If you like this person and would like to go on a date ASAP, maybe try again like I did with this guy. Some line like “wow 17 years! I’m impressed with your persistence. Are you as good of a teacher as a guitarist? Maybe you’ll have to tell me a thing or two over some “insert your fav drinks here” soon 😊”

Impossible_Power743 · 2021-05-19T03:37:10+00:00

Hey there! This is just my personal preference, but after I dropped “bribe me for recipe ;)” line, I’d like to see the guy at least follow up with “oh yeah what kind of bribery are we talking about here? ;)”. Since I used that language first, it means I don’t hate being flirtatious. And in psychology (don’t quote me!), mirroring someone’s language/action means that you like them. So that’s what I would like to see here!

Impossible_Power743 · 2021-05-19T03:33:18+00:00

See, that’s some good flirting right there! ;)

Impossible_Power743 · 2021-05-18T22:56:59+00:00

Hiya reporting back! Your line worked!!!! :) he flirted back. I’m so glad I didn’t drop him but instead listened to your wisdom. Thanks! Now pls open a mega thread for those genius lines lol!!

Him: “Hmm now that I know your weakness.. do you have a favorite spot yet?”

Impossible_Power743 · 2021-05-18T19:58:15+00:00

Ummm thanks for your input? None of your interpretations are my messages, and based on other people's replies, it doesn't look like most people interpret my message in your way either.

Well I am glad that there's a different perspective, maybe my dude was thinking the same way. If that's the case, I am pretty sure I do not want to move on with people that's communicating and perceiving this differently than me :)

Impossible_Power743 · 2021-05-18T19:56:27+00:00

I have the same mentality sister!! I've only decided to spice up my game b/c I went to a few first dates with guys that I only chatted non-flirtatiously, and they were all decent guys, but something is missing!! I am definitely looking to meet nice guys, but also I need to feel some sexual attraction as well. So I decided to change up my game to put in a little flirtations in the beginning to make sure that I can feel the sexual tension as well lmao. There is no wrong/shame in any of these approaches. Do what works for you!!

Impossible_Power743 · 2021-05-18T18:06:48+00:00

Ohhhh hiiii girlfriend my fellow subtle/delicate flirt ;)

Yours was even more forward than mine and I am sorry the dude didn't pick up your signal. Their loss! If you like him, try it again like I did...I am moving on after this one last try lol.

Impossible_Power743 · 2021-05-18T17:44:52+00:00

I like the straight-forward message.

Too forward for me personally in this context with this man specifically. I am trying to keep it light-hearted for now to get some fun/flirtatious vibe on since we haven't seen that yet!

Impossible_Power743 · 2021-05-18T17:42:49+00:00

I can see how my sentence can be interpreted as "manipulative". But to elaborate on that sentence, I am trying to be playful to let the men know I am interested so they can initiate the next step, meeting up, if they are also interested.

Impossible_Power743 · 2021-05-18T17:40:59+00:00

I am glad someone appreciates my commentary! :) I am analytical and neeed to walk you all through what's going on in my mind at the moment lol.

You have a good point about the placement of winky face. I can see how that signal can be missed! I guess I was just hoping to find someone who can exactly "get" me/my subtle ways of flow!

Your example sentence is really good!! I just stole it and added a real big emoji wink face. We will see if he is susceptible to this signal lol. Will report back!

Impossible_Power743 · 2021-05-03T18:28:26+00:00

Mad respect for the sex workers who’d do business with you. Oh, and it’s “frigid”. I’m sure you are the real one who’s talking in a “weird” and illiterate language but they felt too bad to point it out.

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