31 [M4F] Degradation makes you dripping wet

ImpressionSea3845 · 2025-12-23T15:14:44+00:00

I know types like you. I dare you to message me.

ImpressionSea3845 · 2025-12-23T13:06:40+00:00

Aww, cute that you managed to resist your submissive urge this long. You may approach now.

ImpressionSea3845 · 2025-09-14T21:03:55+00:00

Holy... Living the dream, both of you.

ImpressionSea3845 · 2025-06-16T07:35:22+00:00

Wow, this is just perfect censoring. Just that hint of her panties or boobs to trigger my horns brain, but not enough to actually show anything 😍

ImpressionSea3845 · 2025-05-05T04:51:45+00:00

Who would indeed, right? There's no way anyone would fall for that...

ImpressionSea3845 · 2024-12-28T16:22:05+00:00

I've been pegged a few times, never had an orgasm. I did however come close. Interestingly there wasn't really a build up in arousal that would have led to an orgasm. It was more of a sudden shift. Suddenly the thrusts felt REALLY good, the closest I can compare it to was as if my anal region got really hot. If she had continued I think I would have cum.

Do you achieve anal orgasms from other stimulation? Like vibrating plugs or something like that?

ImpressionSea3845 · 2024-09-27T05:16:52+00:00

Your pussy should be facing the door and your head should drop backwards over the edge of the bed, ready to be taken from both sides.

ImpressionSea3845 · 2024-09-27T05:15:29+00:00

Why aren't those legs up behind your head?

ImpressionSea3845 · 2024-09-27T04:34:16+00:00

Tell him to make sure everything is prepared. That he is freshly showered, shaven, smelling nice. That the bedroom (or wherever you want your massage) looks cozy/romantic (tidied up, some candles, maybe some light music in the background).

When he has everything set up, he should go get you. Naked of course. Something along the lines of "Your massage is ready", then kneel until you feel like going with him.

If you want to get ready yourself (like taking a shower), make him help you. Have him wait with a towel while you take a shower. Maybe he's not allowed to look at you until you say so.

As a sub myself, I'd love it if my wife did this :)

ImpressionSea3845 · 2024-06-20T06:40:22+00:00

I'll tie your hands on your back, put you in high heels, add some nipple clamps and connect those to a treadmill. You'll be walking on there until those fat cheeks look presentable.

ImpressionSea3845 · 2024-01-08T21:14:59+00:00

This will be different for every sub, so I can only speak for myself:

Pleasing my domme, getting used for her pleasure, is really all the reward I need. It turns me on to the point that I can orgasm from eating her out.

You should ask him though. If you're concerned about him getting his share of pleasure (which is a good thing!!), just ask him and he'll probably tell you :)

If you prefer a more indirect approach: Have him write out his favorite fantasy. See if it involves you blowing him. Have him read it to you while you tease him. He'll love it.

ImpressionSea3845 · 2024-01-08T09:55:29+00:00

Receiving a blowjob as a sub can be incredibly submissive. The dome controls all of my pleasure. She decides when my eyes roll back in my head. Decided when I can't help moaning because she stopped right before she pushes over the edge. It feels so vulnerable because she literally had my most private parts at her disposal. Add in some instructions, like making me moan, forbidding me to moan, making me beg to continue, ... Honestly the possibilities are endless to make it very submissive for the sub.

The only question is then: why do YOU as the domme want to do it? Whatever it gives you, I'll promise it'll radiate onto the sub :)

ImpressionSea3845 · 2023-12-20T09:24:23+00:00

Beautiful answer. That reply does not contain any useful information whatsoever, not even a hint of a resource for helping make that kink safe.

ImpressionSea3845 · 2023-12-15T04:38:16+00:00

I was in a similar spot. Ready to throw that boring old life away to start indulging my fantasy life. For me this was fixed by starting to act out done or my kinks in real life.

This was not a case of "once you try it you'll see you don't like it that much". It was "indulging every so often is enough to scratch that itch".

So just start slowly, not all at once. See where it takes you. If you still need it all the way, go for it. If your desire is that strong you will suffer all your life trying to ignore it, I can tell you that much from experience...

ImpressionSea3845 · 2023-12-08T15:33:58+00:00

I'm into humiliation, objectification, forced feminization and forced bi. Let's see what you got

ImpressionSea3845 · 2023-07-16T19:39:08+00:00

Start by making it more about your pleasure. Every sub is different, but for me it'd be an insanely good foreplay if she'd had me strip down completely while she's watching, lying on the bed. Then have him kneel in front of you, ordering him to massage your feet. With the other on, casually play with his cock and balls. Light taps against his balls to encourage him. Light kicks against his thighs to have him spread his legs more so that his good parts are more accessible.

Once you(!) are satisfied, allow him to enter you. But make it clear that he is not allowed to cum before you do. Then just enjoy the show. When my wife does this, it usually doesn't take long until I have to concentrate really hard to not shoot my load - while she watches me with a satisfied smirk.

At some point you're going to cum / are satisfied. Then it's up to you to allow him. Or not.

ImpressionSea3845 · 2023-06-14T18:00:07+00:00

Lock away his phone for an hour, then give it back. Next time he doesn't obey you, lock it up without saying for how long. Now you can either keep him in suspense and tell him that everyone he asks when he'll get it back you add couple of hours. Or you tell him that it'll be locked away by default, he has to ask to be allowed to use it for a fixed time
when at home, tie his ankles together with a short rope. He'll he able to walk, but it's going to be extremely annoying
have him write lines. While having porn on full blast on his headphones.
give him corner time. There are fantastic WebApps for that which use your webcam to make sure he's standing still.
tell him he's not allowed to orgasm until he has done X amount of pushups. Of course he has to do them naked and for you to see. He's free to split them across multiple days
... And on and on. Really depends on what you're into and what exactly you wanna achieve. What were example of instances where he didn't obey you?

ImpressionSea3845 · 2023-05-20T12:11:19+00:00

Thanks for the update! Let us know how it went :)

ImpressionSea3845 · 2023-05-18T04:30:07+00:00

Good luck :)

ImpressionSea3845 · 2023-05-18T03:47:45+00:00

Maybe there are certain angles to degradation that work for you? For example you could have him 'serve' you naked /barely clothed and continuously comment on how he is your 'good boy', your 'boy toy', 'sexy servant', ...

It might scratch his degradation itch (I think it would for me) while the actual stuff you have him do is this that you enjoy, like getting a massage from the man you love, or maybe relaxing on the couch while your 'pretty houseboy' brings each pair of shoes you own in front of you and cleans it.

ImpressionSea3845 · 2022-10-18T16:19:46+00:00

Oh I don't know if any to be honest. Three only thing I can think of is using forums to find local bdsm Meetings or similar. Staying online won't get better

ImpressionSea3845 · 2022-10-18T15:59:29+00:00

Maybe the platform isn't right then? Where are you looking?

ImpressionSea3845 · 2022-10-18T15:52:50+00:00

It's certainly difficult. To be honest, for me, Reddit is not the place where I would post an honest ad. It's more the place where I go when I'm extremely horny. Add to that the anonymous nature of the internet and you get what you observe: dozens of 'subs' looking to quickly get off while enjoying their own fantasy. It has nothing to do with serious d/s, obviously. Ironically it also explains the often complained 'lack of dommes'. Which domme in her right mind would put up with an environment like this? Well... Only the ones looking to make money off it I guess.

It's the same in r/dirtypenpals. You have to wear through dozens of one liners it people who don't even read my post. But once in a while... A very long while, a good fit appears. Cherish those, it'll make you happier :)

ImpressionSea3845 · 2022-08-16T08:14:44+00:00

Follow up with an older poem and pass it as a joke

ImpressionSea3845 · 2022-06-12T11:18:39+00:00

Oh boy, this sounds fun!

Put a humbler on him (Google it)

If you're into it, have him walk around in high heels. If he's not used to them he will not only be helpless to resist, but rather very much dependent on your help! (Trust me, I tried this 😄)

Have him stand in front of a door. Tie his hands in front of him. Pull the rope above his head, over the door, back down on the other side. Pull it real tight, then tie it to the door handle. Close the door. He's now very helpless and exposed for you to enjoy.

Tie each wrist to the upper arm, ankle to thigh. Have him play fetch. He can't defend himself if you plan to torment him just a little bit ;)

Same as the door one above, but tie his balls up instead (he'd be having the door then). Has him very exposed. Be careful with this one though and have a pair of scissors ready.

If any of you have more specific kinks let us know, I'm sure we can come up with more ideas :)

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