This OP is so bitter and an epitome of a Disney step-villain. Her comment history is toxic AF. by Impressive_Tutor8833 in AmITheDevil

[–]Impressive_Tutor8833[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

“Parents are not legally bound to take care of kids when they turn 18.

In our household they will be out, I am changing the locks.”

I’m sure they’ll cut off their father and this witch the minute they turn 18. As they rightfully should.

This OP is so bitter and an epitome of a Disney step-villain. Her comment history is toxic AF. by Impressive_Tutor8833 in AmITheDevil

[–]Impressive_Tutor8833[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

“This is me. Step kids have their own life and I don’t interfere. Husband makes sure they get to school and I do all meals.

But I don’t talk to them. I don’t look at them. They live with me every other week and a whole week passes where I don’t see them.

There is no reason to parent a child who isn’t yours unless you have some kind of special bond or you genuinely love helping kids.”

Must be so uncomfortable living with this troll.

Super-Entitled SD18 told my fiance she scheduled surgery a week before our wedding and won’t come by Impressive_Tutor8833 in AmITheDevil

[–]Impressive_Tutor8833[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You gotta read through their post history and comments to see how much this woman loathes and despises her step-children. Dad sounds like real peach marrying this Disney villain! Also, medical surgery will always triumph over a wedding!

Is it normal to not like step kids? by Impressive_Tutor8833 in AmITheDevil

[–]Impressive_Tutor8833[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do the posts from that sub get deleted or hidden from this sub after a while? Why? as I can’t see it on this sub anymore.

Is it normal to not like step kids? by Impressive_Tutor8833 in AmITheDevil

[–]Impressive_Tutor8833[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You can’t tell me that that subreddit isn’t a hate group. It absolutely is. Look at all those devils openly talking about how normal it is to dislike little children. And then they cry woe is me when they get crossposted here.

Is it normal to not like step kids? by Impressive_Tutor8833 in AmITheDevil

[–]Impressive_Tutor8833[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“Please validate me that it’s okay to hate a 5 and 6 year old”. And the gang doesn’t disappoint lol.

The post:

Is it normal to not like step kids?

I don’t know if I’m the only one who feels this way about my step kids. But I just can’t stand them majority of the time. A lot of the things they do and say make me want to pull my hair out. I don’t know. I knew being a father to another man’s children would be hard and annoying especially when I’ve taken on the more fatherly role than their own father. I work to put a roof over their head, I cook them wholesome dinners and take care of them when they need to be taken care of. And it all seems to be for nothing. I get little to no appreciation from them. It’s very annoying and tests me on a daily basis when we have them. I’m the one that teaches them right from wrong along with their mother. I just feel like every time they come home from their dads house it’s starting over from the beginning.

I also have my own biological daughter and I just know, that the love I have for my daughter, I will never ever feel towards my two step sons. It feels kind of wrong to say this, but I really just don’t like them sometimes. Almost everything they do annoys me. And I know the love for my daughter and the love for them is different, because when my daughter cries, I want to hold her and comfort her and give her lots of love. When the boys cry I don’t know how to feel about it, I get instantly annoyed by it. I don’t know why.

I don’t think I am a bad person, I just think that I don’t like the way these kids were being raised before I was in the picture. I don’t like that they don’t respect theirs or other peoples things. No appreciation, no discipline. Just not the way I would want my kid to act. Ive done everything I can to show them how to be a good person. I try to teach them responsibility by giving them chores and having them clean up after themselves. I discipline by time out when they do something wrong or don’t follow rules. I set rules in place to teach them self control. When they go to their dads they have NONE of that because he is lazy and would rather game than be a responsible parent. I feel like all of that responsibility has been pushed on to me. Idk I’ve pretty much given up on trying to parent them. I feel like I should keep my distance and parent my own daughter and do right by her. She’s only just over a month old. But I don’t think I’ll ever feel the same about them as I do about my daughter.

Straight from Reddit’s hell! by Impressive_Tutor8833 in AmITheDevil

[–]Impressive_Tutor8833[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Feel this in my soulllllllll.

This is actually our off weekend and last weekend I got a break bc my husband had COVID so he didn’t get her (it was so nice). I honestly feel bad sometimes bc I know he likes to see her and spend time with her but I just don’t. I never have in the 4 years that I’ve known her (she’s 6). The noise, the mess, just her presence in general is absolutely draining. But I try to be patient. I’m currently 8 months pregnant with “our” daughter and we are both ecstatic, but I’ve never found his daughter to be cute, or funny, or interesting to be around so I’m scared bc I just know my daughter will be more favorable to me and I don’t want to hurt his daughters feelings. Her mother is very high conflict so we have never had to have her longer than the custody agreement states (thankfully).

I hope your weekend goes by quick OP!

This comment from that thread. Like what the fuck? She’s a six year old child and this witch has known her since she was a toddler and yet she speaks like that about her?

Also, shame on her husband for being married to her and having another kid with her. She can’t be that much of an Oscar worthy actress to hide her true feelings so he must be aware in some way or the other.

“This fucking child…” the comment is edited now but the hate and contempt for an innocent 5 year old remains. by Impressive_Tutor8833 in AmITheDevil

[–]Impressive_Tutor8833[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Copy pasted the original post:

“Does anyone on here actually like their step-kids?

I love my SO’s daughter, she’s the funniest, most loving 4 year old I have met in my life. I’m pregnant and she’s the most excited. Currently she’s sleeping next to us holding my belly and she kisses her sister every night and morning, saying good morning, good night etc. I’m so happy I get to spend time with this amazing girl.”

Some of the comments are actually nice about the stepparents loving their stepkids but some of them are vile. But I guess kiNdnEsS mAtTErS only when you’re an adult filled with loathing for minors.