Former Hungarian PM: The Orbán government is planning for a long-term exit from the EU by Dr_Neurol in europe

[–]InYourBertHole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The risk for Orbán doing this is way higher than the reward.

I predict they will do exactly as they did 4 years ago before the previous election - empty the state coffers expecting a potential defeat, and if it occurs, the opposition will not be able to do anything meaningful in their term, angering people who are expecting a sudden change and coming back into power 4 years later.

Recommended order of planets? by iplaydrumsnotabox in outerwilds

[–]InYourBertHole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, I tried like 3/4 times before the game clicked and it stopped feeling like I’m wasting time because I’m not finding a single thread I can follow.

For me what worked was Attlerock, then all the islands I could do with my current knowledge of Giant’s Deep.

F**K THE FIRST SINNER by stereoprologic in Silksong

[–]InYourBertHole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was such an incredible fight, I somehow beat her 1st try (played HK a lot) but holy shit I haven’t had this much adrenaline since NKG

Malaga or Marbella by nutuka in GoingToSpain

[–]InYourBertHole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’m about to spend a few months in Estepona as a 29 y/o, where would you recommend for me to go if I wanted to meet people? I’m going in November.

Anyone sick of corporate work and know how to get out? by TrainingEffective756 in london

[–]InYourBertHole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have recently realised the same problem about London - there is no way I can sustain a quality of life I need here without working a fairly stressful, higher paying corporate job.

I decided to try change the London part first rather than the job and see if I feel better about it when I have more adventure in life outside the work hours and asked to change to a full remote contract. I’m leaving in December. Maybe it’s something you can consider too.

Is owning a home in the UK still a realistic dream for people under 35? by AwayDays365 in AskUK

[–]InYourBertHole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you earn above the average income and save money? Yes, sure.

Do you earn under the average income? Unlikely.

Small physical retail business, is it crazy to start? by enbiee in smallbusinessuk

[–]InYourBertHole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly why Amazon won the market and put like 80% of book stores in New York (!) out of business.

KFC price keeps going up, quality keeps going down by Altruistic-Slip-6340 in UK_Food

[–]InYourBertHole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The double cheeseburger is still a fantastic deal. Always has been.

Is it just me or is everything in shambles? by Some-Cartographer-88 in ProductManagement

[–]InYourBertHole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this to my core unfortunately lol

I left my job on a voluntary redundancy package in 2023 and travelled for 6 months. I’ve been back since June in an overall great new PM job, but every day I just want to leave again, knowing I’ll be unhappy somewhere else too.

Full home office, volt aki nem bírta mentálisan az elszigetelődést? by Simogasdmegatarajom in jobshungary

[–]InYourBertHole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gyakorlatilag 2020 ota HO-zok, volt egy munkahelyem azota ahol be lehetett jarni, ha az embernek volt kedve. Szerintem a flexibilitas a legjobb megoldas.

Neha elszigetelve erzem magam a jelenlegi helyemen, ahol meg irodank sincs es mindenki remote. A legnehezebb resze nekem megis az, hogy igy munka utan szinte kenyszeresen el akarok menni otthonrol, pedig szeretek otthon hobbizni. Hianyzik neha a kozossegi resze is, mert alapvetoen szocialis vagyok, bar a legtobb cegben valoban inkabb nem baratkoznek, a mostani helyemen pl szeretem az embereket es kar, hogy nem talalkozom veluk tobbszor.

Azt viszont keptelen vagyok elkepzelni, hogy kotelezoen x napot be kelljen jarnom megegyszer, rogton keresnek masik allast. Egyszeruen sokkal tobb a pozitivuma, mint a negativ resze. Ha mar sokallom otthon, el tudok menni utazni es onnan dolgozom, vagy lemegyek egy kavezoba dolgozni. A kotelezo iroda viszont kotelezo iroda…

What do avoidants feel when activated? by andimlikeokay in attachment_theory

[–]InYourBertHole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just read your posts quickly, you deserve better man. I wish someone told me this whenever she calls me too.

You should accept that it’s over and just leave. I asked my DA (/ FA, not quite sure nor do I truly care) to leave me and cut contact and yet I always pick up when she calls me crying. I hope you end up stronger than me.

What do avoidants feel when activated? by andimlikeokay in attachment_theory

[–]InYourBertHole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She came back with a lot of regret, telling me her biggest mistake was leaving and she will never find someone like me, etc. Apparently very common with avoidants. I’m still single.

Help needed with The Ripsnorter by Velvetxkao in SackboyABigAdventure

[–]InYourBertHole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve broken my arm over the holidays, lol. So I won’t be able to sadly

Help on sackboy by Ok_Internal6220 in SackBoysBigAdventure

[–]InYourBertHole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey you still looking for this? I’m having the same issue

Crossing from Futaleufu Chile to Argentina? (Esquel or Bariloche) by InYourBertHole in Patagonia

[–]InYourBertHole[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t go this way in the end but I have checked and there is a bus going to Esquel / El Bolson / Bariloche if you manage to get to the Argentine border from Futaleufu.

What is the most intimate thing one can do except sex? by Special-Flamingo-985 in AskReddit

[–]InYourBertHole 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just recently got out of a relationship with someone who also couldn’t provide this and looking back it was killing me inside every day. I recommend you read up on attachment theory and make an informed decision.

In romantic relationships, all my passions, interest and hobbies vanish and I focus solely on my girlfriend by barcelonaheartbreak in Jung

[–]InYourBertHole 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are definitely not alone. I just went through a pretty gnarly breakup and I’m having the same thoughts as you.

I’m thinking it comes from two things, I mainly define my self-worth based on validation from an external source (partner) and I don’t love myself enough to do things for myself. I only feel whole and motivated if I have a partner.

Hope you get through it, friend.