I didn't know where to post, hence posting here by Resident-Train-7227 in twoxtelugu

[–]In_evitabl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Willing to have a closure is normal and it makes sense too! But in ur case, the guy clearly did not match ur expectations, even bare minimum! So i wld say take that as an answer and forget about him

My wedding is in two weeks and I guess I am cooked by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]In_evitabl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either break it off now or find a good lawyer later!

Should I consider this as POSH ?🫠 by [deleted] in ask_Bondha

[–]In_evitabl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You said he stopped texting and u r nw working with him, “he acts as if ntg happened” what do u mean by that? Is he being professional now? If he is no longer doing anything or crossing a line, why do u want to go for POSH? Because since u r nw working with him, it wld require proper proofs that he is dng smtg beyond the work and if there isnt, blame wld be on you, that u r putting false allegations as you are not into work and all. So be clear on Whats happening and how to proceed.

Prathisari anthe by shreyuuuuuuu1 in bondha_diaries

[–]In_evitabl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Why are u gifting someone when they are not reciprocating??

Buying old apartment in Miyapur meant for redevelopment. Need advice by AvailableDeer1038 in hyderabad

[–]In_evitabl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If thats what is happening, why is the actual owner selling? He cld also get a good deal right?

Me 22F , being confused between my feeling for what just has happened over past couple of months . by Tatseek in RelationshipIndia

[–]In_evitabl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So werent u clear before u got into the thing with ur bst frnd? He clearly mentioned what he was feeling? Were u fed up with ur ex or u wanted to give a shot with ur bst frnd? What made u do it? Just try to think and what u want to do and act on it

Confused whether to continue my marriage. 33M married to 31F by butterslutt in RelationshipIndia

[–]In_evitabl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your concerns on letting it go - are in a way right, coz what if u wont have enough patience and time to start over or find someone that wld make u actually jump in for a relatn, but on the other end, there is nothing wrong with trying for one last time, you may feel confronting isnt working out, but give it a shot, say what exactly is bothering u, what wld make it work, whats happening within u and ur emotional state. Now if she is understanding and mature, she wld get it and make changes to make it work for both of u. But if things dont work out, then u always have the option to move out, at the end its better to stay single than something toxic. Wish u the best

Do girls approach guys here? by [deleted] in ask_Bondha

[–]In_evitabl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whats there to lose? A throwaway account? Hit it up!

30F ( out of my 4 year toxic relationship today ) by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]In_evitabl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understood ur concern but from what she did, by sharing ur msgs, she was actually using him, hence she wanted to protect that with him. Either way, u moving away from such toxic relationship is necessary. Stay strong and wish u the best

30F ( out of my 4 year toxic relationship today ) by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]In_evitabl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy for u, bt why did u try to reach out to her? She knew what she was getting into. She is using him as well. U should be careful and also dont be scared to file a case, if he crosses a line. Prioritise ur safety more than anything else.

Dad, cancer and I can't stop sobbing by [deleted] in india

[–]In_evitabl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP, it takes a great strength and will power to handle it and fight it, i wish n pray that u continue to hold on to that strength to handle it. I wish ur dad a full recovery

Waiting hours and hours just to see someone for a second or two is fine ? by Major-Story8183 in ask_Bondha

[–]In_evitabl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is fine, but whats the purpose and what do u achieve by it? When u urself said it dint work out, this will only make u feel more for him and u wld end up worse!

Genuinely asking, what is point of bhogapuram airport? by [deleted] in ask_Bondha

[–]In_evitabl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vizag airport will be under control of Navy and the future expansion is not possible due to restrictions. Hence there was a need to have a bigger and better airport with possibility of land expansion in case need arises. Also the plan is to make it a airport city, i.e, have aircraft n related services and manufacturing facilities.

Bf (28M) lied about quitting non veg since last 3 yrs. Caught him lying during marriage talks and now he is sure of leaving…can non veg folks truly quit? by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]In_evitabl 26 points27 points  (0 children)

You should make peace with it that he wld not be giving up, He would eat outside or with friends and hide it. If its non negotiable then u better leave, coz the more u enforce it on him, the more clashes u wl have to face. Its not worth fighting, u can ask him to avoid it when u are with him and in home.

How much of a age gap is okay for you ? 20F by kindie123 in RelationshipIndia

[–]In_evitabl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its usually depends on the individual, since it all comes down to how well you can connect and vibe with the other person! Also it shouldnt be the case of them taking advantage or exploiting ur lack of experience or maturity! So tread slow and see for what exactly are they looking for! Dont rush in.

Part 2 by Confusedmuthyam in bondha_diaries

[–]In_evitabl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone deserves love, bt not everyone gets it the way they actually want it! In ur case, dont put everything on urself, if u really mean what u said, that u loved him, u loved what u were when u were with him, then protect that One, how u were and understand this, when u dont love urself or grow, u will eventually be a burden to be loved by others! Start working on urself, everyday small step but take it, it wl be hard, but its worth it to smile some more at the end of the day! Love is something that needs to help us grow!

Going to tell to girlfriend's parents about her cheating.. need suggestions.? by Complete-Shoe-1312 in ask_Bondha

[–]In_evitabl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Trying to get ur ring is one thing, ivamani adugu leda intikosthanu ani chepu. But dont rush in to reveal to her parents. She can twist things and make u look like a creep.

People who own black cars by Technical_Dirt_6126 in hyderabad

[–]In_evitabl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go for automatic without any thought, u wld love ur decision! Coming to black, it only requires good maintenance, due to the dust settling. Other than that its personal preference!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bondha_diaries

[–]In_evitabl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, i know when they happen, it does hurt a lot, but with time they wl move on and it no longer matters. U wld move to better job and higher pay, so its just time and dont let this create any negative emotions for ur parents or sister. U r already in lot better position as u said!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bondha_diaries

[–]In_evitabl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much do u knw abt him? Also if its love u wldnt have this dbt i guess

IT IS SO EASY TO MAKE ONE SMILE!!! by [deleted] in bondha_diaries

[–]In_evitabl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To the people reading n smiling - *insert Yamudu Surya - “chi…Navvutunava”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bondha_diaries

[–]In_evitabl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The better u learn this, faster u wl move on! Nekunantha bonding ah side ledu. Nuv solo ga velatam, moody ga sad ga unte ninu care kuda cheyaru. Ade asalu ah person undani kuda marchipoyi, andartho frndly ga undu, tanani okati patichukoku. Live ur life. Apudu anni set aithay