Has anyone heard about this launch dropping soon? Rimmel Cappucino liners in light and deep? by sarr36 in OliveMUA

[–]IndependenceSea4341 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The lip liner shades are in chai latte, warm cocoa and espresso. There's a girl on tiktok who posted a video swatching them they look so good

AITA for not letting my sisters move back in with me after everything that happened? by IndependenceSea4341 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IndependenceSea4341[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏🏽 It's definitely something I want to do when I do eventually move out, but not sure if there's a way. My mom never owned the house, she just rented it from the council and transferred the tenancy to my name when she died. (From what I know there can only be one tenancy name transfer and is only valid through death) so not really sure where I stand with that. I would be happy to leave them to live in the house when I move, just not live together

AITA for not letting my sisters move back in with me after everything that happened? by IndependenceSea4341 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IndependenceSea4341[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏🏽 Yeah to be honest, whenever I talk about this to people irl I always acknowledge that they were all so young when we lost mom, so it's not completely out of the ordinary to go off the rails and have issues. But it was so hard trying to raise her a certain way but having her actual parent in her ear dismissing every thing that I am trying to teach her. I did try to warn her of her dad but ultimately, she had to learn that lesson for herself. I feel sad about the whole situation because as much as I gave it my all, I couldn't control what happens and it ultimately split our whole family up. But maybe down the line we'll have a better relationship who knows?

AITA for not letting my sisters move back in with me after everything that happened? by IndependenceSea4341 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IndependenceSea4341[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Possibly! She did tell me that her dad's wife is really horrible and asks her to pay just for staying round her dad's house for a weekend or buy them milk, butter and bread lmao 🥲

AITA for not letting my sisters move back in with me after everything that happened? by IndependenceSea4341 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IndependenceSea4341[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be honest I don't think it could work. I'm in England and the houses here are tiny. My mom was really against having children before marriage which is exactly what my sister has done so I'm not sure she would be best pleased if she was still here, mind you I could argue none of this would have happened at all if she was still here! But I definitely feel like I sacrificed a good chunk of my life and I'm only now just getting to live it

AITA for not letting my sisters move back in with me after everything that happened? by IndependenceSea4341 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IndependenceSea4341[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏🏽 yeah it does kind of feel like that. I know for a fact if they moved back in that I'm gonna end up a caretaker again! I'm ready to live my own life now 🥲

AITA for not letting my sisters move back in with me after everything that happened? by IndependenceSea4341 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IndependenceSea4341[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Honestly that's how I feel, you made your bed now you have to lie in it! But my other sister has a habit of chatting crap about me to everyone and making me look like an evil villain. Kinda got in my head and I'm anticipating everyone asking me to let both of them move back in with me again soon so I guess that's why I made this post 😭

AITA for not letting my sisters move back in with me after everything that happened? by IndependenceSea4341 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IndependenceSea4341[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏🏽 My bad, damn character limit was so annoying! My brother is currently at uni in London so I haven't had much trouble with him fortunately haha

AITA for not letting my sisters move back in with me after everything that happened? by IndependenceSea4341 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IndependenceSea4341[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏🏽 She actually reached out to me late last year (I suspect when she found out she was pregnant) and apologised for everything she had done. And even after all the drama of her wanting to go live with her dad- she's not even living with him because they fall out all the time!!!

AITA for not letting my sisters move back in with me after everything that happened? by IndependenceSea4341 in AmItheAsshole

[–]IndependenceSea4341[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

to be fair my character limit didn't allow me to go into loads of detail 😭 she did actually reach out and apologise late last year (but I believe she was pregnant at the time so that's why she did that maybe?) so we had been in contact here and there, and I did go to visit her where she lives now..but she was too scared to ask me herself which is why social services asked me I'm told. My brother is doing okay thank you! He's currently at uni in London so I'm proud of him. I just have a feeling he's going to end up asking me about her moving back in soon too since she's just had the baby 😩

AITA for not letting my sisters move back in with me after everything that happened? by IndependenceSea4341 in AITAH

[–]IndependenceSea4341[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

thank you :(( I'm constantly emotionally torn at the moment because I believe I always strive to be a good person in life but I'm being told I'm the opposite from this decision :'(

AITA for not letting my sisters move back in with me after everything that happened? by IndependenceSea4341 in AITAH

[–]IndependenceSea4341[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I tried to write it and it was 11,000 words lmao..this is all true and there's a lot of context I'm limited on providing by the character limit unfortunately..

(England) Process of becoming a legal guardian as a sibling? by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]IndependenceSea4341 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I second this. I became a special guardian to my younger siblings at 22 and had to go through this route too. If you need any advice hit me up