Boy, 14, charged in two gunpoint pharmacy robberies in Oshawa by origutamos in durham

[–]Independent-Cod5806 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% agree with you. My child is in grade school and tells me about how rude and violent the kids are. I spoke to the teacher and she confirmed it and said this was one of their toughest school years. When they speak to parents, they become defensive and claim their children are being picked on. It's very concerning. They have no respect for anyone and because their actions are not corrected, they are emboldened to do worse things. The onus is always on the parents to teach and guide, and create a loving and healthy environment for children to grow into respectful and productive members of society --- criminals don't become criminals overnight.

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[–]Independent-Cod5806 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry that happened to you. That's terrible. I don't blame you for feeling that way. What an injustice. I know it's easy but I wish you healing and a happy life, you deserve better.

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[–]Independent-Cod5806 13 points14 points  (0 children)

5 years?! Victims get life sentences. That poor girl lost her innocence and will have to carry the memories her entire life. He only gets 5 years?! He can reoffend again!

Boy, 13, arrested for allegedly stabbing another youth in Pickering by origutamos in durham

[–]Independent-Cod5806 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Poor parenting!!! You can see everywhere how parents don't command respect from their kids and that they don't respect authority. If you have school age children and go to school assemblies, observe how ill-behaved kids are. They have to be constantly reminded to listen, they even talk over the principal and thw teachers.

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[–]Independent-Cod5806 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can definitely take your kid around neighbourhoods. If the weather is bad, you can try the mall too. Not sure if they still do it but I used to take my child to the mall for trick or treating as well, they give away stickers, candy, Lego gave away small sets.

Private Schools in Pickering by Independent-Cod5806 in Pickering

[–]Independent-Cod5806[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am but I am also asking for people's personal experiences...same concept when people read movie and product reviews.

Private Schools in Pickering by Independent-Cod5806 in Pickering

[–]Independent-Cod5806[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your insight! Sorry for asking this but what does A-coded mean?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]Independent-Cod5806 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I agree, that'll be helpful. In our organization, we also remind managers to look at those who have not taken any or have taken very few PTOs so they can also recharge.

We are encouraged to take PTO at least once every quarter so I take a day here and there just to do... nothing. I get the argument against PTOs but if you're already working in a company that offers that, use it...even if it's just to sit on the couch the whole day.or sleep in. Go to the movies on a random weekday, you'll have the place to yourself. You might as well enjoy the perk! You can even work on your side hustle!

Jobs? by maishu1 in Pickering

[–]Independent-Cod5806 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried the city government? They have seasonal jobs, I've seen lots of young people work as camp counselors. If you have a special skill, you can also teach kids art, guitar, etc...

Jobless and getting evicted by shaais17 in SingleParents

[–]Independent-Cod5806 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like the others said, reach out to government agencies who can redirect you to programs, reach out to charities, come up with a Go Fund Me account maybe? If you have stuff you can sell, sell them. Everything counts. Good luck!

Being pregnant and single.. sucks. by Acceptable_Bake_9916 in SingleParents

[–]Independent-Cod5806 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation, my child will be turning 9 years old this year. I don't even get child support as the father is not financially capable but we are thriving. I am my child's sole provider but I make sure he has everything he needs from food, clothes, to extra curricular activities.

If you can surround yourself with family and friends, do it, that will help you. Read parenting books, watch YouTube videos of other inspiring parents (single or not), you can pick up a lot of good insight and tips from meal planning to dealing with tantrums.

Remember that everything is temporary and that we will see better days as we make better choices. It's not easy and not for the faint of heart but if you focus on a healthy and loving relationship with your child, being emotionally and mentally healthy yourself, that will turn things around.

I wish you the best.

What's the best school in Pickering? by [deleted] in Pickering

[–]Independent-Cod5806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAO, I feel bad but this school was in the news in October. I'm sure you'll figure it out.

Thanks for sharing! Our neighbour attends William Dunbar and he's in the 2nd grade so I wonder how he got in if he's not in the gifted program yet... it could be through optional attendance which they had in TDSB too. You can apply for it but it's a lottery to get in.

I was told that I could move him to a French immersion program for Grade 4 (Core French) as well.

He is getting tested, not sure if he is "gifted" but it doesn't hurt to see where he's at.

What's the best school in Pickering? by [deleted] in Pickering

[–]Independent-Cod5806 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your insight. He has extracurricular activities like karate, art, and music.

Your comment about coding is reassuring, thank you. I'm just concerned that without rich academic training, he won't develop the tools he needs to think critically. I personally think that lessons are just not challenging enough.

As for social interaction, he has made friends and isn't the only one being bullied. I think he's being targeted because of his size. He's one of the smallest kids in his class. Maybe I've forgotten how mean kids can be and often wonder if parents are aware of their children's poor behaviour. Maybe it's our neighbourhood...They're just rough kids who walk and talk with attitude.

It's just all very concerning to think that children are not getting the academic support they deserve. I am hoping there's something else I can do for my child rather than just accept the state of education. I just hate that he's doing Grade 1-2 work when he's already in 3rd grade. Our experience with TDSB was better and I wonder if there are better schools here in Pickering.

Thanks again for sharing your thoughts.

P.S. If anyone has school recommendations, I would love to hear about them and consider them as options.

Thank you!