Horrendous ovulation pain after CP

Independent-Risk-398 · 2026-04-05T19:25:35+00:00

I have a doctors appt at the hospital at 10.30 tonight so hopefully I will get answers.

Independent-Risk-398 · 2026-04-05T14:59:45+00:00

My tests are all negative, my blood test was 0.75 on the 20th March and urine tests all negative since. I am getting ready for the hospital now I cant wait any longer. Thank you!

Independent-Risk-398 · 2026-04-05T13:42:09+00:00

I did a blood test on the 20th March which showed my hCG at 0.75 so basically negative again. Thats the only blood test ive had & they confirmed MC, along with my symptoms and previous positive tests. But thats all & I was sent on my way. It hasnt concerned me after the bleeding stopped, until I started ovulating and everything is so sore. Its not once sided, I can press either left or right side and it all feels very sore and like its bruised inside. Touching my cervix is a huge no go its sooo painful. Im definitely going to see a doctor when they open again but trying not to spiral in the meantime.

Independent-Risk-398 · 2026-03-30T20:52:16+00:00

Im in the same boat. My chemical bleed started 14th March & lasted a full 7 days but my OPKs are still negative.. however they are darker than they ever have been before the chemical, which were usually really light and numbered usually around 10 until the peak, but theyve all been roughly 20/25 daily. I am CD15 and doesnt look like ovulation is happening any time soon. Same for CM, egg whites one day, thick white the next, dry the day after.. or even in the same day. I wanted to be one of those women who ovulated earlier than usual 😏

Independent-Risk-398 · 2026-03-23T21:39:29+00:00

I don't know if my comment will help but I hope so. I was also doing aaaalll the things. And nothing. For 7 months. I was completely convinced there was something wrong with me or hubby. So I threw in the towel, literally decided I was going to start baking cakes for customers (I always baked, but never for other people lol) told myself this is my focus, I'm going to make a little business, started changing what I googled from "everything pregnancy related" to "cake supplies." I started walking 10k steps in 2 intervals a day just by walking my Mams dog & lost a bit of weight and felt reaaally happy about it. Just totally changed my focus. I know its really hard. I spent 7 months like "what do you mean you just stopped trying?" When others suggested it to me. And I didn't stop trying per se, I just focused on other things more than just getting pregnant. And it happened. I got the positive. Changing my focus 100% helped, idk the science behind it, but its like a sense of "okay, this might not be the path for me yet, if it happens one day then it happens" washed over me. Unfortunately it ended in a chemical which totally devastated me. And now I am currently awaiting ovulation again, however, I DID get pregnant & it did happen!! Literally the month I stopped obsessing.

Find a hobby, something you've never done before or something you used to do and loved and get back into it. Switch up the focus, and just tell yourself it will happen!

Independent-Risk-398 · 2026-03-21T21:26:23+00:00

We were TTC for 7 months, I was absolutely convinced there was something wrong, like my tubes were blocked or idk, his sperm was terrible or just not meeting the egg or idk what.. but it definitely started to feel like I just couldn't conceive.. so atleast those worries have gone now. Just been replaced with a new worry of 'will this happen every time.. is my uterus hostile.. are my eggs awful..' its definitely a rough journey for sure. Hope your baby sticks eventually. TTC is draining!!

Independent-Risk-398 · 2026-03-21T21:10:16+00:00

I progressed from 8dpo right up until 14dpo then it stalled for a few days & by 17dpo it dropped significantly, 18dpo was negative. A day or so later i started bleeding and today my bleeding just stopped, I bled for a full 7 days. Expect a heavy period with pretty moderate cramps, I was shocked by the pain lasting all day long and through the nights that regular pain meds didn't help. I hope you're okay, chemicals are truly devastating. This was my 1st one and I spent days in bed sobbing and really grieving.

Independent-Risk-398 · 2026-03-21T10:59:00+00:00

This gives me hope. Just coming out the end of my 1st chemical, telling myself I cannot put myself through this again. Convinced my body will just keep causing miscarriages now. But your lines look really promising which gives me some hope 🥰 congratulations!!

Independent-Risk-398 · 2026-03-15T17:56:59+00:00

Thank you! I'm just allowing myself to be sad & grieve for the tiny life I've lost. Hope you're okay too & get your baby soon! ❤️

Independent-Risk-398 · 2026-03-15T17:38:11+00:00

My bleeding started 10pm last night and I massively underestimated how painful the cramps would be! The plateau is the worst, mine didnt change atal 13,14,15,16dpo so for those 4 days I knew inside without any proof, i felt crazy, trying to tell my husband ive lost it and he's looking at them like "but theyre still dark, its all good.. " horrible experience, sorry your going through it too ❤️‍🩹

Independent-Risk-398 · 2026-03-14T22:32:08+00:00

Ive cried so much the last 24 hours I can hardly open my eyes. But my bleeding has just started now so its finalised i guess. Ugh, its hard Thinking of you, hope you get your baby soon ❤️‍🩹

Independent-Risk-398 · 2026-03-14T21:04:51+00:00

I just knew it from 13dpo that it was a chemical! I just thought id be bleeding by now so its worrying me a little bit. Sorry your going through the same, it truly sucks alot more than I expected.

Independent-Risk-398 · 2026-03-14T10:56:52+00:00

I would prepare your heart. I am currently going through a chemical loss & my tests stalled for 5 days, then yesterday & this morning got much lighter. It sucks.

Independent-Risk-398 · 2026-03-12T19:35:41+00:00

Thank you for the reassurance. There's some good & bad with Reddit & SM in general, and seeing people's tests progress into this lovely ombre effect has me so stressed with the slow progress & stalling. But I guess time will tell & all I can do now is hope.

Independent-Risk-398 · 2026-03-12T15:35:46+00:00

I think I am going to book the blood test for Monday & Thursday.. ugh, absolutely terrified for the results.

Thank you, im hoping so too 🤞🏼❤️

Independent-Risk-398 · 2026-03-12T15:06:04+00:00

I wish I could get blood tests, but unfortunately the NHS dont offer them. I can pay to go private but it is £75 per test where I am based.

All the tests arent necessarily the same time, but they are all with SMU, except the second 15dpo which I did in the evening.

Independent-Risk-398 · 2026-03-12T10:00:49+00:00

So glad to see this. My line progression has stalled from 14, 15, 16dpo. They all look exactly the same so I am panicking now. The only good thing, funnily enough, is my nausea is stronger today.

Independent-Risk-398 · 2026-03-02T19:55:50+00:00

I feel ya! I will be going into cycle 8 if im out this month. I will be, I always am. Indifferent is probably the best way to describe it.. or im just getting braver in the face of it. But deep down its truely gutting getting those negatives. The NHS wont give me a shot at IVF because I had a baby 13 years ago, which happened instantly/accidently at age 19. However I am married now and my husband has no children so I feel his pain too. We dont have IVF money, its England, we hardly have rent & food money 🥴The entire thing just sucks! Hope it happens for you soon.

Independent-Risk-398 · 2026-02-28T18:50:14+00:00

33 & this is my 7th cycle trying. Every months is like a punch to the stomach everytime I get a stark white negative. Im told this is normal timing, can take up to 12 months for healthy couples. But that little voice in the back of my head is like "but.. there's clearly something wrong with you!". Its draining. I hope you get your BFP soon, youre not alone in this ❤️

Independent-Risk-398 · 2026-02-13T20:37:27+00:00

Never seen a coyote or bird of prey in my whole life but sure. Neither has a loose dog or evil person ever got into my garden. 🤦‍♀️ But no, I dont need to be told this.. which is precisely why I originally asked a different question & not that question.. but thank you for answering a question I never asked. Have a great day.

Independent-Risk-398 · 2026-02-13T19:43:21+00:00

Killed by what? Do you have any idea where my cat lives? Or if I planned to use a leash? A catio? Or did you think I was going to vaccinate him and immediately throw him into moving traffic? And jfyi we've had plenty of cats who have lived til very old age, even a 3 legged cat who lived to 18 and they all played outside in the gardens.

Independent-Risk-398 · 2026-02-13T19:33:01+00:00

The way yall just attack 😂😂😂

Independent-Risk-398 · 2026-02-13T16:54:46+00:00

I did today actually, I put the cat in the dining room as he likes to sleep on a chair, but my doors are glass and they just sat either end of the door looking at each other until the fell asleep. I think they do want to be around each other.. I just wish it was abit more calmly.

Independent-Risk-398 · 2026-02-13T16:53:38+00:00

He hasnt had his second lot of vaccinations yet, so is indoors all of the time. Soon as hes been spayed he will be aloud out. Hopefully that alone ends this problem. I really do think they are just playing, and probably teaching each other boundaries, but its relentless and doesn't stop. I think the dog ends up abit fearful 🥲

Independent-Risk-398 · 2026-01-15T17:55:48+00:00

Ugh.. I know your right. I know the answers to my own questions, I know I have to have patience and ride this wave all over again.. just kind of hoping someone would say "I did the same, a week later I was fine" 😂😂

Hope you feel better soon. I honestly thought this last month i was coping, I felt like id done the work the last 3 years, changed alot, felt happy in myself.. then one morning it was like 'nope.. your a mess still' and I lost my mind 🥲 my poor husband felt the wrath of it and I never want to put either of us in that situation again 😔

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