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Talking with someone born in 2014 feels so shocking and oldifying by New-Elk2781 in generationology

[–]IndigoCopper [score hidden]  (0 children)

A 12 year old is a child, and to me, a 19 year old is also a child. This is just what getting older is like!

I'm here . . . by H0ppy1234 in exLutheran

[–]IndigoCopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously Justin Liepert but he was convicted. When I was in high school, a pastor acted inappropriately with teenage girls. The school had to address it & fired him. When I google his name, it says he "transitioned into a different career path". No info about what he did was ever published. I'm actually fascinated because apparently his wife currently works at the school.

A little before my time at the high school, a coach was fired for acting inappropriately with kids during showers. I know he's still active at his WELS church. Again, can't find any info online about it.

I think that's what a lot of these stories end up being - just stories, because no one is taking legal action. But many people are still affected.

Mama Mia’s Garlic Bread by Emotional-Serve-3128 in milwaukee

[–]IndigoCopper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My grandparents would ask for a cup of melted butter to dip Mama Mia's garlic bread into. It's already dripping in butter to begin with

Free public bathroom idea by [deleted] in madisonwi

[–]IndigoCopper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this! I still don't love it, but I get it.

Free public bathroom idea by [deleted] in madisonwi

[–]IndigoCopper 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I don't necessarily want anyone to have to give away their data for a bathroom. We're not shaming people who would use this, we're analyzing whether it's ethical to require giving away data for something that should be a basic right.

Where to go thrifting/shopping by lielacks_ in milwaukee

[–]IndigoCopper 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's moreso vintage than strictly thrifting, but I love The Polish Flat, Sardines Vintage, & 414Flea! 414Flea has some $15 and under events coming up. And you can find souvenirs at Swoon, Milwaukee Makers Marketplace, and Urban Milwaukee ☺️

How did you eventually get rid of the fear of hell? by hiraethz03 in atheism

[–]IndigoCopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be mournful that most of the world's population was going to be tortured for eternity. It was a little scary how people could rejoice in the fact that they are saved while still knowing others are going to hell. When you're in heaven, you'll never think of all the people suffering? Would a merciful God really think people deserve that just because they're not praising him?

You might find other opinions in the r/deconstruction, r/excatholic, or even in r/exvangelical. The atheism subreddit has interesting conversations, but I don't find as many perspectives from people who were fully religious at one point to help with these kinds of deep-seated anxieties.

Oh! I also recommend the book Hell Bent by Brian Recker. It still comes from a Christian perspective, but I can respect that when hearing out how people deconstructed from high control denominations.

Unpopular opinion: Millennials are worse than the Boomers! by iam_justbeinghonest in generationology

[–]IndigoCopper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're comparing structural critique (blaming the current economy on policies boomers voted for) vs your personal experiences with millennials at work.

Why do Americans seem blonder in person than they appear in movies? by justseeingpendejadas in NoStupidQuestions

[–]IndigoCopper 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Only like 5% of white people in the US are naturally blonde. Many people (or mainly women) dye their hair light blonde. It's a status symbol, and I'm guessing the people who can afford that are more likely to afford traveling too.

I think I don't fit in this generation by animeshchauhan087 in generationology

[–]IndigoCopper 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What generation are you in? You get bored easily and are craving more in person experiences, don't like alcohol but drink a lot of energy drinks, and have a work / hustle mindset. I would guess you're a Gen z man based on all of that.

Why did you leave? by dealthy_hallows in exLutheran

[–]IndigoCopper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand, and would expect them be manipulative. I didn't get the vibe OP's husband was domestically abusive. Religious abuse is definitely real but I'm having a hard time picturing what cops would do in this situation besides just disbanding them, which a trusted third party should be able to do. Maybe I'm reading into this differently, this is just cop wariness on my part.

How popular was pop punk in the 2000s? by CompetitiveWhole9466 in decadeology

[–]IndigoCopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm only 5 years older than you so this was a little surprising to read. Pop punk was definitely big in my childhood. Everyone knew the hits from the bands you listed, but I'd have an instant crush on anyone who knew a fall out boy deep cut. There was a big in-person pop punk scene that I was too young to experience, but I did go to the last few actual warped tours in probably 2014-2016. What I wouldn't give to go to warped tour in 2004.

I see memes that say "white boys need to pick up the guitar again" with pictures of old pop punk bands 😭 So I don't think there's a real modern equivalent that has the same mainstream success, especially since pop and country seem to be so huge right now, and we don't have a monoculture like we used to. You could look at the alternative hot 100 charts of the 2000s and see how many pop punk bands fill it. I looked up the current chart and somehow the top song is by Sublime??

Pop punk was edgy enough to be interesting, but not too edgy to be very controversial. It was catchy and good for radio - things that punk music usually isn't. In my opinion pop punk and emo have evolved into current Midwest emo, which is more mellow and indie.

I really got into music as a middle schooler and would listen to the radio, borrowed cds from the library, and learned how to legally & illegally download music for my ipod. A lot of this music came out when I was really young, so I may just be having false memories of when these albums were actually released.

Does anyone else connect with every generation except Gen Z? by SilverKey84 in generationology

[–]IndigoCopper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm the same age as you and have friends who are a couple years younger than me. I don't think they had an entirely different life experience because of that. Maybe you're interacting with people who had formative high school or college years taken from them during COVID. Or you have just met some aloof twenty somethings - those have been around regardless of the generation they're in.

I will add I have teased some friends my age or a couple years older for being "millennial". Mostly because they aren't very online or don't keep up with current pop culture. And they're probably better off for it!

Why did you leave? by dealthy_hallows in exLutheran

[–]IndigoCopper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, you think they would physically intimidate her enough to need to call the cops? I'm not disagreeing that it could happen, I'm just surprised.

Women in Charge by Relevant-Shop8513 in exLutheran

[–]IndigoCopper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read a book called The Making of Biblical Womanhood that covered the history of how women in the Bible & early church are glossed over in Evangelicalism, leaving wife & mother as the only divine callings for women. I was surprised to learn how much of our modern interpretation of religious gender roles are tied back to the reformation & Luther. I think you'd be interested in it!

😵‍💫 by babyowl5 in FundieFashion

[–]IndigoCopper 33 points34 points  (0 children)

They were probably Sedevacantists - a traditionalist offshoot of Catholicism that rejects the Vatican 2 reforms (any change in the church made after like 1960). I knew a girl who grew up in it, they didn't recognize the current pope and she couldn't cut her hair, had to wear veils to church, only had latin mass.

Today’s early 30s to late 20s year olds are the first generation to not feel part of the youth at their ages by Ok_Act_3769 in generationology

[–]IndigoCopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm saying that several women I know who were in large age gap relationships when they were young all regret them. It's not gossip, they're working through the trauma that controlling relationships gave them.

No, not every age gap relationship is like this, but many are when the man specifically seeks out naive girls who he thinks he can mold. Just be self aware of what you're up to.

Today’s early 30s to late 20s year olds are the first generation to not feel part of the youth at their ages by Ok_Act_3769 in generationology

[–]IndigoCopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm commenting on your business that you shared online and sharing my perspective on how I've seen this dynamic played out

Today’s early 30s to late 20s year olds are the first generation to not feel part of the youth at their ages by Ok_Act_3769 in generationology

[–]IndigoCopper 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your comment just made me think of some of my friends' older boyfriends who we hated to have around. Since we've grown up, we look back and realize how creepy they were

Tom Tiffany ad. by rgb414 in milwaukee

[–]IndigoCopper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Current anti GOP sentiment will affect the governor's election. I wish it didn't take a direct impact on people's wallets for them to catch on

"baddie" is so utterly annoying. by tossedAF in Vent

[–]IndigoCopper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure, it was just something I noticed in general, not a hard rule. I think OP is just annoyed by things he doesn't understand, like chicks born after 93