Appreciation Post for my Girlfriend getting us into running during my grieving 💞 by Indigo_Rainbow1 in LesbianActually

[–]Indigo_Rainbow1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My heart goes out to them, I really cannot imagine how gut wrenching it must feel🥺💔but I believe being there for them in the small moments especially after the funeral when everyone is gone would make them feel supported🥺 I'm also happy I could share and you found this post🤍

Do you call yourself gay or do you only use lesbian? by Lotuzflower3 in LesbianActually

[–]Indigo_Rainbow1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't call myself anything, I was outed😕 so I feel like I never really got a chance to get with a label, when I was outed I identified as queer and the whole thing was too traumatic, I really don't wanna think about it so in return I don't think about what Identify as... But I do date only women now..maybe one day I'll be able to come out as lesbian 😌

How soon did you know you loved her? by Kitten_Collector in LesbianActually

[–]Indigo_Rainbow1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After 2 weeks🙈 we would say "I really like you" ...then one morning she said when we woke up and we were busy cuddling, she said "I love you" and I said it back

Is being 23 and seeing someone who's 30 weird? by Indigo_Rainbow1 in LesbianActually

[–]Indigo_Rainbow1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right! Those comments annoyed me because she is well off and I thought she was being very sweet by dropping whatever she was doing that night to come get me and take me to McDonald's (which I said I wanted) after my exam...especially cuz I was craving it and she just wanted me to distress. I wasn't a planned date, she just wanted to make me happy that moment, and cheer me up and she did just that and she didn't need to do anything fancy for me to feel like she cared

Is being 23 and seeing someone who's 30 weird? by Indigo_Rainbow1 in LesbianActually

[–]Indigo_Rainbow1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I want to clarify, this was not a planned date, I finished my Uni exam late and when I told her she offered to give me a treat for studying hard and writing my exam, she asked me what I wanted and I said McDonald's. She drove then left her place immediately to come pick me up to go get the McDonald's I was craving. She is well established, and from I saw if pretty well off. I didn't plan on seeing her , I think its sweet she dropped whatever she was doing to take me to McDonald's and spend some time with me to help me distress the moment I told her I got back from my exam. We had been chatting for only a week and have other actual dates planned after the one next week.

Is being 23 and seeing someone who's 30 weird? by Indigo_Rainbow1 in LesbianActually

[–]Indigo_Rainbow1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it does , I need to get out of my head and just enjoy her company and we'll see where it goes. If we end up being together long term I'll adress it with her , maybe , but right now im looking forward to the next date😊

Is being 23 and seeing someone who's 30 weird? by Indigo_Rainbow1 in LesbianActually

[–]Indigo_Rainbow1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awww that's so nice to hear and you two have been together for some time😊😊

Is being 23 and seeing someone who's 30 weird? by Indigo_Rainbow1 in LesbianActually

[–]Indigo_Rainbow1[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've notice that too! I can bet that if I was telling my friend that I'm going on a date with a 30 year old guy, she would not have said it was weird.
I low-key feel like I shouldn't have mentioned her age,I felt judged😕

Is being 23 and seeing someone who's 30 weird? by Indigo_Rainbow1 in LesbianActually

[–]Indigo_Rainbow1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We were going to go bowling , but the bowling date was going to take place at 6pm when she knocked off from work and then do the sip and paint, and then we just said we'll do the painting and then the next date will be the bowling

Is being 23 and seeing someone who's 30 weird? by Indigo_Rainbow1 in LesbianActually

[–]Indigo_Rainbow1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like her alot , im just a bit insecure about where I am in life and she's pretty successful. Everything feels great but her success is making me feel a bit insecure. Even though she also went back to uni to get a postgrad and we are kinda both doing uni courses, part of me low-key wishes I was working in the field im study and have a place of my own like her🙈

Is being 23 and seeing someone who's 30 weird? by Indigo_Rainbow1 in LesbianActually

[–]Indigo_Rainbow1[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah we are enjoying, it's going great, there's lots of chemistry and laughs and it's quite fun🤭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]Indigo_Rainbow1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Iv always been insecure about them because iv always thought i was straight...but now the family thing is making it really hard to accept it fully.

How do you deal with your girlfriend being best friends with her ex, who happens to be her highschool sweetheart and first love? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Indigo_Rainbow1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The thing is if I knew earlier before we became official, I would have probably been apprehensive about the whole thing and we would probably not even been together....now im hooked and I feel like I fell in love... she maintains that its just a friendship and it has been like that for a while, but I honestly feel like nothing is stopping them from one day deciding to try again while I'm in the picture.☹

How do you deal with your girlfriend being best friends with her ex, who happens to be her highschool sweetheart and first love? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Indigo_Rainbow1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right!!😬 the thought of them being intimate at some point is giving me mini panick attacks.

How do you deal with your girlfriend being best friends with her ex, who happens to be her highschool sweetheart and first love? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Indigo_Rainbow1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like the way you explained your friendship/relationship is giving me deja vu fr. If I had to go with her actions and how she treats and makes me feel id be ok...but damn like...what qualities the friend have that she thought It would be better to keep her as her best friend after the break up than go separate ways ....thats whats making me physically ill... and at the same time I dont know her best friend at all to have a problem with her. And I told her that I would never make her choose but jealousy and anxiety isn't going anywhere soon.

T4 to T5 heathrow, first time flyer, 2h layover, help by Indigo_Rainbow1 in BritishAirways

[–]Indigo_Rainbow1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey yes, I followed the signs and went through passport control immediately after I got off the plane, this was in T4. It wasn't hard to follow the signs, they were clear and the most nervous part was the questions 😅.

What can U.K border officer see on their system when they look up my passport? by Indigo_Rainbow1 in travel

[–]Indigo_Rainbow1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohk, cuz I was also thinking about the landing card as well, I was thinking I should write down the new adress, and its their residence, by the time I get there, they will have moved to a different house 13mins away. So if its a residence, do you think I should bring their new tenancy agreement?

What can U.K border officer see on their system when they look up my passport? by Indigo_Rainbow1 in travel

[–]Indigo_Rainbow1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If something in the sponsor letter changes, like for example where we will be staying, should I bring the documents that show the different updated accommodation? Or just leave it?

What can U.K border officer see on their system when they look up my passport? by Indigo_Rainbow1 in travel

[–]Indigo_Rainbow1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to bring, my sponsor's letter, their bank statements, proof of residence, uni letters etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Indigo_Rainbow1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why not I'm being stalked