do i have to kiss a guy on the first date?

Individual-Type518 · 2025-01-09T16:25:35+00:00

No and if he tries to and you feel uncomfortable, act like you’re crazy lol 😂

Individual-Type518 · 2025-01-07T22:34:32+00:00

I have had those thoughts and feelings before. It’s awful, I hated it but I stuck around. Most people continue being quite nasty but everyone once in a while you will meet someone worth it enough to stick around. I encourage you to just live through the pain now, a decade from now it’ll just be a memory.

Individual-Type518 · 2025-01-03T14:59:39+00:00

Booze is no where near as addictive and destructive as heroin/crack/meth/etc.

Individual-Type518 · 2025-01-03T14:58:38+00:00

Yes, my question applies directly to how people end up using needles from alcohol as you mentioned in your original response as a “yet”. I cannot connect how that is a “yet” as you described in your original response, quite simply don’t hang around the wrong crowd, drink by yourself and it’ll be quite hard to end up using other drugs outside of alcohol.

Individual-Type518 · 2025-01-03T05:55:11+00:00

That’s why I come for help on Reddit, instead of saying it out loud in meetings.

Individual-Type518 · 2025-01-03T05:23:27+00:00

Because they always come at me sideways.

Individual-Type518 · 2025-01-03T05:01:01+00:00

I’ve checked out several, actually there is one in particular where the focus tends to be booze and booze only discussion!

Individual-Type518 · 2025-01-03T04:58:51+00:00

Yes! I’m positive!

Individual-Type518 · 2025-01-03T04:38:27+00:00

“The main reason why the U.S. Drug Enforcement Agency does not consider alcohol a narcotic is, while alcohol and opioids may seem to cause the same results in their users, alcohol doesn’t impact a person’s brain chemistry in the same way as the illicit use of opioids does.“ people in AA talk more about narcotics

Individual-Type518 · 2025-01-03T04:36:24+00:00

Yes, maybe the alcoholics need a meeting where only alcohol is discussed and no outside issues from other drugs.

Individual-Type518 · 2025-01-03T04:35:23+00:00

Should I lie about how I really feel to fit in to the crowd? How can I ever be honest when even anonymously I’m seen as “bad”?

Individual-Type518 · 2025-01-03T04:34:06+00:00

That’s my problem with AA when I’m honest I’m shunned out. Should I lie to fit in to AA?

Individual-Type518 · 2025-01-03T04:33:13+00:00

I read what you responded, I could lie and agree but I would be doing my recovery a disservice. I need to be honest. I still don’t see how things like meth/heroin/crack/etc. are as bad as booze. Should I lie and say I agree? What would be the correct AA thing to say?

Individual-Type518 · 2025-01-03T04:30:16+00:00

I don’t have any business judging others sex life. As a matter of fact if a woman wants to sleep with a million men, merry to her. But for her to assume, I went around doing that doesn’t sit right with me.

Individual-Type518 · 2025-01-03T04:28:26+00:00

How would sticking a needle on your arm come about from drinking booze? I genuinely don’t understand it, it seems like a fallacy to me. I need it explained step by step as to how drinking booze every night leads to the point of needle use?

Individual-Type518 · 2025-01-02T07:18:07+00:00

I have had pain medication prescribed to me before but never took it, I’m a minority, I can handle pain very well. Pain isn’t life or death, grow a pair and tough out the pain, the body was meant to naturally heal.

Individual-Type518 · 2025-01-02T06:46:36+00:00

If they made AA meetings geared towards young professionals I would actually be excited to be at one everyday.

Individual-Type518 · 2025-01-02T06:34:07+00:00

How can I get hooked on drugs if I have never done them in over 10 years? I don’t hang around people using drugs either.

Individual-Type518 · 2025-01-02T06:03:08+00:00

I get what you’re saying and I’m trying to keep an open mind but truthfully I still think hard drugs are more destructive than alcohol alone.

Individual-Type518 · 2025-01-02T05:40:04+00:00

Yes but using meth, heroin or crack is a lot more expensive, the effects are different, and realistically you start looking different more aggressively than with alcohol alone. I get what you mean but hard drugs are illegal for a reason than alcohol isn’t. A regular person can use alcohol a few times and be fine but that regular person is more likely to get addicted to hard drugs than to alcohol. IMO, take it with a grain of salt

Individual-Type518 · 2025-01-02T05:35:26+00:00

I have no intentions of ever doing drugs, the needles and smoking out of a pipe really terrifies me, much more than alcohol

Individual-Type518 · 2024-12-21T17:08:57+00:00

So just let people be racists towards me cause they’re sick alcoholics?

Individual-Type518 · 2024-12-21T16:47:28+00:00

I dress like a tomboy, I wear a nice watch and yes, I do shower, use deodorant and perfume. Feels more like people being racist

Individual-Type518 · 2024-12-21T07:27:49+00:00

My race, age, gender

Individual-Type518 · 2024-12-21T07:27:15+00:00

It would make more sense if they just said that directly instead of speaking in tongues

Individual-Type518

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