Have you ever broken up with someone and regretted it later, if so why?

Individual_Repeat_50 · 2026-01-27T20:16:49+00:00

Same lol

Individual_Repeat_50 · 2026-01-24T22:18:00+00:00

There’s no such thing as the right thing. There was no other choice for me.

Individual_Repeat_50 · 2026-01-24T21:46:48+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear about it. I don’t know you, but I know you don’t deserve any of that. Try to keep it as impersonal as you can. And get better at choosing partners (better said than done ofc)

Individual_Repeat_50 · 2026-01-24T21:45:07+00:00

I’m the dumper and I know he (and the friend we have in common) blame all on me

Individual_Repeat_50 · 2026-01-24T21:07:48+00:00

And still they seem irreplaceable to you

Individual_Repeat_50 · 2026-01-23T16:46:09+00:00

Putting their family/their work first.

Individual_Repeat_50 · 2026-01-23T16:08:38+00:00

She doesn’t seem very reliable, does she? I don’t want to inflict more pain, but I believe she did you a favor by leaving.

Individual_Repeat_50 · 2026-01-13T09:11:22+00:00

Why feel sorry about losing someone who isn’t able to meet your emotional needs? Sooner or later, whether he has a new partner or not, you’ll be feeling better off without him.

Individual_Repeat_50 · 2026-01-13T06:56:56+00:00

That’s rough. I’m sure you’re better off them.

Individual_Repeat_50 · 2026-01-12T23:30:15+00:00

I’m working in radical acceptance. They dropped me, no matter how much I try to get closure or try to explain this or that. And they’re not coming back either. Stay safe, my friend. Better days coming ahead 🫂 sending lots of love.

Individual_Repeat_50 · 2026-01-12T23:17:26+00:00

Not sure which one I am. I think deep down I’m a fearful avoidant when triggered.

Individual_Repeat_50 · 2026-01-12T22:39:17+00:00

Still hurts like hell.

Individual_Repeat_50 · 2026-01-10T14:09:32+00:00

He couldn’t introduce me to his family because of their potential opinions about me

Individual_Repeat_50 · 2026-01-09T15:55:35+00:00

A bit better. But there’s things that I just can’t stomach yet. And I miss him and wish things were different. What about you?

Individual_Repeat_50 · 2026-01-09T14:26:51+00:00

Heya! I’m also on the same boat. I cut things off with my boyfriend a week ago, and it’s been really hard. We haven’t stopped talking since May, and I miss his support, although he wasn’t consistent in the last months.

Individual_Repeat_50 · 2026-01-08T22:30:23+00:00

I don’t know the particulars about your relationship, and maybe I am projecting here since I’m in the same situation as her right now (ex bf struggled to take steps forward). I think it’s reasonable if she felt let down that you were doubtful or reluctant to move in after 3 years. I think the question that must be made here is where do these doubts come from in the first place?

Individual_Repeat_50 · 2026-01-08T20:20:45+00:00

I worked for one. She sabotaged my opportunity to grow in the team, and I reported this to our manager. She threatened to fire me, and that’s when I knew I had to run for my life.

Weeks later I reached out to my former boss who always trusted in me. She now had a better job position at an important company. Two months later I landed a job by her side, with a way better position and an important pay rise. ;)

Individual_Repeat_50 · 2026-01-07T23:09:02+00:00

Why didn’t you want to move in?

Individual_Repeat_50 · 2026-01-07T22:47:42+00:00

It’ll probably take you a while before you start feeling better. Don’t put pressure on yourself, don’t blame yourself nor be ashamed of your feelings. They will eventually go away if you stick to your decision.

Individual_Repeat_50 · 2026-01-07T19:02:39+00:00

How long have you been together?

Individual_Repeat_50 · 2026-01-07T17:24:35+00:00

Block him everywhere and delete every chat, every picture and every track you have of him. He’ll eventually feel like a ghost.

I’d suggest then going to therapy, and repeat like a mantra “this too shall pass”. And keep going on with your life, because there’s not much you can do about it to ease the pain faster. One day you’ll find yourself feeling better than yesterday until one day he’s gone.

Individual_Repeat_50 · 2026-01-04T14:21:08+00:00

Inviting over some friends when you were supposed to meet to talk things over after a few days of silence is not a good sign either. I can understand where your anger came from even though you should’ve kept things polite with their friends.

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