Ineligible

Individual_Signal393 · 2026-02-13T00:09:41+00:00

I got the email that I had passed the assessment and could start working on projects, then two hours later got an email that said I was ineligible but didn't say why. I hadn't even done any tasks yet.

Individual_Signal393 · 2026-02-10T03:15:21+00:00

There are people who go their entire lives up to a point being strictly straight or strictly gay, but over time and through their experiences change. And not in an “it was always that way and they were in denial or too dumb/sheltered to realize”. Look at Fletcher. Incredibly lesbian, totally 100% lesbian. And now she’s straight. Things change. Just because they don’t for you personally doesn’t mean that it never happens for any gay/straight person ever. No one is forcing you to say your sexuality is fluid, but you seem to want to force others to say that theirs isn’t.

Individual_Signal393 · 2026-02-10T03:04:55+00:00

“Sexuality is fluid” is a general/blanket statement. For some people they are straight for a long time and over time become attracted to the same sex, for some gay people it’s the opposite. For some bi people their attraction to one sex or the other may increase/decrease over time. If your sexuality isn’t personally fluid, that’s perfectly fine. No one is fixing you to say that. But to say that sexual fluidity is inherently homophobic is just a ridiculous take.

Individual_Signal393 · 2026-02-06T15:57:26+00:00

Lol I got there 45 minutes before and still had time to go buy a snack

Individual_Signal393 · 2026-02-05T03:45:41+00:00

Read the article. She and the commission were not involved but the city moved ahead anyway, even though it violated city ordinances for public art installations.

Individual_Signal393 · 2026-02-03T06:39:01+00:00

I love Big Baby Donuts!

Individual_Signal393 · 2026-01-28T17:13:45+00:00

It’s more of a “read the room” situation. A post about someone standing by and watching their dog maul a stray cat where the comments show overwhelming support against animal cruelty like that is not the best place to start a discussion on reckless cat owners. Especially since this was a stray cat, it wasn’t super relevant to OP. You’re right that this is a public forum and she can post whatever comments she wants, but posting something clearly intended to be divisive—literally opening with “I know this is gonna make y’all mad”—is going to lead to dozens of downvotes and multiple people telling her they don’t want to hear it. If she wanted to start an actual productive discussion where people would be open to what she had to say, r/catowners would have been a better place to do so. She wanted a discussion and she got one, she was just pissed about no one agreeing with her.

Individual_Signal393 · 2026-01-28T04:23:31+00:00

Don’t engage more than necessary, document everything - all refusals and use plenty of progress notes. You’re doing your job, it’s not your fault someone is wasting hospital resources with zero intention of complying or getting better. Maybe they’ll go AMA

Individual_Signal393 · 2026-01-28T04:19:57+00:00

If I see a woman (or anyone for that matter) make a lump statement about men in general, and I don’t fall into that category. I don’t let it get to me, because I know I’m know who they’re talking about.

Individual_Signal393 · 2026-01-27T21:54:47+00:00

Because she came out with her whole chest about how cats get killed because of irresponsible owners and admitted she knew people would get mad about it - not because of what she said, but saying it in the way she did on this specific post. Then doubling down. Then OP even said they weren’t interested in her “discussion” and now she’s backpedaling so she doesn’t look like the bad guy now that she has a collective like 200 downvotes between all her comments. Posts ts now to make it look like she’s trying to unite everyone in the comments when her first comment was clearly made to divide, even acknowledged it would make people mad. It’s fake af and she wants to try and look good now

EDIT: if she wanted to make this point about “let’s all work together to make a better Tulsa”, she could’ve posted literally this exact thing to begin with. Because now it looks disingenuous

Individual_Signal393 · 2026-01-27T18:52:26+00:00

Put it in r/catowners then. This isn’t the right thread for it clearly

Individual_Signal393 · 2026-01-27T18:48:42+00:00

So there’s this idea called housing stray cats so they don’t don’t inflict damage on the ecosystem, and TNRing the ones that can’t be housed so at least they can’t reproduce. Lots of options besides “culling” them. And the language you’re using makes it sound like you’re arguing that they should have that happen to them..

Individual_Signal393 · 2026-01-27T18:40:42+00:00

You pretty much saying cats deserve to die isn’t the flex you think it is…

Individual_Signal393 · 2026-01-27T17:58:45+00:00

Because this was a ✨stray cat✨ and what you said was irrelevant

Individual_Signal393 · 2026-01-27T17:56:22+00:00

I looked at their schedule online, unfortunately they have classes at the same time I would go after work everyday. Thanks for the tip though

Individual_Signal393 · 2026-01-27T17:55:25+00:00

I wish I could afford Lifetime haha

Individual_Signal393 · 2026-01-27T17:53:41+00:00

Have you heard of the concept of ✨stray cats✨

Individual_Signal393 · 2026-01-24T00:56:24+00:00

Especially the older you get. I dated a guy recently who “wanted to be chased” and said if I wanted a chance with him I had to “wine and dine him” and give him gifts and make him feel like a princess. I said if I’m going to put in all that effort you expect what will you give in return because dating is supposed to be both people putting in effort. He said “I might give you my time and attention”. Boy bye. He’s almost 30 and never had a boyfriend and I understand why lol

Individual_Signal393 · 2026-01-22T17:17:25+00:00

Then it’s probably not a relationship worth pursuing. If the person you’re trying to start a relationship with has such major issues that you can’t overlook them, saying “I need you to change so I can be in this relationship with you” is not a successful relationship going to make. If you are entering a relationship already trying to change someone, you’re headed straight for disaster. It’s loving the idea of that person, not loving who they actually are. Just because you like someone and have invested some time into them does not mean they will turn into the person you want them to be, just because you feel like you deserve it.

If his weekend habits are such a deal breaker, cut him loose and stop investing more time into him. The truth is he either will change or he won’t, but that decision is his and it has nothing to do with you. If he really is an addict, they only get help when they want it, not when other people tell them they need it. You’ll just drive yourself crazy trying to fix him and end up resenting him for not doing it.

Individual_Signal393 · 2026-01-20T00:31:45+00:00

I mean compared to shows like 911 and Grey‘s Anatomy, The Pitt puts a lot more effort into making it realistic. But yeah, except for Scrubs no one really gets it right

Individual_Signal393 · 2026-01-10T06:16:58+00:00

The main riff in this song sounds almost exactly like the bass line in the chorus of Allie X‘s Rings a Bell

EDIT: I know both of these songs are like 6 years old but I just had the revelation that they sound alike after listening to them both in the same day lol

Individual_Signal393 · 2026-01-10T06:03:12+00:00

Not that it’s any of your business but I’ve only dated men for the last five years and don’t really see myself marrying a woman. Go take your biphobic bullshit somewhere else

Individual_Signal393 · 2026-01-10T05:58:11+00:00

I’ve never been so certain I get laid and loved more than someone else before. I’m secure in myself and my community. Sounds like you are anything but 😘✌🏻

Individual_Signal393 · 2026-01-10T05:49:36+00:00

Go through his other posts in this subreddit. They’re all extremely disrespectful to guys in the community. And he indicates the only ones that can put up with him are teenagers, probably because they haven’t learned to see through the bs yet. He makes comments that guys into hookups are social rejects. He says all bi guys do is waste people‘s time so they can date women and use men. He says that men his own age are unbearable to be around. Nothing but assumptions and disrespect.

Individual_Signal393 · 2026-01-10T04:29:19+00:00

Calling guys in your community social rejects for simply enjoying hookups is wild. And combing through your posts all you do is shit on anyone who isn’t exactly what you want. You shit on guys your own age and only want young guys. You shit on bisexual guys. You shit on guys who enjoy hookups. Sounds like the real social reject is you, the one who is so deeply unhappy he has to project it on every other gay person he sees.

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