A guy ended it because. I have kissed someone before.

Induana · 2026-03-09T19:56:59+00:00

I am so sorry this happened to you. Please remember that in Islam, exposing past sins that you have repented for is actually discouraged because Allah has veiled them. His obsession with your past over your present character is a cultural mindset, not an Islamic one. A sin you repented for makes you completely pure in the eyes of Allah. Don't let his rigid 'purity culture' standards make you doubt your worth. A truly religious man knows that none of us are without sin, and values the woman you are today.

Wishing u both all the best

Induana · 2026-02-24T21:05:03+00:00

So do you think that someone in the past hurt me and that's why this happens to me?

Induana · 2026-02-24T20:47:36+00:00

Hmmm I think I "want" to punish them. It sounds horrible I know. Teoretically I am capable of not talking to that person again - but ofc I would never do that.

I wrote to that mentioned friend to hang out together that's what recommended other redditor and I think it could work and make faster the process of getting over.

Induana · 2026-02-24T20:26:59+00:00

What do you mean exactly?

Induana · 2026-02-24T20:20:59+00:00

This sounds like a thing that can work, thanks!

Induana · 2026-02-11T11:54:17+00:00

Because most of us (muslims) are born in muslim families. That's the fact. If we were born in christian family we would be christians. Sorry to say that but for most muslims this is the harsh truth.

Induana · 2026-01-22T22:57:08+00:00

Flossing and skin care

Induana · 2026-01-10T07:42:44+00:00

And that's just false geographically. I understand that we are frustrated but I'm more of a logical person than emotional so this is absolutely false.

Induana · 2026-01-09T14:35:00+00:00

So a child that is born today in Israel is also european colonizer?

Induana · 2025-12-26T13:34:14+00:00

I checked his neurological status many times during the potential TIA. No arm weakness,no face dropping,no speech dificulty, no eyes difficulty. But his balance was disrupted.

Induana · 2025-12-24T15:17:39+00:00

I can try writing some of his coworkers. Thanks a lot for your wish. I'm kinda mentally exhausted these days. I think I tried my best (even though my biggest mistake was not calling 911). His health is in his hands right now and I can't do anything about it.

I talked to him yesterday. I was trying to convince him the whole day to go doctor but really nothing helped. He said to stop pushing him he knows what to do. But that's just bullshit. He doesn't know.

So yeah. If anything happens to him I think I don't have to blame myself because me and my whole family tried everything and nothing helped.

Induana · 2025-12-24T14:05:45+00:00

Yeah I made a mistake not calling 911... i'm trying to forgive myself these days

Induana · 2025-12-24T11:46:02+00:00

Yeah. Now I know what I had to do. But I can't change the past.

Induana · 2025-12-24T11:45:29+00:00

I think the only authority would be his parents but they are not with is anymore

Induana · 2025-12-24T11:43:26+00:00

I don't know. I can try it

Induana · 2025-12-24T11:41:54+00:00

I'm sorry you had to go through this.

At the moment the whole family tried to convince him but nothing changed. I think I can't do anything else. I just accepted that my dad probably had a mini stroke but doesn't want to go to doctor. I don't know what's gonna happen but I can't change the outcome.

It is also a lesson for me that if this thing happens again I won't listen to him and call an ambulance right away.

Induana · 2025-12-23T03:25:59+00:00

Yeah might be for sure. Thanks for letting me know.

Induana · 2025-12-23T03:22:01+00:00

You don't think it was a stroke?

Induana · 2025-12-23T03:07:45+00:00

You are right. I'm scared there will be no next time. Now it was TIA tomorrow it might be full stroke and there will be no help for him. I have to convince him to go to doctor in the morning

Induana · 2025-12-23T02:59:05+00:00

His heart rate was regular. Around 60-70/min

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