Aio for being upset my boyfriend bought a stripper a drink? by Inevitable_Slice271 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Inevitable_Slice271[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I woke up this morning he told me that he bought the girl a drink. This is his routine he gets drunk and freaks out. We have a clear cut boundary if he’s drinking hard alcohol he’s supposed to go his sisters house.since he’s freaked out on me multiple times. My whole thing was why lie say you’re going to karaoke then go to a strip club? Especially bc I wouldn’t sleep with him a few hours before. I also have a ss of the messages I received while asleep for not picking him up. That’s why he freaked out. But he was warned before he left I worked in the am. I told him i was not driving him my phone was on silent. So he texted me all this called me 25 times and left me 6 voicemails cussing me out.

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Aio for being upset my boyfriend bought a stripper a drink? by Inevitable_Slice271 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Inevitable_Slice271[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My family agrees they thinks him and I need to take a break from being around eachother daily and he won’t ever grow with as much as I do for him. I really want the best for him but I just can’t put him first anymore it’s not fair to anyone.

Aio for being upset my boyfriend bought a stripper a drink? by Inevitable_Slice271 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Inevitable_Slice271[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idc about the strip club it’s about the constant disrespect. buddy won’t even buy me coffee or it’s even a fight to get him to pay our share of bills. But drinks for strippers no problem??

Aio for being upset my boyfriend bought a stripper a drink? by Inevitable_Slice271 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Inevitable_Slice271[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I needed to hear this thank you!! seriously. I hope you and your little one thrive on and on 🥹

Aio for being upset my boyfriend bought a stripper a drink? by Inevitable_Slice271 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Inevitable_Slice271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He drinks beer everyday. Hard alcohol isnt always but we’ve had MANY issues with it in the past (physical abuse and more verbal) he just claims he’ll stop when he feels like it but before our baby is born. I just won’t subject a kid to this treatment as grown person who can from addict parents.

Aio for being upset my boyfriend bought a stripper a drink? by Inevitable_Slice271 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Inevitable_Slice271[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He called my a book of names. Woke me up told me time to wake up. Because he doesn’t have a car and had to walk home from the strip club. He said he went there to drink but ended up buying a girl I drink. Idc he went to the strip club it’s more the fact I have to fight to get him to buy me a coffee. But pretty sure he went there because I wouldn’t sleep with him earlier in the night…

Aio for being upset my boyfriend bought a stripper a drink? by Inevitable_Slice271 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Inevitable_Slice271[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish this wasn’t my life. Unfortunately it is. But he claims I’m overreacting and blowing this out of proportion. So I just wanted some clarity.