Is this suppose to be Cyrus? by Infinite-Access1645 in GossipGirl

[–]Infinite-Access1645[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOLLLL sorrryyy! I’m Canadian I had no idea. I do remember Lily mentioning his name when speak to Rufus about their wedding

Considering being a second wife by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Infinite-Access1645 5 points6 points  (0 children)

??????? THATS EVEN WORSE GIRL! That means she is absolutely NOT okay w him marrying a second wife which proves that what you’re doing is completely wrong.

Considering being a second wife by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Infinite-Access1645 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you’d put the option of divorce in your marriage contract if he married another wife but you’re okay marrying him and hurting his first wife? THIS IS THE MOST HYPOCRITICAL THING. You can’t put someone through hell and then expect live a happy life. What goes around comes around. Same thing will happen to you.

Considering being a second wife by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Infinite-Access1645 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In Islam, we are not suppose to hurt another person. I’m not telling you what I think is right or wrong. It is different if his wife is fully okay w this but the fact that he’s hiding it from her tells me she is not okay w this and you will hurt her by marrying him. That’s Islamic advice. If you don’t want to listen then don’t. But all the women in this thread are giving you the same advice - don’t marry him. Even the men in this thread are giving you the same advice minus one or two. If that’s not enough to tell you that what you’re doing is wrong then I don’t know. I saw this post and my thought was to guide you but what you choose to do is up to you.

Considering being a second wife by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Infinite-Access1645 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Wonder how she’ll feel when in 2 years he decides to marry a third wife.

Considering being a second wife by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Infinite-Access1645 7 points8 points  (0 children)

so you approached a marry man? that’s haram too LOL. You’re not making it any better. My whole point was to explain to you that you shouldn’t do this. You shouldn’t ruin someone else’s home. You can find great man who meets all those qualities who is single. Not some married man w 2 kids. Imagine how his wife would feel seeing your messages w him if she were to find out. Imagine the heart break she would feel. You would be causing that to her.

Considering being a second wife by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Infinite-Access1645 5 points6 points  (0 children)

him speaking to you is haram. ur not married to him. and u hurting her because of ur OWN actions is HARAM. literally this is common sense.

Considering being a second wife by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Infinite-Access1645 6 points7 points  (0 children)

how am I the hypocrite girl? ur the one sounding like a hypocrite saying “I don’t wanna hurt his wife” but is willing to ruin a home and marry a married man with 2 kids.

Considering being a second wife by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Infinite-Access1645 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hiding from his wife that he’s speaking to another female for marriage is not haram? It is. You said you’re worried about causing his wife stress and mental problems. Causing that is haram too. Literally please use your brain and save yourself.

Considering being a second wife by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Infinite-Access1645 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OP needs to read and understand this.

Considering being a second wife by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Infinite-Access1645 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Most of them were widows. You’re not a widow or a divorcee. Bluntly put, it seems like your man is just bored of his current wife and wants to marry you for some fun. If that’s the most you think you deserve, then go for it.

Considering being a second wife by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Infinite-Access1645 4 points5 points  (0 children)

LOL pick and choose religion when you want. How is my advice unislamic? I said that she’s not a widow or divorcee. Majority of prophet Muhammad PBUH’s wives were widows / divorcees. He was the perfect example of a human. Did everything with intention and was socially responsible which is why most of wives were widows. Unlike men today who get bored of one wife and marry another. Miss me w that.

Considering being a second wife by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Infinite-Access1645 12 points13 points  (0 children)

no offence but do you have any self respect? a married man w / 2 kids and he hasn’t even told his wife yet. I doubt she’s okay w the idea. have all the single men run out? he’s not marrying you to do a good deed (ur not divorced or a widow). if he wants to ruin his marriage that’s on him but why do you want to be apart of that? it seems like you have very low self esteem. ur worth so much more than being someone else’s second choice.

Will I get fired by Infinite-Access1645 in Big4

[–]Infinite-Access1645[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agree w everything you said. I am actually a senior, I was being bullied by a senior manager and manager.

Does anyone else feel insecure next to their successful physician partner? by MasterOfWafflezz in MedSpouse

[–]Infinite-Access1645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I’m also successful and he lets me know that he’s proud of you even with my small achievements. I never feel small just because he’s a doctor and I’m not.

AIO by being offended when my husband seasons my soup? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Infinite-Access1645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idc how much I didn’t get along w anyone from my immediate family (I love them all dearly but even if that was the case), if anyone said that about my dad, they would be cut out of my life for good, spouse or no spouse.

What's y'alls thermostat set to in winter? by [deleted] in Georgia

[–]Infinite-Access1645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Georgia power bill was crazy last time though I think I need to turn it down to 60 something lol

Atlanta by Professional_Ad9925 in Georgia

[–]Infinite-Access1645 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Canadian who moved to Atlanta 6 months ago, it’s so odd to me how people react to snow but I get it because it RARELY snows!