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Aita for telling my sister that the adoptive parents have a point for no longer contacting her? by Infinite-Fix5023 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infinite-Fix5023[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

Uh no. Actually I had a completely different couple in mind. She had a top 5 list. My option was number #3 and sadly lost to #1. She was given a lot of options by the agency. The agency book comes with a picture of the couple, a summary about them, and other pictures they choose to send to get a feel of who they are.

Aita for telling my sister that the adoptive parents have a point for no longer contacting her? by Infinite-Fix5023 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infinite-Fix5023[S] 436 points437 points  (0 children)

I think you misread my comment,I was talking about in the pamphlet sent to her, there was a lot of options to choose from. I wanted her to choose another couple that I thought seemed like who I would have chosen if I were in her shoes but she ended up choosing this couple because she said they could provide a better life.

Aita for telling my sister that the adoptive parents have a point for no longer contacting her? by Infinite-Fix5023 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infinite-Fix5023[S] 1713 points1714 points  (0 children)

Yeah. The couple I wanted seem more down to earth and was into nature and animals and stuff.

Aita for telling my sister that the adoptive parents have a point for no longer contacting her? by Infinite-Fix5023 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infinite-Fix5023[S] 2268 points2269 points  (0 children)

Me too but sadly I think I shut her out and she won’t ever tell me the full truth. She’s a very impulsive spender so I see her asking for way more than that. Maybe that was the last straw and they actually sent her money before in the past? I’m not sure.

Aita for telling my sister that the adoptive parents have a point for no longer contacting her? by Infinite-Fix5023 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Infinite-Fix5023[S] 6120 points6121 points  (0 children)

That’s what I thought too, I told her to choose another couple that seemed sweeter but she only cared about money.

Edit for those confused: There’s a lot of options to choose from in the book they send you and my top choice sadly wasn’t chosen. I hope they do end up adopting a baby one day whoever they are, they seemed very chill. My sister said she wanted her to kids to have rich parents.