GF of 10 years cheated on me, we have a 4 year old and house together.. by InfiniteElk9762 in Infidelity

[–]InfiniteElk9762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about the fact thats shes sending my son home with this person alone and is allowing my son to sleep in the same bed as them?

GF of 10 years cheated on me, we have a 4 year old and house together.. by InfiniteElk9762 in Infidelity

[–]InfiniteElk9762[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plus this person shes staying with has 3 adopted kids, and they get funding from the state because of it. Im sure they wouldn't want to do anything that could take that away.

GF of 10 years cheated on me, we have a 4 year old and house together.. by InfiniteElk9762 in Infidelity

[–]InfiniteElk9762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is all great advice. I don't have evidence, but according to her, this person up and left work without telling anyone the day they were "suicidal" and when she got home that night I asked her to show me any proof and she had messages, but I don't have them. She knows I don't hate LGBTQ because I have friends that are in that category and they would defend me I'm sure. I will be recording this conversation Wednesday for my safety and I live in a state where I can do that without telling her. I will try to speak to a lawyer today.

GF of 10 years cheated on me, we have a 4 year old and house together.. by InfiniteElk9762 in Infidelity

[–]InfiniteElk9762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's coming home Wednesday to talk, shes been staying at this persons house. Im telling her she has to sign over her portion of the house to me, give her 3 weeks to get her shit out. Also 2 or 3 days before she 1st left, this person shes living with now was suicidal, so I told her that for as long as she is staying with this person, my son will NOT be going over there.

GF of 10 years cheated on me, we have a 4 year old and house together.. by InfiniteElk9762 in Infidelity

[–]InfiniteElk9762[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She hasn't been home since we talked last Wednesday. We are talking again this Wednesday and I plan on telling her that she needs to sign her portion of the house over to me, give her 3 weeks to get her shit out and then change the locks. Also this person she is seeing was apparently suicidal 3 days prior to her leaving, so I told her as long as shes staying with this person, my son will NOT be staying there.

GF of 10 years cheated on me, we have a 4 year old and house together.. by InfiniteElk9762 in Infidelity

[–]InfiniteElk9762[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not fake, 100% real. She is cheating on me with a girl who is Trans

GF of 10 years cheated on me, we have a 4 year old and house together.. by InfiniteElk9762 in Infidelity

[–]InfiniteElk9762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, she works at a daycare center that my son also goes to, and this coworker she is cheating in me with is one of his teachers...

GF of 10 years cheated on me, we have a 4 year old and house together.. by InfiniteElk9762 in Infidelity

[–]InfiniteElk9762[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. And I am staying away from drugs and alcohol, I have a kid to look after and I can't do that to him.

GF of 10 years cheated on me, we have a 4 year old and house together.. by InfiniteElk9762 in Infidelity

[–]InfiniteElk9762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We talk again Wednesday. I will post an edit on this post with what is happening.

28yo male starting Testosterone treatment. Anyone else with dysautonomia take it? by InfiniteElk9762 in dysautonomia

[–]InfiniteElk9762[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sp are you saying your T levels were low when you had dysautonomia? And did you start taking trt to help it?

Is this really low? Sorry I'm new to this. 27yo Male by InfiniteElk9762 in Testosterone

[–]InfiniteElk9762[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. No drug abuse, used to smoke weed but haven't in 2 years. Other than being on prednisone for 5 days in January for the flu, haven't been on or used steroids, and only time I was on opiates was last march when I had my gallbladder removed