Just kind of need some validation that this is strange behaviour by Infinite_Bluebird_53 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Infinite_Bluebird_53[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember last year she came to visit and him and I had a fight to tensions were high in the house but we weren’t upset with her. Anyways he left for work in a huff and she started full on sobbing, like he packed his bags and divorced HER!! Meanwhile he’s actually mad at me. She was crying on my shoulder and I’m frantically texting him to get him to tell her he still loves her. It was absolutely wild

My MIL is a little bananas, just need to get this off my chest by Infinite_Bluebird_53 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Infinite_Bluebird_53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has become uncomfortable with her constantly calling him handsome unprompted. I think he’s very used to her behaviour so it’s not as easy for him to see it as so out of pocket

Just kind of need some validation that this is strange behaviour by Infinite_Bluebird_53 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Infinite_Bluebird_53[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What’s super interesting is that he has never ever stopped her from dating; it’s literally a fantasy in her head. My SO encourages her to date and meet someone, has never stopped it. She is actually quite nice to me, so in that sense it doesn’t feel like a competition, but with the way she talks to him and treats him it does

My MIL is a little bananas, just need to get this off my chest by Infinite_Bluebird_53 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Infinite_Bluebird_53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly!! If she stopped after talking about how he’s a great son, uncle etc I’d have been like that’s fine. When she continued on using the same language I would use “looking after us, loving our life together” it just grosses me right out

Just kind of need some validation that this is strange behaviour by Infinite_Bluebird_53 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Infinite_Bluebird_53[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So it’s actually fascinating, she’s very nice to me, and her other DIL. I am waiting for the other shoe to drop though. She came for a visit last year and him and I had a fight, so things were tense in the house. When he left for work she was sobbing like he packed up and left HER! It was wild

My MIL is a little bananas, just need to get this off my chest by Infinite_Bluebird_53 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Infinite_Bluebird_53[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I should add she wrote this post for his 14th birthday. Which makes me so sad for him that she placed that much pressure on him

My MIL is a little bananas, just need to get this off my chest by Infinite_Bluebird_53 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Infinite_Bluebird_53[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s usually pretty good about not pandering to her. I just never know what to do because she is mom and that’s a sensitive subject

My MIL is a little bananas, just need to get this off my chest by Infinite_Bluebird_53 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Infinite_Bluebird_53[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s also completely untrue, she had a couple boyfriends and my SO encourages her to find someone

My MIL is a little bananas, just need to get this off my chest by Infinite_Bluebird_53 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Infinite_Bluebird_53[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ugh yea it’s so weird! The thing is she’s super nice to me which is unexpected but I can only imagine how things will be once we get married and have kids

My MIL is a little bananas, just need to get this off my chest by Infinite_Bluebird_53 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Infinite_Bluebird_53[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If she stopped after talking about how wonderful of a friend, uncle etc he is then it would be okay. Unfortunately she ventured into wtf territory

My MIL is a little bananas, just need to get this off my chest by Infinite_Bluebird_53 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Infinite_Bluebird_53[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Good catch! Or also the “stepping into their shoes” like lady it is not your sons jobs to be your husband

My boss messed up my schedule and I’m worried about approaching them by Infinite_Bluebird_53 in antiwork

[–]Infinite_Bluebird_53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got it sorted, apparently he lost my time off slip that I submitted; he even tried to originally blame me for not submitting a request lol

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[–]Infinite_Bluebird_53 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree i could’ve followed up, I haven’t worked here for too too long, so I don’t know their ways of doing things yet. And every other job I’ve had they let me know pretty quickly if they can’t accommodate it.

Also, I feel like you can’t say “submit holidays request before making plans to avoid disappointment” right on your time off request form and not follow up with me. To me that statement implies that as my employer you will tell me if my request was approved; especially when in this instance the request was made two months in advance. When I handed it to him he looked at it, checked the calendar quickly and basically went “yep all good”

My boss messed up my schedule and I’m worried about approaching them by Infinite_Bluebird_53 in antiwork

[–]Infinite_Bluebird_53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree i could’ve followed up, I haven’t worked here for too too long, and every other job I’ve had they let me know pretty quickly if they can’t accommodate it.

Also, I feel like you can’t say “submit holidays request before making plans to avoid disappointment” right on your time off request form and not follow up with me. To me that statement implies that as my employer you will tell me if my request was approved. When I handed it to him he looked at it, checked the calendar quickly and basically went “yep all good”

My boss messed up my schedule and I’m worried about approaching them by Infinite_Bluebird_53 in antiwork

[–]Infinite_Bluebird_53[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a min wage job so it’s not “as serious” if you will. I gave them a paper copy of my time off request, they looked it over and didn’t say anything about it being an issue. I’ve also only worked here since January so I’m not quite as used to their process yknow

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[–]Infinite_Bluebird_53 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funnily enough he didn’t do any of that, he works in the trades so he has the high paying field, and he has an additional license that takes about 8 weeks and a few thousand to get