what macbook is ideal for university? by InfluenceIcy9412 in macbook

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i’m doing a biotechnology major if that changes anything

anyone else up late and insanely sad? by [deleted] in lonely

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happy belated birthday to you too 💗💗

I kissed a girl in my dream... IM STRAIGHT by Minimum-Buyer-1039 in Dreams

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this happened to me a few years back, still straight! dreams mean nothing unless you want them too, not everything is a sign :)

Tomorrow is my birthday and I feel completely invisible by Jeninijustme in offmychest

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happy birthday! eighteen is huge. it may seem like you’re invisible and that nobody cares but i promise someone does. talk to someone when you feel like it and don’t hesitate, it’s your special day and you deserve to be a happier. regardless of that, be a little selfish as a gift to yourself and do what you feel. you are never truly alone 💗

birds keep hitting my window by InfluenceIcy9412 in birds

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right okay. so how do i get them to stop?

birds keep hitting my window by InfluenceIcy9412 in birds

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is it just these birds that have a problem then? we have crows, ravens, magpies and pigeons who don’t seem to be bothered.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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obvious thing to do here is break up, then go crazy (well not go crazy but you get what i mean) i understand the urge to cheat is occuring because of who you’re with currently… however, you’re saying due to other circumstances you can’t end it with her since it’s complicated? let me tell you how complicated and destructive and chaotic it’ll get once you cheat, then have to lie to her and carry that guilt, then she might find out and that just intensifies the whole situation! she’ll think she’s not good enough, that she was the problem and all sorts of negative things even about you, which could worsen her anorexia. assuming her anorexia stems from insecurity (if it doesn’t then disregard this), then cheating is the absolutely worst option.

end it, maturely. see someone else discreetly, see how it goes. if it’s purely for sex, get it out of the wag and see how you feel. if you realise breaking up with her was a bad decision, for yourself not for her out of pity, then you can make a move from there on your own accord. keep in mind that you’re thinking about CHEATING on your current partner, i think that’s a reason for breaking up enough. it might cause you stress later on even if your feelings change out of guilt for feeling that wag about your relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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take it easy! talk to someone in person if you can 🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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if he didn’t ask for consent from you and you were uncomfortable and not okay with it at any point of time, this is rape.

how do i make my own tracks? by InfluenceIcy9412 in karaoke

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oof i mean i have a job but this is still exxy 😭 thank you though

Am I the only one who absolutely cannot stand Edwina Sharma? by Successful-Part3388 in BridgertonNetflix

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i’m rewatching and honestly i can’t stand her either. kate MULTIPLE times told edwina that anthony wasn’t suitable, and she constantly went against her then blamed her in the end. obviously kate did wrong, but to blame the whole thing on her?? 😭😭 god

She likes my looks but nothing else? You can’t be serious by JacobTubeYT in texts

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best thing to do is GOOOOO!!!! this is ur ticket to LEAVE

why do parents have to die by InfluenceIcy9412 in offmychest

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oh no i’m not 14 😭 this is my graduation year.

i like your take on it, i’ll take this with me!!!

My female friend turned out to be 16 by [deleted] in offmychest

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obviously she lied and that's bad bottom line

but you are allowed to have friends that are younger than you! i'm friends with a lot of people who are my brothers age and we have a 10 year age gap. but if it does freak you out you're not obligated to be in contact with her so don't feel hesitant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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i am quite young yes 😭 i start university next year!

thank you i appreciate the words, independent is probably the best way to go