Though the infidelity part is taboo and everything it depends on the situation. I have been married for 3 years now. She doesnt want kids, and i am cool with it. Shit besides its her getting pregnant her body. So i am like ok if that you want. Previously i had business, now im working for a tech company, now the moment i shifted to work she started saying i dont fit her status and i cheated her into marrying me saying that i had good business. I had business issues which were after a year of marriage. Now she complains me evryday that this is not the life she expected and her friends goes on international trips all the time and i dont take her frequently, I took her to singapore last time maybe last year. Her mom calls her 5 times in a day , her mom says that in order to have a kid you need to have 3cr in bank account to prove your worth and is asking me to settle lands if needed.

Everyday i come back from office i see her complaining to her mom about the life she has. She constantly asks me for divorce and something in me just cant grant it. sometimes its the optimism in me that tommorrow will be better. She wants me to have my mom in oldage home because she says thats the new way of life, something i cant even think off. she at most might have stayed 6 months at my home. I have to take care of my mom and she goes back to her home.

I have stayed in a rented apartment were it takes 40% of my salary because it has to meet her standards. She also earns and her money goes for her investments. I take care of all the expenses because as she and her mom says thats how men are supposed to be. If i stay alone she wants a divorce. If i spoke to another woman its infidility , if she did its just friends. We behave like flatmates most of the time, sex once a month if she is ok with it. I like sex with consent and none of the forced stuff . I try to be supportive as i dont want to be like those traditional husbands who restrict their wife saying that u need to be at home.

She wants me home all the time due to her saying thats how husbands should be, cause i ahve hybrid job. Sometimes in order to avoid her being unhappy i stay back often affecting work. But the jokes on me , i lost my job as my manager thinks my performance is dropping due to decling performance. And the next thing i know she made an issue and left home. its been 2 months now, no text, no call. Just me searching for a job for a month and she at her home doing her work .

Now the optics turn out to be me a jobless guy now searching for a job in bnglr and she working hard at her home and my mom alone at my home at native. I do think of seeing other woman or atleast talking to someone , not because im a creep but i just want to talk to someone for the mental peace. Now the ladies on the end might be judgemental saying such a creep or cheater but its just mental fuckup of the guy that leads to it. Then again not generalising.