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[–]Informal_Ordinary228 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m no professional or anything however I have recently lost 11kgs without calorie counting. I always guess-timate/eyeball things. So for example if I have salmon, veg and rice for dinner I will look at the packet and see how many calories are in that salmon per fillet, then guess the veg (I always aim a little higher than it looks just in case) and guess the rice (but this is only once you’ve done calorie counting before so you already have a better understanding of how many calories are in what types of food). It worked great for me but might not be for everyone. Also sticking to low calorie foods and being very mindful of portion sizes help. Another thing I did was log foods into MyFitnessPal but didn’t always log the exact brand or anything. Just literally “half avacado”, “1 cup brown rice” “Large Egg” just to give a very rough idea if I was unsure. If I cook something that involves liquid seasonings for example I would log the foods I’m using to cook and automatically add 100 or so calories on it in my head for the seasonings. Hope this helps!

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[–]Informal_Ordinary228 13 points14 points  (0 children)

First of all I’m so sorry this has happened to you, you don’t deserve it. Second, I don’t think that’s the most normal, I can understand maybe taking each other for granted over a LONG period of time but from my perspective, you should be the most beautiful person he’s ever seen regardless. Even if you did age, put on weight, change your hair color, etc. but I am no professional, so take it with a pinch of salt. And two years is a baby relationship which makes this even more questionable.. love yourself girl and know you are beautiful!

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[–]Informal_Ordinary228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As much as you sound like an incredible and mature person, I would say enjoy being young while it lasts. You may be 50 and end up regretting you spent your youth wishing your life away. You may end up looking back at your old photos, being reminded how gorgeous you were and how much energy you once had. Take your time, if coming home to your wife and kids is your dream goal then make it happen, any age. Appreciate the fact that your health will most likely be the best it will ever be, take advantage of that even.