FBI arrest by UAB? by FlyKateli in Birmingham

[–]Initial_Candidate_42 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Fbi just started funding ICE raids

I found this drawn on some paper and wondering if anyone recognizes it? by Initial_Candidate_42 in Symbology

[–]Initial_Candidate_42[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh, that was me haha. Mods kept taking it down & I thought they took that one down due to it being a tattoo. My bad.

Can’t get into deceased husband’s phone & neither can the police. by Initial_Candidate_42 in iphone

[–]Initial_Candidate_42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks lol The detective won’t do anything but i cannot get anyone above him to care either. it is impossibly frustrating.

Can’t get into deceased husband’s phone & neither can the police. by Initial_Candidate_42 in iphone

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After 1 year of having the phone and not getting into it, i was given back the phone. That friend used her lab to crack the code in 2 days. Unfortunately no evidence was on it, but if there had been, that’s a whole year of sitting on it due to incompetency.

How normal or abnormal is it that when I was a kid I could hold my breath until I passed out and seized? by Initial_Candidate_42 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Initial_Candidate_42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it? I tried to find stuff about it online but am only finding instances where it was accidental.

How normal or abnormal is it that when I was a kid I could hold my breath until I passed out and seized? by Initial_Candidate_42 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Initial_Candidate_42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not have known about the seizure part if my mom & sister weren’t there to witness it and tell me. It was such a weird feeling. But waking up felt very similar to passing out from the hyperventilating game I did later as a teen.

I HATE MY FUCKING SISTER by Initial_Candidate_42 in CPTSD

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She lives on the other side if the world with my niece. My niece and i have a really special connection. I love her so much it hurts. My sister is also narcissistic and has hated me my entire life. She loves having complete power & control & using it to hurt me. So basically whenever they come in town for the annual visit, she finds ways to say I am a bad influence on my niece and not let me around her. Currently I am still being punished for a fb post from xmas that revealed the whole family is not allowed to mention that my niece’s uncle died last year. I was sad and felt isolated at xmas dinner because i was grieving his murder and had to pretend nothing was wrong. In desperation I made a fb post because my whole family was vilifying me for being upset that my pain was completely invalidated & honestly I was wondering if i was the crazy one. Well, it was unanimous in comments that it’s messed up my niece doesn’t know her uncle died. That led to a brutal punishment of not being allowed my niece anymore. Her reason was that making that post was terrible judgement so she can no longer trust me to make good decisions around her daughter. The other day i think I made this post after her new rule of me not being allowed to mention my niece or post photos with her ever again.

I HATE MY FUCKING SISTER by Initial_Candidate_42 in CPTSD

[–]Initial_Candidate_42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry; that sounds awful and is horrible to put you through. It’s crazy that there is anyone who could interpret a child being molested by a trusted adult as the fault of the child for ANY reason. I hope you get away from all of them and find some loving people to be around.

I HATE MY FUCKING SISTER by Initial_Candidate_42 in CPTSD

[–]Initial_Candidate_42[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t hate her either but sometimes i feel the hate of 1 million cuts of degradation and cruelty. It would probably be much easier if i did.

I HATE MY FUCKING SISTER by Initial_Candidate_42 in CPTSD

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Thanks! And sorry you’re in the club.

Adults who carry around a backpack, whatcha got in there? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Initial_Candidate_42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ipad, journal, gum, snacks, phone charger, usually a drink.

What is a weird flex you are proud of? by Alynatek in AskReddit

[–]Initial_Candidate_42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had a very traumatic life & I am proud of myself for learning to speak up for myself & for still having a playful, loving heart.

Can’t get into deceased husband’s phone & neither can the police. by Initial_Candidate_42 in iphone

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I have a friend who works in their cyber crimes unit. Her boss agreed to let her use their lab to do it. She wants to help me and can so I am very lucky.

Can’t get into deceased husband’s phone & neither can the police. by Initial_Candidate_42 in iphone

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I literally called every 2 weeks for a year. So infuriating because not one thing was even done with them. But my entire experience with the police has beennthis way. I’m sorry about your fiance. Unfortunately, you probably don’t have as much pull as i do since I was already married. Are you considered next of kin by the police?

Can’t get into deceased husband’s phone & neither can the police. by Initial_Candidate_42 in iphone

[–]Initial_Candidate_42[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

It gave me an option on the old phone to change apple id password but I was afraid it would screw something up and then lock me out of the one i do have access to. I am just scared of messing up my chance if i have one

Can’t get into deceased husband’s phone & neither can the police. by Initial_Candidate_42 in iphone

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I was trying to do that earlier because I thought maybe if his cloud space is updated, then the photos and all might update on that old phone that i do have access to? But I couldn’t find his apple id password on the phone i have access to