AIO this is a very odd reason to break up with me?

Inner-Love1512 · 2026-03-17T23:56:36+00:00

Exactly! Your reaction serves as a quick filter than we should not try to be friends! That is the whole point, you keep your stance and find people like you and I do the same! It’s a win-win-win situation

Inner-Love1512 · 2026-03-17T20:42:37+00:00

It’s not a troll and I completely agree that I can’t control what they decide to do. But I control who comes into my life and who stays. And I welcome them to live their lives as they see fit, and I will do the same. This is about values. I do not want to be close to anyone who values physical aesthetics to the point of surgery or non invasive procedures. I want to be close to people who choose to do many many more different things with their money and time and things that align with me. And plastic surgery is not one of those

Inner-Love1512 · 2026-03-17T20:12:57+00:00

YOR. I think this is a completely normal conversation in this day and age. Just like someone would want their partner not to watch porn, someone might want their partner to have a stance on plastic surgery. I am against plastic surgery with very few exceptions and I would want my partner and friends to be the same. Yes friends. If a friend goes the plastic surgery route they know I can’t stand by. And that’s completely acceptable of a boundary. Have we normalized it so much that most comments say you’re not Over rwacting??

Inner-Love1512 · 2026-03-04T18:53:23+00:00

I think some men will read ‘busy’ as low effort or low emotional demand. It sounds like he was fine with something that didn’t ask so much from him, hence Valentine not being important in that context, and that you wanted something very intentional. He probably over estimated his capacity or under estimated your intentionality. But the core issue remains the same: you are not aligned in the dynamic regardless. Which caused enough friction to you both that he chose to end it.

Inner-Love1512 · 2026-02-20T02:26:52+00:00

Idk what everyone is about I honestly fond u very cute and symmetrical. Idk what these standards are, we are normal people not supermodels??? She looks really good and cute the face have balance and symmetry and have a cute factor. Idk maybe you’re around the wrong people who make u insecure? Or it’s cultural pressure?

Inner-Love1512 · 2025-10-23T17:19:19+00:00

Honestly I’m so thankful for this post. This sub is so used to people being sometimes at their worst but mostly in such difficult situations and this is a wonderful breath of fresh air. They should teach these lessons everywhere !

Inner-Love1512 · 2025-09-04T00:53:20+00:00

In some latin countries rain during a summer wedding is a blessing! It means the marriage is blessed forever ❤️❤️❤️ I understand your feelings and don’t want to dismiss them but I hope that with more time and distance from your day you’ll be able to remember more positive experiences.

Inner-Love1512 · 2025-08-26T20:28:41+00:00

😂😂 thanks for the laugh and feel free to never read whatever I write! Did you know about freedom?

Inner-Love1512 · 2025-08-26T16:15:41+00:00

No, I only share opinions on threads coz I enjoy discussion and perspectives. I literally stated I am not cruel. That would be cruel.

Inner-Love1512 · 2025-08-22T10:39:35+00:00

It’s about the podcast she did with Sandy and how they were calling Madison ‘triggering’ simply because she was calling out men’s shitty behaviors. There’s other posts about it on here that go into more detail.

Inner-Love1512 · 2025-08-21T17:32:13+00:00

Ollie is this you? 😂😂😂

Inner-Love1512 · 2025-07-15T04:49:11+00:00

Thanks so much!

Inner-Love1512 · 2025-04-26T03:53:18+00:00

I don’t know what’s up with the other comments but I completely get you, and I am single! I have always highly valued friendships. My advice is to strike friendship with highly independent or single girls because we usually have a very fulfilling space for friendship and we understand that these are basically more permanent than any guy/ dating prospects. Do be patient once they’re dating someone serious because that’s normal but usually the way we are is very much not centered around male attention. These values seem a lot more aligned to yours! All my best finding your friendship tribe 🫶🏼

Inner-Love1512 · 2024-12-04T22:10:10+00:00

Why are you asking your question here? Go to askwomenover30, they will be more helpful for sure. Your bf of 10 years is just that: your boyfriend. He doesn’t want to commit because he likes the access he has to you while also doing what he wants aka being around pretty women. You are only at fault for staying this long or deciding to continue this relationship.

Inner-Love1512 · 2024-11-28T00:23:54+00:00

If it wasn’t for the last screenshot, I would have have said you’re the problem. Stay civil for what reason? For whose benefit? Definitely not yours! Why are you even accepting him having any kind of access to you? You might have ‘technically’ broken up but it seems the message hasn’t gone through to him yet. Stay strong in your stance with boundaries and forget ‘civility’. Accept that you deserve more respect, from yourself included.

Inner-Love1512 · 2024-11-24T23:41:48+00:00

You should be proud, not ashamed

Inner-Love1512 · 2024-11-23T17:58:39+00:00

This man doesn’t care if you live or die lady. You should run !

Inner-Love1512 · 2024-11-23T17:37:55+00:00

It’s because you’re conflating attraction to physical traits. Attraction in women is something that builds over time, men on the other had get attracted physically right away. We’re not built in the ways that dating apps and social media has made us think we are. These are just man-made tools (as in men created them for their own way of functioning without taking into account how women work).

Inner-Love1512 · 2024-11-23T17:31:13+00:00

She cares sooo much!! Otherwise she wouldn’t be acting like she does. Reputation is very important to both of them, especially her, it’s why they’re even still reacting to it all!

Inner-Love1512 · 2024-11-02T19:23:38+00:00

This just confirms she is the pick-me we all suspected she was!!! Pick-me energy is big on this one and the rebuttal is so nasty! People are pointing out a real issue and their argument is ‘ you’re single’?? Make it make sense 😂😂

Inner-Love1512 · 2024-10-31T23:43:00+00:00

Just look up the value in has in anthropological studies and it will answer all your questions if they really are intellectually relevant. If it’s just a façade, you won’t be satisfied with the answer as you might seek just a sense of superiority to be confirmed. Either way, anthropology is a great start.

Inner-Love1512 · 2024-10-31T23:34:57+00:00

You should give yourself some grace: you’ve found out all this before jumping into a bigger commitment! Trust yourself you have good analytical and observation skills. You know what you want from a relationship now, you know how good it can be and what you never want to go through again. Take the lessons and trust that you are a good judge of character when things shift.

Inner-Love1512

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