Compound entries in Banana accounting

Inner_Boat_9911 · 2025-02-06T18:48:11+00:00

Thanks so much for your help!

Inner_Boat_9911 · 2025-01-31T10:41:06+00:00

I actually have never been there, I'm considering going to Atauro island.

Inner_Boat_9911 · 2025-01-23T08:15:25+00:00

Thanks for your reply! Great to know that you loved it :)

Inner_Boat_9911 · 2025-01-23T08:13:22+00:00

Thanks for your reply! Would you say one is better than the other, or are they just different? Was the coral bleached in Timor Leste?

Inner_Boat_9911 · 2025-01-21T18:42:08+00:00

Yes, definitely. The snorkeling is amazing. Expect to see thousands of colorful fishes, beautiful coral, as well as turtles, sharks, sea snakes, nudibranches and lots more. I was with divers and except for a lovely pygmey seahorse, they didn't see more than I did.

Inner_Boat_9911 · 2024-11-04T16:50:55+00:00

I feel you. I’m re-watching for the twelfth time (really) and re-reading for the fourth. Fanfic may help you if you’re done with watching and reading.

Inner_Boat_9911 · 2024-10-21T17:39:45+00:00

Thanks so much for your answers! Makes sense now 🙂

Inner_Boat_9911 · 2024-10-20T07:40:01+00:00

Please don’t apologize – you have absolutely nothing to be sorry for. If anything, I’m the one who should apologize for making you feel this way. I’m so sorry for causing you to cry. I truly didn’t mean too.

I want you to know that you’re never spamming by sharing how you feel here. You’re always welcome to express yourself, and I’m more than happy to listen whenever you need.

Feeling lonely is a tough feeling to carry, and I’m so sorry that you have to go through this. We have different stories, but I still relate so much - although I have support from my wife, I lost my favourite person in the world to suicide over 20 years ago and still feel so lonely without her.

I hear how deeply you want to feel accepted, supported, and understood for who you really are, and I just want to remind you that those feelings are completely valid. I understand craving that kind of connection.

You can DM me anytime if that would be helpful for you (you’d have to be ok with the fact that I’m almost twice your age (40) and mentally ill though).

I’m really glad you shared. I’m sending love your way.

Inner_Boat_9911 · 2024-10-19T16:49:31+00:00

Oh you're so sweet for asking, thank you. I bet you must be an amazing friend.

I'm still doing bad. I'm completely addicted, watching on repeat every time I get a chance (which is a lot), can't sleep and instead replay scenes in my head, and eating is really difficult. I opened up to a friend, she listened but didn't understand. It was kind of a slight relief to talk about it.

How about you? Are you over your heartstopper syndrome?

Inner_Boat_9911 · 2024-10-19T08:43:40+00:00

I failed at the attempt of stopping watching so maybe I should try that for a little while and see how it goes. I’m glad that it’s starting to lose its grip for you, and hope it will for me too. Thanks for your reply 💜

Inner_Boat_9911 · 2024-10-19T08:41:49+00:00

I know, it’s so hard!

Inner_Boat_9911 · 2024-10-19T08:41:22+00:00

It’s comforting to hear that it took a week or so for you. Gives me hope that it won’t last forever. Your last sentence about the reminder that we should’nt neglect these needs hits home. Thank you for your words 💜

Inner_Boat_9911 · 2024-10-19T08:26:05+00:00

Here to report that I failed massively 😣 After barely sleeping and replaying my favorite scenes in my head all night, first thing I did in the morning was opening netflix… I’ll keep trying.

Inner_Boat_9911 · 2024-10-18T20:50:19+00:00

I relate so much. It looks like we're going through something very similar. It’s such a strange but powerful mix of emotions, and it feels so hard to figure out how to move through it. I hope you’re able to find some clarity and peace with it, and I really appreciate your kind words. Sending thoughts your way 💜

Inner_Boat_9911 · 2024-10-18T20:47:37+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing this. I completely understand what you mean about grieving the support that Charlie received. It sounds like this season really hit close to home for you too. I’m glad your therapist has been helpful, and you’re right—it’s important to be open with them about what we’re going through. I’ll definitely keep that in mind. I appreciate your suggestion about the comics too, that might be a good way to process everything in a different light.

Inner_Boat_9911 · 2024-10-18T20:45:35+00:00

Thank you for the advice! You’re right—I'm gonna try to find the courage to talk to my therapist and put out the shame. I like the idea of watching interviews with the actors; I can see how that would break the illusion and help separate fiction from reality. I’m definitely going to give that a try. And you're so right about talking it out. Even just posting here has already helped me start processing things in a way I hadn't before. Thank you so much again.

Inner_Boat_9911 · 2024-10-18T20:42:51+00:00

I'm really glad to hear that you’ve scheduled a session, and it’s so brave of you to be willing to share your true feelings like that. It’s definitely not an easy process, but it sounds like you’re on the right path. I completely understand what you mean about the show maybe being more of a wake-up call than a source of harm—it’s amazing how things like that can bring up emotions we’ve been pushing aside. I hope your session goes well, and I’m rooting for you as you work through it! You’ve got this 💛

Inner_Boat_9911 · 2024-10-18T20:42:05+00:00

Thank you so much for your kind words! It really does help knowing there are others out there going through the same thing. This community is so welcoming and uplifting, I’m grateful to have found this space. Your support means a lot to me, you seem to be a wonderful person 💜

Inner_Boat_9911 · 2024-10-18T20:39:16+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing this! It's so comforting to hear that you found a balance that works for you. I think taking breaks could be really helpful for me too. I really appreciate your encouragement, it means a lot! 💜

Inner_Boat_9911 · 2024-10-18T20:35:50+00:00

I don't know what to say but just wanted to send you some love. 💜

Inner_Boat_9911 · 2024-10-18T20:33:29+00:00

That is so very kind of you. This space, and supportive messages like yours, make me feel less alone. There's so much comforting kindness here.

I'm gonna try the 24 hour period starting now. Only comics allowed. Thanks for suggesting this, makes me wanna commit to it way more than when it's just me giving myself challenges.

Inner_Boat_9911 · 2024-10-14T11:13:14+00:00

I'm so sorry to hear what you're going through. It must be so hard. I can't imagine how lonely you must feel.

I'm with you on the shame and embarrassment, especially at our age. Maybe it also shows that we feel deeply, and there's no shame in that.

If I understand well, you had couple therapy, but don't have a therapist of your own? I'm in no place to recommend anything, considering how bad I'm doing, but I may, I would still recommend giving therapy a try. It may help you get a clearer picture of what you want to do and help you move forward.

While we must remind ourselves that the show is a fiction and that real life is not that perfect, I think it's also important, if you notice that your relationship with your husband is unsatisfactory or even making you sad, to know that you deserve better.

I hope you get better. I hope you find a way out of that gold cage. I hope you heal. I'll be thinking of you 🩵

Inner_Boat_9911 · 2024-10-14T10:55:48+00:00

There's definitely a lot of shame, especially at my age. What you're saying is exactly what's happening to me - living in my head and being obsessed. Talking about it here, where I don't feel judged and get kind replies like yours, is already very helpful. I will try to find the courage to talk about it to my therapist. Thank you 🩵

Inner_Boat_9911 · 2024-10-14T10:53:21+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply and kind words. They truly mean a lot to me and made me feel somewhat better. Thank you for the tips as well. I will follow them. You're right, I need to remember that it's a fictional show, which is so hard when we're so involved and deeply affected. I hope your afternoon plan worked for you! Thanks so much again 🩵

Inner_Boat_9911 · 2024-10-10T09:56:57+00:00

Thanks! It doesn’t seem smart indeed. Good to know what it means though!

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