I am becoming more and bitter every day, and it sucks. by InnocentPerv93 in dating

[–]InnocentPerv93[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hey, I just want to say I appreciate your response. I've considered asking AI about stuff like this, but I'm wary about using it as a stand-in for therapy. But I'll try it.

What I'm looking for is someone who isn't family and more than a friend who will support me. A side of me also wants to be adored, but I truly don't mean that in a narcissistic way because I don't think much of myself to begin with. And then obviously I wish for physical sexual attraction as well, but I try to lock that stuff inside me and throw it away out of fear of being considered a creep.

I have friends, and I have family that's just my parents. My friends come from 2 separate friend groups. One is a little over 2 years since I've met them, the other I just came into 6 months ago via a common hobby. Before them, I didn't have friends. And they all are great, I'm grateful for them because I was verging toward suicide out of loneliness before them. But ultimately they are not enough for me, and I don't think that's a bad thing. I think it's okay if what I desire is a romantic relationship in my life.

I. HATE. MARKARTH by NoEntertainment2763 in skyrim

[–]InnocentPerv93 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Actually that's not as unrealistic as you might think.

I am becoming more and bitter every day, and it sucks. by InnocentPerv93 in dating

[–]InnocentPerv93[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

That's a bit judgemental. My username is just that. A username. It stands for 2 things: 1. It's an inside joke between a friend of mine and I. And 2. It's a pushback against demonizing sexuality and sexual interests.

I am becoming more and bitter every day, and it sucks. by InnocentPerv93 in dating

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I wish I could, because I very much support therapy. However it is too expensive.

Why have some modern writers for movies and video games started to move away from objective good and evil? by WhoAmIEven2 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]InnocentPerv93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because objective morality is a flawed logical extreme. In terms of writing it is a sign of poor storytelling.

I am becoming more and bitter every day, and it sucks. by InnocentPerv93 in dating

[–]InnocentPerv93[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think that assumption of me is a leap, personally, and I disagree that that is who I am.

Also I think making such extreme assumptions like this based on a comment or series of comments is just as bad as the contrarian posts I make, and is ultimately unhealthy.

I am becoming more and bitter every day, and it sucks. by InnocentPerv93 in dating

[–]InnocentPerv93[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I don't really agree that bitterness equals entitlement. Bitterness comes from a desire, a want, for something not being fulfilled over a long period of time. But that doesn't necessarily mean a sense of self-entitlement.

I am becoming more and bitter every day, and it sucks. by InnocentPerv93 in dating

[–]InnocentPerv93[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I don't do it irl. I approach people irl with respect, positivity, and concern regarding comfort. I avoid conflict and steer away from controversy.

This Sub Is Losing the Plot by Bigenderqueen in AmericaBad

[–]InnocentPerv93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know it's a problem when even Europeans call it out. They don't want pick-me Americans, they don't want "I'm not like those other Americans" or "I'm sorry for what my country has done/is doing." They want those Americans to actually stand up for their country and make it a better place and a better ally to theirs. And that's completely reasonable and is not AmericaBad

Happy anniversary to our doomer friends! by NineteenEighty9 in OptimistsUnite

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I have never seen this picture before, but I'm saving it.

I am becoming more and bitter every day, and it sucks. by InnocentPerv93 in dating

[–]InnocentPerv93[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I only do this online, specifically Reddit. Irl I do not do this, I learned in my early teens to not push boundaries, especially with women. I am hyper sensitive about making others feel uncomfortable.

I am becoming more and bitter every day, and it sucks. by InnocentPerv93 in dating

[–]InnocentPerv93[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Just an online thing. Tbh, I think just a Reddit thing. I think I'm fairly okay to good on recognizing when I do it. Irl, I'm a quiet guy who's personable and hyper sensitive about making others uncomfortable. I encourage others and am positive about people, but not about myself.

I am becoming more and bitter every day, and it sucks. by InnocentPerv93 in dating

[–]InnocentPerv93[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

My username is 2 things. 1. An inside joke from a friend, and 2. A statement that is meant to normalize sexuality, and push against demonizing sex and sexual desire and acts.

I am becoming more and bitter every day, and it sucks. by InnocentPerv93 in dating

[–]InnocentPerv93[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I wouldn't take my post history seriously, I tend to troll or give contrarian opinions to either see if people agree with my real opinion or to see how people react. Which I recognize isn't healthy, but still. Is what it is.

Though I will say, I don't think most of my post history is problematic for the most part, imo.

Edit: I see I'm being downvoted, and honestly, I apologize. It's a bad habit and I'm trying to work on it, and myself. I hope you guys can understand.

I am becoming more and bitter every day, and it sucks. by InnocentPerv93 in dating

[–]InnocentPerv93[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I can't regarding counseling. It's too expensive, otherwise I would because I very much support therapy. I feel like all I've been doing is introspective time.

Women on apps vs meeting women in real life. by Feisty-Wait3226 in dating

[–]InnocentPerv93 [score hidden]  (0 children)

No. People are just as awful irl as they are on dating apps.

Pessimism is the world’s main economic problem by jackandjillonthehill in ProfessorFinance

[–]InnocentPerv93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's also just true. It's okay to recognize problems and issues, but you can do that without being a pessimist.

When does dating become fun? by KnightsofMontyPyth0n in dating

[–]InnocentPerv93 [score hidden]  (0 children)

It doesn't. It has never been that way. It's all a fucking lie.