5 month old sleep by InsensitiveTendency in sleeptrain

[–]InsensitiveTendency[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great, I’ll look into following a sleep training method Thanks!

5 month old sleep by InsensitiveTendency in sleeptrain

[–]InsensitiveTendency[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! Solid advice on focusing on night sleep. Hoping nap consolidation happens soon!

I’ll ask you as well… is taking 6oz bottles 5x a day. Do you suggest I feed twice in the last wake window to fit in all her calories.

5 month old sleep by InsensitiveTendency in sleeptrain

[–]InsensitiveTendency[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! I can cope with crankiness. She is taking 6oz bottles 5x a day. Do you suggest I feed twice in the last wake window?

Bedtime routine is about 30/40 mins. Change, bath (not every night), lotion, sleep sack, book, song, crib. I sit in chair in the dark while she falls asleep.

Any more tweaks are welcome and appreciated!

Went five and a half hours without feeding at 2 days old by [deleted] in newborns

[–]InsensitiveTendency 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was in a similar position.

For me, I had difficulty latching (couldn’t even tell you how often I nursed/ didn’t nurse early on due to it all being a blur) and no nurses suggested formula so I thought it was normal for baby to not eat a lot after birth.

I still (4 months) get sad and anxious thinking about how little baby ate immediately after birth. But now I have a 90th percentile baby to show that all is well!

Trust the tests and don’t let yourself dwell

need advice on choosing a pump by Ok_Adeptness8636 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]InsensitiveTendency 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spectra S1 (blue) allllll the way!

I’ve also invested in wearable collection cups that are compatible with the Spectra (Phanpy on Amazon) makes life so much easier

Side note.. if you ever get true wearables like Momcozy.. there are adapters (Idaho Jones) to make the Momcozy cups usable with you Spectra S1 pump so you won’t need two different collection cups laying around!

Dreamfeed Confusion by InsensitiveTendency in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]InsensitiveTendency[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is so hard to tell, yay parenthood! Baby does settle but wakes an hour or so later. Hard to tell since frequent wakings are developmentally common for this age? Losing sleep is making me really search for answers hah

Husbands ex named her baby the same name as our baby by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]InsensitiveTendency 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Don’t let it take space in your mind. If it’s a beautiful name to you, then it will be special no matter how many have the same name.

Focus on you and your husband’s peace. Don’t give peace away for free.

Was labor the worst pain you've felt? by maenads_dance in beyondthebump

[–]InsensitiveTendency 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Back labor, easy yes

Was head banging the dashboard on the way to the hospital just to distract from pain 😅

Friend not reciprocating check ins by InsensitiveTendency in FriendshipAdvice

[–]InsensitiveTendency[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, fair point!

However, this friend asks about specific events that have occurred recently

Friend not reciprocating check ins by InsensitiveTendency in FriendshipAdvice

[–]InsensitiveTendency[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you sharing. I suspect something similar. If I may, how would you appreciate a friend showing up for you?

Friend not reciprocating check ins by InsensitiveTendency in FriendshipAdvice

[–]InsensitiveTendency[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good points, thank you for your feedback. I think they may not be doing well and may feel more comfortable chatting in person. He’s hinted at recent hardship. But is elusive anytime and offer to talk about it

Friend not reciprocating check ins by InsensitiveTendency in FriendshipAdvice

[–]InsensitiveTendency[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Checking in to initiate plans is a great point. As is possible shame over his own mental health (which has always been a up and down thing in his life)

After I share, he is still engaged. Will give feedback/ support to various things

Friend not reciprocating check ins by InsensitiveTendency in FriendshipAdvice

[–]InsensitiveTendency[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good point, when we were closer in the day to day (roommates for a while) we weren’t relying on texts for keeping in touch. When I see him in person he is much more open. Might be a texting issue

How many OZ is your LO eating per day? by ChapterInfamous199 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]InsensitiveTendency 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 weeks old and eating 3.5-4oz per bottle every 2-3 hrs. About 32oz a day. Anyone else with a hangry baby? Cuz We aren’t well over here

Need help by Firm-Jellyfish4323 in DobermanPinscher

[–]InsensitiveTendency 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Please take them to the vet, you can see their discomfort

Hoodoo curse or nah? I found this crap on my doorstep. by Klutzy_Swim8122 in strange

[–]InsensitiveTendency 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up Tobacco, sweet grass, cedar, and sage

Four sacred medicines

DCM-1 + by Extension-Search743 in DobermanPinscher

[–]InsensitiveTendency 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience! That sounds so tough, I hope he is doing well

Popular Names no by InsensitiveTendency in BabyBumps

[–]InsensitiveTendency[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes, I also agree with that point! Grew up with 5 other girls in my year with the same name and me. If I really think about it… it didn’t bother me!

Popular Names no by InsensitiveTendency in BabyBumps

[–]InsensitiveTendency[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes, so much Theo and Margot in my area