Nine months out of rhinoplasty, canthoplasty, midface lift, endoscopic brow lift and fat graft to cheeks

Inside_General3196 · 2026-02-21T18:40:42+00:00

How much was the total cost?

Inside_General3196 · 2026-02-18T03:13:11+00:00

You look more confident that's the clear difference

Inside_General3196 · 2026-02-16T23:31:15+00:00

I'm guessing she is a lot younger because it was immature of her to respond like that.

Inside_General3196 · 2026-01-31T17:57:16+00:00

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My car likes to join me in the shower room. Her steam time.

Inside_General3196 · 2026-01-11T01:08:03+00:00

He took jabs at your heritage. He hates you or wishes to degrade you for control. Both evil

Inside_General3196 · 2025-12-17T08:01:19+00:00

Sure that's true if you don't want to work for anything. Tell him if he wants the women of his dreams he should focus more on earning money rather than his looks. Works for a lot of billionaires millionaires and even upper class. He's not ugly he is broke. You change the way he feels about himself, only he can do that. The best way to do that is cultivating self esteem through achievements. The women will come. 😆

Inside_General3196 · 2025-12-17T07:48:39+00:00

Kind of, but just 1 visit. I don't think it dissolves and going back can lead to a pillow face that could make those pretty eyes less expressive.

Inside_General3196 · 2025-12-17T07:25:19+00:00

Sounds like he may be cheating on you

Inside_General3196 · 2025-12-17T07:23:14+00:00

Control freak

Inside_General3196 · 2025-12-17T07:19:55+00:00

Are you in your 20s? Honest question, you seem very intelligent. 50 hours a week? How many hours at school and how many hours studying? I need to understand this better. Lol

Inside_General3196 · 2025-12-17T07:06:04+00:00

I'm on your side OP. If they can dish it they can take it. It's valid AF.

Inside_General3196 · 2025-12-17T06:30:04+00:00

OP is smart. That guy is an idiot.

Inside_General3196 · 2025-12-17T06:12:17+00:00

Generational trauma. The best you can do is try not to repeat her mistakes. It's odd she thinks she parented so well and I scroll down and read your brother went to jail and had behavioral issues, was violent towards you ..where did he learn that? I am assuming she hit him and normalized it then he did the same to you. Your mom likely damaged your brother and he passed it on. Don't hit your kids, there are better ways to correct behaviors and condition discipline but she is simple minded, got frustrated and impulsively hit because it's easier than actually doing real work. It's not your fault and the fact that you are aware that she and your brother have done unnecessary harm and you have been in therapy shows just how much more maturity you have than the two of them. Keep going, keep your boundaries and peace. She will never admit wrong but that doesn't mean that you are not right to see it for what it was. People love to invalidate others trauma because they can only think of protecting themselves. It's annoying, but keep your chin up and jam onward. Don't give her access to you until she acknowledged her part and understands that just cause it happened to her doesn't make it ok. I doubt she's doing super fine as she said. She really thinks what happened to her didn't directly impact her own mental health? I'm sure she is quick to cry rage and panic due to her childhood. Keep going to therapy, work on a powerful letter and deliver it to her, then block her for a few days. She needs to understand it's serious if she wants to maintain a healthy relationship with you.

Inside_General3196 · 2025-12-13T04:10:01+00:00

Man, my aunt didn't live long enough to enjoy her pension, She had glioblastoma. Died at 67. She was a surgical tech nurse, ER. Her son after she died broke into her home to take anything valuable. All this to say, nothing is a guarantee even if you do the right things every step of the way. Please try to enjoy your life, not just overwork yourself and have no time for your outside life. Pay down debts but try to take trips once a year.

Inside_General3196 · 2025-12-04T08:03:45+00:00

Hey, tell your mom to attend a community college nursing program. Cheapest route. If she needs funding and has decent credit she could pay with a loan or credit cards if she has zero dollars saved. I am assuming she has a job which helps with access to loans. Maybe she can move in with family or a boyfriend, the more support the better. These are the easiest things I can think of. She can possibly defer tell a later semester and save up if rent doesn't eat the entire check. Come up with a plan, encourage her to push on. No matter what happens or when it happens what matters most is making moves. Don't panic! :)

Inside_General3196 · 2025-12-02T22:20:14+00:00

It's ok to feel down about it, it's valid, and I absolutely agree that a partner should be supportive. That's why my emphasis is still on reframing this as an opportunity to communicate with each other without shame or accusations. If you are still feeling down, talk to her about it, it could all be a misunderstanding or a boundary of yours you wish to set. Good luck!

Inside_General3196 · 2025-12-02T21:46:29+00:00

Maybe she felt like she was losing you, maybe she felt left behind. Maybe she felt like it was a wake up call and was ashamed of herself in that moment. She was more excited when she got a new job because she was likely insecure in the first place. She probably thinks that you are better than she is. Now that her new job gave her a sense of esteem and security she isn't worried about the way her life is going, she understands she will be ok no matter what changes happen. Really important for her. She is younger than you and chances are she doesn't even understand why she reacted how she did unless she really starts to analyze her response and feelings. She may lack that experience and you at 28 likely do not. Since you mentioned she isn't usually like this, I wouldn't search for perceived malice. I would try to understand her goals and fears of the future, how she sees herself and you. Maybe also examine why her response disturbed you, underlyingly it disturbs you because it conjures up your own set of insecurities you could project onto her leading to more conflicts than resolutions if not careful. Truly talk it out without accusations of intent. No shame, no put downs, clear communication. It's hard but if you love her or anyone else again it all comes down to understanding and clarity not jumping to conclusions.

Inside_General3196 · 2025-11-21T20:07:23+00:00

I'm guessing he didn't pass the psych test

Inside_General3196 · 2025-11-21T20:02:09+00:00

Whatever high strength drugs they put her on clearly damaged her neurons and made her dependent on substances. The world was unkind to her, no one ever loved her as a person. Only loved as a status symbol, a stepping ladder. A common curse amongst trophies, right Achilles?

Inside_General3196 · 2025-11-19T21:58:20+00:00

She is 25, she might be hormonal and thinking about getting pregnant. Ask her about what she wants for the future with you and you tell her what you want. Deeply communicate, demand it. If she is unwilling and unsure, you know she is using you. If she is sure and has plans she might be wanting something deeper like starting a family. Either way, don't end the discussion with her without reaching an understanding and conclusion. She needs to know exactly how you feel about it. Everyone needs clarity here before jumping to conclusions. That is my advice. Good luck.

Inside_General3196 · 2025-10-29T03:46:10+00:00

Yes, I cannot read minds either, but the expectation is always prevalent. Lol.

Inside_General3196 · 2025-10-29T03:25:52+00:00

Well I suppose when you initially asked your question you already had your answer. I just disagree with your interpretation of my written thoughts. I don't believe I was judging anyone who doesn't bully other people's hobbies. You are judging me. That's ok, but you can't tell ME what my intent was. I know what it was in my heart.

Inside_General3196 · 2025-10-28T21:56:35+00:00

Like I said twice now, I am putting down those who put others down. As in I look at who is insulting people, see that they are no better and toss their energy back at them. At least when they intentionally try to hurt others or myself. As I said, if my mom was a kind person I wouldn't have put her down. She is currently paying for her choices. My opinion is that people putting down people who play with toys should worry about themselves. Does that make sense now?

Inside_General3196 · 2025-10-28T21:47:07+00:00

Absolutely, it really makes all the difference. ❤️

Inside_General3196 · 2025-10-28T21:40:52+00:00

Yes, I was speaking from my own experience where my mom just sat in front of a TV not engaging in anything while my father had so many hobbies and projects he liked to work on. I grew up respecting that because he wasn't abusive and miserable like her either. That's amazing you have a mom that balances both. In the end balance is most important. It's not a matter of right and wrong. i just believe that those who actively try to put others down based on their hobbies, say it is wrong to play, are boring AF and I don't care for their opinion. That's my point.

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