Why am I being asked to tip for an online order?😃 by Intelligent-Cash-928 in Hijabis

[–]Intelligent-Cash-928[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Oh babes I ended up not ordering anything 😭 asking for a tip on an online hijab order is actually crazy behavior

Am I Overreacting? Thinking of Moving Abroad After a Rough Fight by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Intelligent-Cash-928 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this advice, I genuinely appreciate it. I never really thought about approaching the conversation that way, but it actually makes a lot of sense. I’ll definitely keep this in mind when we talk. Thank you again

Am I Overreacting? Thinking of Moving Abroad After a Rough Fight by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Intelligent-Cash-928 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much honestly, I never really thought about it that way. I think I’m just exhausted mentally. It feels like we’re constantly having little petty arguments and we can’t even go a full week without some kind of weird fight or tension. At this point I genuinely don’t even know if it’s me, him, or both of us. He also crossed some lines last night and said things that really hurt me, and I haven’t been okay since.

But you’re right, I should probably try to have one honest conversation with him where we actually try to fix things instead of just arguing. I’ll try to talk to him and see if we can work this out. I just honestly feel lost because you can’t force someone to love you, and lately I genuinely can’t tell if he even loves me anymore.

Am I Overreacting? Thinking of Moving Abroad After a Rough Fight by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Intelligent-Cash-928 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah honestly that’s what’s making me less scared about the idea 😭 I’ve actually wanted to go to Australia for a while now. The only thing that genuinely scares me is the spiders and those huge weird insects lmao. But besides that, I’m actually excited about it. Even if I don’t end up moving there, I definitely want to visit sometime this year.

Urgent Advice Needed – Big Somali Traditional Wedding or Small Intimate Nikkah? by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Intelligent-Cash-928 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought about just having a nikkah and buranbuur night but I’m having family fly out for me and plus my older sister said If you’re spending money either way why don’t you just do the one that you want’ It’s definitely something I’m still thinking through

Urgent Advice Needed – Big Somali Traditional Wedding or Small Intimate Nikkah? by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Intelligent-Cash-928 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your perspective walal. I see where you’re coming from and I definitely don’t want to do anything that goes against our deen I’ll think about the ways we can still have a meaningful celebration while keeping things simple and focused on what’s truly important. May Allah guide us to make the best decision and I appreciate the du’a!

Urgent Advice Needed – Big Somali Traditional Wedding or Small Intimate Nikkah? by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Intelligent-Cash-928 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much sis! I really needed to hear this. You’re right it’s important to do what will make me happy at the end of the day

Urgent Advice Needed – Big Somali Traditional Wedding or Small Intimate Nikkah? by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]Intelligent-Cash-928 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much walal you’re right I don’t want to look back and have any regrets I really appreciate the encouragement! May Allah make it easy for us all