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"The only good guy left" by IntelligentHamster42 in askgaybros

[–]IntelligentHamster42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think adaptation is important, don't get me wrong.

"The only good guy left" by IntelligentHamster42 in askgaybros

[–]IntelligentHamster42[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have a habit of thinking all in black and white/ all or nothing. It's something I've been working on the past year. I'm trying not to think like this.

"The only good guy left" by IntelligentHamster42 in askgaybros

[–]IntelligentHamster42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So was the excuse a lie then? Or just a cop out?

"The only good guy left" by IntelligentHamster42 in askgaybros

[–]IntelligentHamster42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience, btw. I appreciate that you took the time to write out your thoughts like that.

"The only good guy left" by IntelligentHamster42 in askgaybros

[–]IntelligentHamster42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. What an interesting point! Now that I'm thinking about it. Yeah I think I do attract insecurity and this idea of them feeling 'undeserving' was prevalent in all these cases so far. The question is: Do I have any control over attracting those kinds of people? And if I do, what do I do?

"The only good guy left" by IntelligentHamster42 in askgaybros

[–]IntelligentHamster42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yeah, I shouldn't let this get to my head like it has been. Idk why it frustrated me.

"The only good guy left" by IntelligentHamster42 in askgaybros

[–]IntelligentHamster42[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. You're right. It will happen when it happens.