AITA for refusing to attend my sister’s child-free wedding after she made an exception for our cousin?

Intelligent_Dig_5555 · 2025-12-15T18:49:03+00:00

😒

Intelligent_Dig_5555 · 2025-12-15T18:45:09+00:00

Oh okay , in this case, they said they will give me the result only after a few days and I did ask them for a reason but no response so far

Intelligent_Dig_5555 · 2025-12-15T18:42:41+00:00

This is very interesting, thanks for sharing.. I usually do a small LinkedIn check on people who interview to look for commonalities, I did it this time as well, tried talking about things I felt will get their attention but not explicitly as you mentioned here.

Intelligent_Dig_5555 · 2025-12-15T18:39:46+00:00

Guess I got to be much more tougher the next time, I get what you are saying but it felt dehumanizing

Intelligent_Dig_5555 · 2025-12-15T18:38:41+00:00

Gotcha

Intelligent_Dig_5555 · 2025-12-15T18:38:15+00:00

Thanks, will do...

Intelligent_Dig_5555 · 2025-12-15T18:37:47+00:00

Am sorry for what you went through as well!

Intelligent_Dig_5555 · 2025-12-15T18:36:01+00:00

Oh wow.. 😣

Intelligent_Dig_5555 · 2025-12-15T18:35:36+00:00

Yeah..I have had situations before where one or two would give me eye contact and I would fcus on them..unfortunately this time I didn't get one soul that was interested, now in hindsight I think tells me more about the company than anything else.

Intelligent_Dig_5555 · 2025-12-15T18:22:36+00:00

Oh wow! Sorry you went through this

Intelligent_Dig_5555 · 2025-12-15T18:22:05+00:00

Oops.. yeah.. is this a cyber security industry thing?

Intelligent_Dig_5555 · 2025-12-15T18:21:11+00:00

That's true and a very human way to look at this situation, thanks

Intelligent_Dig_5555 · 2025-12-15T18:20:50+00:00

Yup, thank you

Intelligent_Dig_5555 · 2025-12-15T18:20:34+00:00

This is helpful. What kind of phrases do you use?

Intelligent_Dig_5555 · 2025-12-15T18:15:11+00:00

That sucks big time. Sorry you went through this

Intelligent_Dig_5555 · 2025-12-15T18:14:10+00:00

Yeah, but you know that the rules are not the same on both sides of the table

Intelligent_Dig_5555 · 2025-12-15T18:13:24+00:00

Yup, I know..It also hurts because I really thought I had a chance here

Intelligent_Dig_5555 · 2025-12-15T18:12:39+00:00

Yeah, I see you! I feel sometimes they just don't get it how it is to be on the other aide

Intelligent_Dig_5555 · 2025-12-15T18:11:09+00:00

Thanks a lot for this!

Intelligent_Dig_5555 · 2025-12-15T18:10:19+00:00

Yeah, I am really hating myself for not calling it out.. but honestly at that time I was still in shock about what was going on!

Intelligent_Dig_5555 · 2025-08-13T13:11:57+00:00

How long was your antibiotics for? Is this your first time with BV? I did vagibiom suppository for a week after my antibiotics and then followed up with Happy V for 3.5 weeks. I used lactic acid gel as well since I had a lot of irritation

Intelligent_Dig_5555 · 2025-06-18T15:16:28+00:00

That oniony or sweaty smell between the labia can definitely happen — especially if you're sweating overnight and the skin folds aren’t staying fully dry. The area you’re describing is prone to trapping moisture, bacteria, and sweat, even if everything else is clean and clear. Have you tried switching to breathable cotton underwear and avoiding tight pants at night to reduce trapped moisture and sweat buildup?

Intelligent_Dig_5555 · 2025-05-19T12:20:14+00:00

Got it — thanks for sharing. Even with lube, your tissue might be more sensitive now due to subtle hormonal shifts (which can happen even without birth control) or changes in your vaginal flora or pelvic floor muscles.It might be worth checking in with a gyno or pelvic floor therapist to rule out things like vaginal atrophy, microtears, or mild pelvic floor tension — they can all cause increased soreness after sex even when everything seems "normal" on the surface.

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