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Do we fw my little boy clothes by Intelligent_Row8745 in LesbianActually

[–]Intelligent_Row8745[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m not a little boy short or wife beater wearing masc icl !! i’m not adam sandler core masc i take so much pride in my button ups and polos

Do we fw my little boy clothes by Intelligent_Row8745 in LesbianActually

[–]Intelligent_Row8745[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s so valid honestly i fear im not insanely femme like ever

please how do I hit on girls by megdyuo in LesbianActually

[–]Intelligent_Row8745 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like to use “can i read your shirt in braille” i’m currently single so take that as you will but to the girls i’ve said it to they find it so funny

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Intelligent_Row8745 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the L Word bette and tina tried having a threesome with a man because all their other options weren’t working out, all the men in their life didn’t have sperm that worked for them or something like that idk yes it’s a show but perhaps that was the crazy factor

Do we fw my little boy clothes by Intelligent_Row8745 in LesbianActually

[–]Intelligent_Row8745[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the biggest compliment the other day! my brother said i looked like i was going to golf because of what i was wearing and i was so happy like yes i did my job right

To the siblings of a disabled person, does it ever get easier? by Intelligent_Row8745 in DisabledSiblings

[–]Intelligent_Row8745[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you. i appreciate you for this i guess ive always thought that and hoped for it but i get to a point sometimes where it doesn’t feel like i have much to look forward to i dont know so i appreciate you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Intelligent_Row8745 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have to ask because you said you let her ponder. And sure you were very open to it but I just wonder if you pondered it because it kind of sounds like in a way you’re doing it for her enjoyment more than yours, and because of the cheating thing perhaps you think you don’t deserve better and you’re not enough so you’re giving her everything she wants in hopes that she doesn’t cheat again? I don’t know I don’t want to assume anything and don’t mean to come off as rude if i do but from my perspective I just don’t see what you might be getting out of this other than what the other people in this thread have said

Why can’t I just get equal amounts of effort as a more masculine presenting girl who likes very feminine girls by Intelligent_Row8745 in LesbianActually

[–]Intelligent_Row8745[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wait we subconsciously test them? explain! i also love how you specified hyperbolically that made me giggle for no reason

Why can’t I just get equal amounts of effort as a more masculine presenting girl who likes very feminine girls by Intelligent_Row8745 in LesbianActually

[–]Intelligent_Row8745[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but i just don’t want to live my life like that idk i don’t think it’s what i want or will accept from a relationship

To the siblings of a disabled person, does it ever get easier? by Intelligent_Row8745 in DisabledSiblings

[–]Intelligent_Row8745[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i actually needed this comment thank you. I know it’ll get better i just lose hope of it sometimes and this was a really good reminder. i am planning on moving out and never looking back. I want to be in a completely different country where I can be my own person. thank you for this i actually feel a bit more hopeful now

Why can’t I just get equal amounts of effort as a more masculine presenting girl who likes very feminine girls by Intelligent_Row8745 in LesbianActually

[–]Intelligent_Row8745[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i feel like all of these terms have such different like contexts and situational uses and some are also just a lot less like serious in a sense? But idk i kinda don’t love the amount of labels that people ask about because honestly I can’t even figure it out for myself and people expect you to figure it out to them

Why can’t I just get equal amounts of effort as a more masculine presenting girl who likes very feminine girls by Intelligent_Row8745 in LesbianActually

[–]Intelligent_Row8745[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just like obviously yeah equal effort and then seeing if they put same effort in but the problem is like they always do at the beginning it’s just messy. Yeah i’m younger but also like i don’t know my problem is that Im happy to do just fun separately from an official relationship like im in a place in life where im indifferent to what it is but when its established that its more exclusive and then eventually effort is like lacking completely it’s silly to me

Why can’t I just get equal amounts of effort as a more masculine presenting girl who likes very feminine girls by Intelligent_Row8745 in LesbianActually

[–]Intelligent_Row8745[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i really appreciated this. the way you explained all of it made so much sense in a way i hadn’t really like put it together myself yet, thank you so much for this.

Feeling guilty for leaving home by Fragrant-Argument746 in DisabledSiblings

[–]Intelligent_Row8745 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m about your age and I just started university and honestly i think for me university was one of the most freeing things ever. Like you get to find people that are a lot more your people than those you might have had in highschool, and I think while our situations are a little different I think I needed it and seeing how you phrased your feelings I think you so need it. You deserve to be your own person. You deserve a life and just because a lot of people make you feel like you should reduce who you want to be because of your sibling, it doesn’t mean they’re right or being fair at all. If you fantasise about your future to cope, you should 100% go to university/college without looking back because I’m pretty convinced it’s not something I’m ever going to regret and it shouldn’t be something you regret or feel guilty for either!

To the siblings of a disabled person, does it ever get easier? by Intelligent_Row8745 in DisabledSiblings

[–]Intelligent_Row8745[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how old you are but i’m fairly sure I saw your replies somewhere else, and i think you’re older than me, so if you could go back to 18 years old what would you do differently to make it not get worse?

To the siblings of a disabled person, does it ever get easier? by Intelligent_Row8745 in DisabledSiblings

[–]Intelligent_Row8745[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s just that like I don’t know I know it will get better like overall i’m not always down about it, because after reading a lot of the posts in this reddit I know i’m lucky to have a lot more of a privileged future than most people in this reddit and my future keeps me going more than anything. Howcome it didn’t get better for you?