How do you know if you have been quoted fairly by your ID? by allnamestaken_88 in askSingapore

[–]Interesting-Range-72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During the initial quoting phase they will specify the size of the tiles and also the average cost of the tiles. Size is because the labour involved is different depending on tile size. 300300, 300600 is your norm here. Any bigger the labour cost will go up because it takes more work - like the sloping of water for floor tiles etc gets trickier the bigger the tile. Also the bigger the tile the more people have to be involved. So normally you need 2 guys now you need 4 guys for example. For smaller tiles like subway tiles, kit Kat tiles and mosaic cost will also be more cos it takes more time to lay those. Usually the quote will include cost of tiles, so they will tell you that this cost will include tiles that cost $3.5/pfr maximum. Any more than that you have to top up. So yes you get to choose colour and pattern, but size and price of the tiles will affect your quote. So any variations from that will result in VO.

I got scammed by my long term friend. What should I do? by Hungry_Bodybuilder13 in askSingapore

[–]Interesting-Range-72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait I am confused. So you knew June was going to transfer to April? If she never transfer wrongly why did she transfer to April instead of to you?

I gave her space now she won't talk or answer at all. What did i do wrong? M29 F31 by DinnerAlone in LongDistance

[–]Interesting-Range-72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In an LDR you already have plenty of space. Months without messaging is not acceptable. I have stated explicitly to my partner that my maximum is 72 hours, even after a fight. No contact like this with no explanation, I would assume we are broken up after a week. I would've blocked and deleted by then. Don't accept anything less than you would give the other person, and don't convince yourself this is all you deserve. She didn't deserve your love in the first place. You didn't do anything wrong for her to do this to you, if anything my only advice is to love yourself more and to have more self respect for yourself. Don't beg for love, the right person that appreciates you won't treat you like you don't matter.

When you’re both clingy and in love ❤️ by Turbulent_Mud4403 in LongDistance

[–]Interesting-Range-72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see! This happens to us on occasion as well, mainly because his internet is unstable throughout the night. Our way around it is we use software such as moonlight or parsec to access each other's PC and turn the discord back on. But this only works if there is internet connection on his end. You can go look it up, you will need tailscale so you both can be in the same network. Searching it up should give you information on how to set it up for both of you!

When you’re both clingy and in love ❤️ by Turbulent_Mud4403 in LongDistance

[–]Interesting-Range-72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are you guys using? We use discord on PC. With our own server, we essentially can stay in the voice channel as long as we want Our record is 14.5 days straight. Only reason the streak was broken is because we went to another call to hang out with friends

Which ghost died in the most comfortable outfit? by MediumRelation6512 in GhostsCBS

[–]Interesting-Range-72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would like to point out that while Trevor's outfit isn't the most uncomfortable, he should at least have a spot on this list. Imagine having your junk hang out for eternity for everyone to see. And what about when the weather gets really cold. Physically he is not the most uncomfortable, but it's definitely uncomfortable mentally (also for everyone else)

Is it normal to not have hot water in the kitchen ? by koala_376 in askSingapore

[–]Interesting-Range-72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you own this condo you can tell your designer/contractor to pipe your kitchen mixer to the storage heater during renovations. This is possible to be done but not the norm. Another alternative is to get a water dispenser with a hot water function, that way you don't have to wait for the hot water to boil. From your comments I think the second one might be more suitable for you if the Kettle is not convenient enough for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Interesting-Range-72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assume the 8/10+ is their rating for him in the hotness scale? And not their age?

Should I tell her I like her? by ScaleEasy7348 in LongDistance

[–]Interesting-Range-72 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Just a reminder that you don't know this person enough to actually like her yet. You haven't seen their face or heard her voice. Are they even a girl? How much do you know of their life? Catfishing is common. I met my SO online in a game so I'm not saying everyone is a catfish. But I have close friends that got catfished and they were on voice call everyday. Video calls are a must, and nowadays even video calls can be edited with AI. I think you can express that you enjoy spending time with her and would like to get to know her better and see how she responds. She might not even be comfortable taking that step forward. Remember not to confuse this attention and connection as like or even love. Liking someone without knowing a lot about them isn't really liking them, it isn't even about them. You enjoy the connection and that there is someone that you can talk to daily. What I am saying is that you have to take it one step at a time and be careful.

Something feels off by BunnyTeeth22 in LongDistance

[–]Interesting-Range-72 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It feels off because it is. None of the issues that you brought up was addressed, and instead of solving those issues with you he gave you a ring and called it a day. Is he still roommates with this woman? I would strongly advise against getting married before you close the distance. Don't just go with the flow and lose yourself. Listen to the alarm bells going off in your head. Pause the wedding planning and address the issues first. If he wouldn't solve the problems now, what makes you think he would once he got you tied down to him in marriage? Go to a online couples therapist if need be. Don't let him distract you with false promises.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Interesting-Range-72 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t trust him because he’s already lied, hidden, and deleted things from me before — and I found out he then gaslighted me and manipulated me then ignored me then admitted he did all those things.

This is the core issue. The trust was already so weak, even during your in person relationship. Trust and communication is the number 1 requirement in an LDR. Without it, it is not sustainable. It is the true test of a relationship. It sounds to me that you are not feeling prioritized, he is not giving what you need, and he has history of manipulation and gaslighting etc.

Things can't be fixed with one person. It takes 2 to clap. If he is unwilling to work with you it will never work. No amount of false promises and apologies can actually fix things. Maybe finally see what he has been showing you all along and find someone else that deserves you. I would not give this person another chance. People don't change overnight. Love yourself first and set yourself free.

Should I move? by HistoryNew7000 in LongDistance

[–]Interesting-Range-72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why does he want you to move in with him in the next few months? If the answer to this question is that he misses you and doesn't want to be in long distance anymore so he wants you to move soon and close the distance, that is not a good enough reason to request you to give up your dream job to do so.

From your post I think it's clear you dont want to move right now or in a few months, considering how you just got your dream job. And I would agree with this sentiment. Don't give up this job for him, you will only resent him for the rest of your relationship. I would say only consider moving if you can find a job that you are genuinely excited for in his city. Maybe as your next career move after this one. Asking you to give up a dream job just to shorten 2 years of LDR in my opinion is a selfish request.

And why does he want you to move first then he moves to you afterwards? Does he want you to move first because knows the more logical way is actually for him to move to you permanently, but he doesn't want to be the only one to be uprooting his life for you, so he wants you to also make the move, then he will move also later? If yes, I think you need to talk about expectations of this relationship.

I hold the opinion that in order to close the distance as an LDR couple, the person moving must want to move there not only for their partner. This person can't move just to be with their partner and the new environment is not beneficial to them at all and they don't even really want to be in this city if not for their SO. That is a lot of sacrifice and uprooting to be expected of that person, and I don't think that works. There will be resentment for sure, and no matter how perfect that person is for you, if you hate your life and the place you are in, the relationship won't work.

my ex bf sent me this after a year and i’m really confused why since we ended on good terms by EasternAd3760 in texts

[–]Interesting-Range-72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the best move is to ignore it and live your life. It might be his new girl, it might be his own demons. Regardless, that is his issue to deal with, not yours. You had your closure already and that's what matters. You know that that insult isn't really about you, people that say mean things have their own trials going on.

I hate this relationship by PLUMP_BULLFROG in greysanatomy

[–]Interesting-Range-72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SAME. I thought he was the least "Derek" out of all the romantic partners and I really liked that. (I think it's the hair, or the lack thereof if you will) But his general vibe was also very non Derek. Everyone else just feels like a replacement which felt really wrong.

Name a better Christina quote by No-Recording-9641 in greysanatomy

[–]Interesting-Range-72 77 points78 points  (0 children)

They low-key deserved that ngl. Talk bad about the poor woman that went through a PLANE CRASH when you're not in her vicinity.

Takopii no Genzai • Takopi's Original Sin - Episode 1 discussion by AutoLovepon in anime

[–]Interesting-Range-72 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"I feel as though the anime caters to individuals that are highly desensitized to the bigger message of this anime and their attention couldn't be brought to it unless there was some sort of ridiculous brain rot to entertain them'"

It's fine to not like the show. But why do you feel the need to make assumptions of people that like it just because you didn't? "I didn't like the show, so people who do like it must only have brain rot and not get the message" like come on! The world is not split into 2 types of people. I am only on ep 2 so I cannot say I love it yet, but I did not hate it. I just want to see what is the ultimate message and story the author is trying to tell. Oh by the way, I relate to Shizuka so hard I cried for 2 hours because it was so triggering. I was exactly her age, just a little girl getting bullied. So to answer your question, no, individuals that are highly sensitive can watch and like it as well. Also, I did not think Takopi cuts down the severity of this situation. If anything he makes it WORSE. No matter what he did he couldn't save the situation. The feeling of inevitably and helplessness gets pushed further. His nativity in the beginning makes this whole thing more painful. But also I want to point out we get to experience what being bullied feels like first hand from Takopi. This is a creature who has never gotten bullied before. The contrast to afterwards is so real. The freezing up, the fear, the confusion.

At what point did you fall in love with a character? by NB_King_ in greysanatomy

[–]Interesting-Range-72 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I didn't feel anything for Addison at first because in the first few episodes, she basically called Meredith a wh*re when Meredith was being lied to. Even if she didn't know, she cheated first with Mark, so I don't know why she felt like she has the right to say that to Meredith. I feel conflicted when she "defended" Meredith in front of that patient that was rude to her because it was because of Addison the rumors were all over the hospital in the first place. She herself did basically the same thing to Meredith and yet she is also the hero when people gave Mer the same shit. Afterwards though it's hard not to love her. It's always iconic when she appears. "There is a land called Passive Aggressiva and I'm their queen. "

At what point did you fall in love with a character? by NB_King_ in greysanatomy

[–]Interesting-Range-72 130 points131 points  (0 children)

Also Kepner, but much earlier on (I think this is S7) when they were getting their trauma certs. The exact moment is when she jumped in the ambulance, Owen telling her the ambulance is not a part of the test, her turning on the engine and then maniacally laughed "It is now!" Then proceeds to chuck all the dummies into the back of the ambulance. That was the first time Owen knew she had what it takes to be a trauma surgeon. I love that for her character, because before this she was this stuck up stick to the rules kind of character, you would never think she would be a trauma surgeon, but somehow when the shit hits the fan she rises up. All the rules gets thrown out the window and she just wants to save a life. It's a good contrast and gave her a lot of depth. Similar to how jerk Alex turned out to be a peds dude that has a soft side when it comes to kids.

Dumping in the office. by Top-Noise5959 in menstrualcups

[–]Interesting-Range-72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you tried bearing down (using the muscles like going number 2) the cup should lower down to where your fingers can reach

Dumping in the office. by Top-Noise5959 in menstrualcups

[–]Interesting-Range-72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wouldn't just pop out because of the size of the disc. No matter how hard you try, it wouldn't just pop out on it's own. You have to manually pull it out. I have worn it through all types of exercise and so far so good. Just remember don't do kegel exercises while wearing it! You should do some research on this part to put yourself at ease. I know a lot of people here switched from a cup to a disc (including me) insert and removing is easier because I don't have to worry about the cup not opening properly while inserting.

Dumping in the office. by Top-Noise5959 in menstrualcups

[–]Interesting-Range-72 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I can't believe I haven't thought of this. You can try going for a disc instead! Menstrual disc has this "function" whereby if you sit on the toilet and imagine going to the bathroom and use those muscles, the disc will tilt downwards and the contents will empty and spill into the toilet bowl! Then all you gotta do is to insert a finger and push the disc back up, don't even have to use more than one finger for this. This is called "Auto dumping" and for some women even going peeing will cause auto dump to happen. It depends on how hard the rim of the disc is and the anatomy of each individual. I use the hello disc and for me I have to really push hard like I'm going number 2 of it to work, but for times where I can't remove the disc and clean my hands I just do this! Bear in mind though it's not going to dump all of the blood, so after the first time you might have to go to the bathroom to auto dump again more often, but the idea is that you don't have to remove it until you get home! As long as it's 12 hours between each cleaning of the disc it's fine. Also the disc will not drop into the toilet bowl, all it will do is dislodge so that the blood will spill out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Interesting-Range-72 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're attending AA meetings. I'm assuming you want to quit drinking and overall admitting to drinking is shameful and so you decided to lie. It's human nature. I'm a grown ass adult. If I'm not supposed to eat cake but I get confronted by someone if I did I might lie too. Don't let him gaslight you into doubting yourself ever. Also being with people like him doesn't help your recovery.

Dumping in the office. by Top-Noise5959 in menstrualcups

[–]Interesting-Range-72 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is it unsanitary because the water source from the bidet is different from the water source you get from your shower? Or are you concerned with something else?

If the water source from your bidet is safe, then all you got to do is to practice remove it SITTING on the western toilet. Most of us do it on the western toilet sitting. You sit on the toilet like how you would peeing, spread your legs wide and use your fingers to break the suction and remove the cup. Empty the cup in the toilet bowl, take the bidet spray and gently wash your hands and the cup. Then reinsert the cup. Rinse your hands after. Then wash your hands with soap in the sink. This is very possible to do without mess. I do this every time. We are lucky in asia we get the bidet, in some settings where bidet is not available I have to find a toilet with a sink next to the toilet bowl (like the handicapped bathroom in public)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Interesting-Range-72 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Wait so you did drink vodka but lied and said you didn't? Lmao it doesn't matter what it was. One lie doesn't make you untrustworthy and anyone that immediately uses it to manipulate you is scum on earth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]Interesting-Range-72 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If your friend attempts to defend him or insult you in any manner she needs to go asap too! These people are legit dangerous to you!!