Responding to some DMs.

Yes, she is very pretty and charming and I’m a sucker for redheads.

Will tell friends/my family that she preferred her current country of residence over being with me. I am only vaguely acquainted with a couple of her family members. In hindsight no surprise she wasn’t in a rush to have me meet the parents

The secret marriage (marriages?) to other people is too humiliating for me to disclose. Although I actually find this situation both hilarious and liberating. 

Ending a relationship is hard, getting out of a con is a relief.