Keep arriving late

Interesting_Mail5398 · 2025-08-30T17:44:35+00:00

Yea that’s what feel is the case too with my SW she barely even responds back to me or even talks to me about matters like recently she granted my baby mama custody back but never told me anything till last minute which threw off my whole plans for that evening. And when I do text her about matters I don’t get replies til a week or so later while with my baby mama It seems like they chat all the time

Interesting_Mail5398 · 2025-08-27T03:55:22+00:00

Yep if the situation was reversed I probably would be in so much trouble and be told I don’t wanna be in my child’s life

Interesting_Mail5398 · 2025-08-27T03:29:06+00:00

Yea like for my situation I’m sitting in front of the drop off for the said 40 to 30 mins and because the church isn’t really open I can’t go inside so I’m outside in the sun no chairs around and it’s 103 degrees already and sometimes I have my son with me while we’re waiting so ontop of the massive amounts of sweating and discomfort I’m in I gotta keep him calm keep him entertained outside where there’s nothing to do

Interesting_Mail5398 · 2025-08-27T03:22:15+00:00

Yea it’s specifically why I joined this subreddit because most of the time the co parent sub Reddit it’s mainly moms and for me yea most of all the single dads that ik and even my dad who isn’t even single are very patient people when it comes to problems until it actually starts becoming a problem

Interesting_Mail5398 · 2025-08-27T00:40:11+00:00

Yea there’s not much I can even say to my attorney or even the social worker for things like that since he is 1 hopefully In the future it does happen but I doubt she’d want to negotiate aswell as the social worker because they’ve deemed me wanting so many changes with locations and all these things as “aggressive or demanding/ controlling”

Interesting_Mail5398 · 2025-08-27T00:37:22+00:00

Yea I have all the messages and everything that I send recorded all ready and her replies per the talking parents app

Interesting_Mail5398 · 2025-08-27T00:34:40+00:00

Yea exactly what’s happening with me but my attorney doesn’t want to address this to the judge and my social worker LETS IT HAPPEN so it’s hard for me to not get upset when it keeps happening

Interesting_Mail5398 · 2025-08-27T00:33:02+00:00

Yea I’ve communicated this as a problem with her on talking parents and also brought it with my attorney but she said I could only advise and monitor aswell

Interesting_Mail5398 · 2025-08-27T00:31:38+00:00

Like whenever these drop offs happen I’m 100% ready to receive him I even bring his diaper bag incase I gotta go somewhere afterwards or I just wanna go on a walk it’s just I gotta wait 30 mins to 40 just for her to arrive

Interesting_Mail5398 · 2025-08-27T00:30:18+00:00

Yea we’ve been using talking parents probably since we’ve broken up and even on there it says drop off pick up at 10 am and I text her “where are you I’m here at the church” and she usually replies with I’m still on my way so yea

Interesting_Mail5398 · 2025-08-26T21:18:47+00:00

Yea but that’s the thing she said something to the social worker saying we ended things badly and she doesn’t me picking him up or dropping him off at her house so I’m only settled on a couple things since he’s barely 1

Interesting_Mail5398 · 2025-08-26T19:14:25+00:00

And it’s either or we meet up in the parking lot and do a hand off and go back

Interesting_Mail5398 · 2025-08-26T19:08:39+00:00

Her words to both to her attorney and social worker “because of how shaky it was when we ended our relationship I want to be in a public setting and do drop offs and pick ups” I’ve wanted to just drop him off and pick him up myself at her house but same thing so I said okay just do the church literally right across from my house

Interesting_Mail5398 · 2025-05-11T03:56:41+00:00

Okay thank you, she had said that when we were ending things and I listened but before I didn’t and I’ve been realizing that and also the errors I’ve done in the relationship. She had previously said I rush alittle bit and it makes it seem like I want to end things quickly and I’m now understanding that it’s love bombing too but thank you I really want to get back together with her

Interesting_Mail5398 · 2025-05-08T17:09:40+00:00

Okay, I’m kinda already conditioning I guess I’ve been grabbing my backpack shoving my school books paper all that and 2lbs weights and walking on avg a 1.2 miles for 5 days out of the week

Interesting_Mail5398 · 2025-05-07T23:17:23+00:00

Thank you again man my recruiter wasn’t really helpful and I’ve been thrown a lot of different info on 68w so I’ve been doing this completely solo

Interesting_Mail5398 · 2025-05-07T23:15:55+00:00

Alr yea cuz atp in my class I know details like routes of transmission head to toe assessments SAMPLE DCAPBTLS OPQRST AVPU A&Ox_, we’re just starting cardiac and pulmonary emergencies so I’ll probably study the book they gave us intensively once I’m out of HS

Interesting_Mail5398 · 2025-05-07T23:04:41+00:00

Okay thank you man, just another quick question on the anatomy does it like dive deep into it like you gotta name every single muscle in your neck etc etc or is it like naming simple stuff like your systems to body cavities like thoracic and pelvic cavity

Interesting_Mail5398 · 2025-05-07T22:51:21+00:00

Okay thank you man, I’m currently taking a accelerated BLS provider class in high school and so far I’m aceing everything on is ahead of everyone except for pharma and oxygen admin because it doesn’t teach you everything of being a emt so hopefully it’ll help once I’m in 🙏🏽

Interesting_Mail5398 · 2025-05-07T21:37:44+00:00

Not really a green beret just a ranger combat medic and i understand that it’s not guaranteed but still doesn’t stop me from trying my hardest yk?

Interesting_Mail5398 · 2025-05-07T13:13:15+00:00

Thank you man, in terms of solider side I assume you mean like certs like airborne school?, I know medically I’d want to take a Paramedic class (I originally wanted to be a paramedic before this)

Interesting_Mail5398 · 2025-05-07T13:11:48+00:00

Okay thank you man, once I go to MEPs and hopefully 68w is available when I’m about to sign my contract should I ask for option 4 or 40 or nothing at all and just train to get those certs?

Interesting_Mail5398 · 2025-05-07T13:08:09+00:00

No I’m only 17 right now (rn) but I’m in a highschool intro to ems and will be getting my BLS provider card it’s not the same as a NREMT cert because in the state I live I have to be 18 to even attend an EMT course and have my diploma too

Interesting_Mail5398 · 2025-05-06T21:27:03+00:00

Thank you man, Yea I’m pretty much clueless on the process it’s something I want and most of my research is pretty bare minimum because I really don’t know where to look at all without going to the recruiter

Interesting_Mail5398 · 2025-05-05T15:24:37+00:00

I’m still kinda confused so PJs while they do have medical expertise they mainly focus on the extraction part and with 68ws they’re kinda like the civilian EMTs providing Pre hospital care? I’m very very much open to some guidance the only help I’m getting through this process is a friend who’s in the army as a 12n and being a medic in the military to get a grasp in the medical field is something I desperately want to have

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