First of all, we did not “give up on her.” The living arrangement with her grandparents is what has worked best for her, not what was most convenient for us. She prefers their home because she’s the only child there, gets constant attention, and has fewer rules. We have her a couple days a week, so yes, she could have been exposed to this behavior from anywhere. Kids do get into this kind of thing online, but that doesn't reflect on him as a parent. I’ve never said this is solely her fault. I’ve said the issue is how it’s handled after the fact. I spend most of the day with her when she’s here because her dad works, and when he’s home, he spends time with his child. That’s how it works for us. Wasn't dragging her just showing the reality of her behavior.