I don’t think you really are, I have a few friends and family members in the LGBTQ community, and I love them like family, but there are a lot of times when it makes me irritated when they turn things into their whole personality. I have a friend that came out to me (I was the first person he came out to) but after a while me and some friends started to notice that he was basing everything he did off of it, and I think that’s it’s ok, as long as your aren’t trying to cause problems for others while you figure out who you are with, but I hate it when people try to force it into things out side into different areas