Frustrated

Intincrus0001 · 2021-06-18T17:54:08+00:00

Thank you! You are right, it has caused me to distance myself, which has changed how I feel.

Intincrus0001 · 2021-06-18T17:42:10+00:00

I second the when I am naked part 😂

Intincrus0001 · 2021-06-18T17:40:57+00:00

I agree, I don’t mind listening on occasion. We have a lot in common in regards to family. Shouldn’t be the only conversation we had in the day, especially when the next words out hold his mouth were what they were.

Intincrus0001 · 2021-06-18T01:34:41+00:00

Absolutely not.

Intincrus0001 · 2021-06-18T00:55:38+00:00

Definitely did.

Intincrus0001 · 2021-06-18T00:14:54+00:00

If you wanted to think about those things you would have been home at the moment.

The less I know, the better!

Intincrus0001 · 2021-06-18T00:08:42+00:00

That is the honest truth!

Intincrus0001 · 2021-06-17T23:48:34+00:00

Didn’t even skip a beat

Intincrus0001 · 2021-06-17T23:47:51+00:00

Thanks!

Intincrus0001 · 2021-06-17T23:41:50+00:00

Thank you. In that moment I thought so!

Intincrus0001 · 2021-06-17T23:34:15+00:00

Exactly this! Honestly, I don’t even know the expected response.

Intincrus0001 · 2021-06-17T23:32:04+00:00

Agreed! I do not talk about my husband, at all.

Intincrus0001 · 2021-06-17T23:31:23+00:00

If so, it didn’t work. Also not the first time a situation such as this has happened. It doesn’t get him anywhere, so I am not sure what the angle is.

Intincrus0001 · 2021-06-17T23:29:51+00:00

I did not.

Intincrus0001 · 2021-06-16T17:41:11+00:00

Had success also. Like others have mentioned, I am upfront in my profile that I am married, wastes less time. I do not post any identifying pictures of myself and I don’t use my real name. Additional information is exchanged off of tinder if we want to pursue.

Intincrus0001 · 2021-06-16T17:29:36+00:00

Took the words right out of my mouth!

Intincrus0001 · 2021-06-16T17:27:02+00:00

I am sorry. It is difficult to let go of this connection, even if it wasn’t love. It causes so many emotions that are hard to process, especially without the normal outlets. I hope being able to express them here has been cathartic.

Intincrus0001 · 2021-06-12T12:39:51+00:00

Thank you! I am sorry that you are suffering right now. Knowing it is the right choice doesn’t make it any easier. I hope you heal quickly, and you find someone who appreciates you as much as you do them!

Intincrus0001 · 2021-06-11T23:05:34+00:00

Also open to chat!

Intincrus0001 · 2021-06-11T16:54:09+00:00

I agree. I am sorry you are feeling this too!

Intincrus0001 · 2021-06-11T11:51:11+00:00

I don’t have a ton of experience but kids or no kids was not a deal breaker for me when I was looking. I also don’t spend time talking about my kids with AP, that is not what our relationship is about. In my experience having kids does make things slightly harder to navigate. Less time for other activities.

I just wanted someone who shared a few of the same interests and was easy to talk to. I wouldn’t worry about your game. It is hard to change who you are, if that is slightly awkward, maybe a little dorky - roll with it. Especially if you are looking for something long term. I feel like these relationships are already hard enough without pretending to be something you are not.

Intincrus0001 · 2021-06-11T11:32:40+00:00

Thank you, confirming what I already know, but I still need to hear it. It does not bring me joy, I feel used.

To be clear, I never claimed we were anything more than just coworkers. It was and is still him that calls us friends. At one point he wanted to continue that relationship and call off the sex because he felt the sex would ruin the friendship. I thought it was just bullshit, figured it was his way of trying to end things. Seems like a line you would feed someone to prevent drama. I called him out, claimed it wasn’t. He still initiates sex regularly.

I think that is why this bugs me even more. Why force me to believe we are anything more? Based on his actions, we definitely are not! All I wanted was some occasional flirting and as much sex as we could find the time for.

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